Originally Posted by
Deja Tha Doll
Let me just say, I've only had a few relationships in my life. They were all long term. My first, I was with him for 3 years etc. My last relationship was 5 years ago. I left him and decided focusing on myself and progessing was a better decision. I have NEVER, I repeat NEVER, had an orgasm with any of my partners in previous relationships. I would probably chalk it up to all my exes being my age and for that part, young and inexperienced in pleasing their partners (let alone the dynamics of a female orgasm). I also think that they were indeed, too busy enjoying themselves. Being a "PLEASER" has allowed me to have and enjoy most sex, without myself ever orgasming, or that being the main goal. Also, just being able to watch someone get off to me, for me, and because of ME, has always done something real primal for me!! Learning to enjoy the animalistic, raw nature of sex in its purest form, no feelings, just physical action and pleasure, is such a beautiful thing!!!
I have always LOVED sex. I crave it. Thoughts surrounding sex probably encompass about 75% of my day to day life. The only thing I can honestly say that I miss about relationships, is being able to tell someone to fuck me several times a day, and in random public places whenever I get the urge. Other than that, I prefer my independent, drama-free/stress-free lifestyle lol.
I'd rather spend my time and efforts spoiling a gentleman who in turn knows how to spoil a deserving doll such as myself. I'm definitely picky in my own sense, for I only cater to a select few, moreso than a type. I often prefer building long term relations with my clients. I enjoy learning what they like as well as exploring boundaries, fantasies, and other areas they so choose. Knowing how to cater to ones specific wants and needs always helps make for an enjoyable time. I find the ones I chose to meet at my private place, are usually clients I feel more comfortable with, and seem to build stronger bonds of trust with.
I cam as well, and most times, my time is spent making sure all of the guys needs are met. Sometimes though, a guy actually WANTS to see you cum. I have learned how to cum in less than a minute with the help of a wand (and in as little as 3 minutes with Palm-a-la lol). I can cum and squirt at least 7x in 3 hours by myself. But it all depends on certain things and factors as well. Staying hydrated and eating lots of pineapples helps !
But I don't expect to orgasm everytime I have sex. Mind you, the only time I have fun, is in the hobby world (Something about purposefully denying my urges, only to release it to the most deserving freak of the week, always seems to make the event so much more ..... ORGASMIC!!! Gotta love edging!!!)
When I masturbate, my goal is ALWAYS to orgasm. But when I have sex, i always look to enjoy the overall experience of it all. My main objective is to please and provide pleasure when Im with someone else. Something about hearing a man moan, and watching a man cum for me, is so FREAKING HOT !!!!
BUT, I must admit, I gotta love and appreciate a guy who is intent on making me cum and pleasing me. I have met a select few who were talented enough to do so. I would love to thank them AGAIN (LOL) and brag on their mouth here, but Im sure they know who they are ;)
I usually have a thing for older guys (40+) as they are usually alot calmer (drama-free), know what they want, and seem to have alot more experience in taking care of a woman's wants and needs. Recently I had someone as young as 30 (who owes me a new shelf from IKEA btw lol) make me cum like no other. But it's usually 38-66 YOs that I've met that have the ability to make my pussy clench, quiver and cum all over their greedy mouths and faces. Some I had just met. Some at their place. Some at mine. All different ages, usually older than 38 though. But all of them had the same technique. That slow licking and sucking on my clit. That slow tonguing and poking below my swollen bud, teasing the wet, and widening entrance!!!!
I can name ten off top, who for sure will most likely make me cum everytime I see them. Pure talent. Unfortunately though, one went to Thailand, one got into a relationship, but I could never forget the one cowboy who managed to make me cum twice!!!! Lol. But even so, I have a few others I would drop things for, even though my pleasure isn't the main focus on the menu when we meet. I just happen to pick men who 90% of the time, I actually enjoy being around, through good screening, and better judgement of course.
But to answer the question, it is not so often that I meet a man with the ability to make me cum with his mouth. I have been able to cum with a nice cock inside of me with the help of a wand on my clit of course. Or with the help of a toy inside of me while he licks and plays with my clit. But me not having an orgasm doesn't mean I didn't enjoy myself though. Most times I will get soaked before a cock is ever inside of my pussy. Kissing gets me wet as well as feeling a guys hands slide over my body. Feeling a guy slowly stretch my ass cheeks apart as I'm on top makes me moan with delight. But many can attest that my pussy straight DROOLS when I'm sucking a sweet dick!!! Something about a guy feeding me his cock!!!
Yeah, cumming is great and can be the cherry on top of a session. (But I know how to cum if I want to get off.) Having an orgasm is definitely not what makes the session, nor is it something I expect, look for, or care about much if it doesn't happen for me. Because like I stated before, I'm a PLEASER by nature, but with anyone here, I'm a PROVIDER first. Here to provide you, with an experience that'll, no doubt, leave you cummin' back for more ;) Your wish is my command.
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