Screening/P411

[Lauren_xxx]

Help a newbie out please, I think its safe to say that I am A-Ok with my screening. I ask for references and wait for the ok, research username in the threads, ask for a personal photo (could be with 4 fingers in the air or 4 fingers in your ass, I dont care lol!). Im intrigued to learn about some new screening techniques and also I am looking for some help to get on P411. can anyone point me in the right direction?

thanks in advance,
xxx, Lauren

[Tennisguru]

I highly recommend p411 with a minimum number of provider okays that you feel comfortable with.

[Josmith12328]

Sent you a text. I will help you get on p411.

[Brooke Wilde]

Just a word of advice, the more you discuss your screening methods, the less useful they become. I also wouldn't ask this question openly in a coed area. All businesses/industries have "tricks of the trade" & that information should remain as concealed as possible. I'd never divulge exactly how I screen to the masses. When you do so you are giving people a heads up as to exactly what you are looking for thus allowing them a chance to "fake/create" that information.

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

^^^^ THIS!!!!

[Anna Nikkole]

I agree. Discussion about screening should be a no no. I just say "fast and easy" screening. Because it is if they decide to give me what I ask for. But to discuss what the actual screening is on a open forum isn't ok. I also would hope the mods would not allow it in the secret men's area. One could hope. But I am sure most ladies would be ok with a PM asking them. Some of us have been here for awhile and we all want the same thing. Safety!

[kytty]

It has been my experience so far that the really good guys, the really stand-up guys I have met so far are very open and helpful in screening. It seems like every time I have difficulty, finally verify that person and then see them that the meeting is flawed by something, whether that is their awful behavior or something else.

[Lauren_xxx]

Just a word of advice, the more you discuss your screening methods, the less useful they become. I also wouldn't ask this question openly in a coed area. All businesses/industries have "tricks of the trade" & that information should remain as concealed as possible. I'd never divulge exactly how I screen to the masses. When you do so you are giving people a heads up as to exactly what you are looking for thus allowing them a chance to "fake/create" that information.

wow! I didnt even think of that. thanks for the heads up!

[Lauren_xxx]

I agree. Discussion about screening should be a no no. I just say "fast and easy" screening. Because it is if they decide to give me what I ask for. But to discuss what the actual screening is on a open forum isn't ok. I also would hope the mods would not allow it in the secret men's area. One could hope. But I am sure most ladies would be ok with a PM asking them. Some of us have been here for awhile and we all want the same thing. Safety!

I understand what you're saying. but if I dont ask questions, I won't find an answer. if your screening is done right, you should not be affected by my open discussion. 😘

[ck1942]

OP already has learned some screening lessons.

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