Considering taking a break for a while

[Guest 120220-1]

Hey guys,
I haven't made a solid decision yet but I think I might take a break for a while. Constantly being rejected and/or insulted online has made this not as enjoyable as it once was. For some reason it's okay to many people on here to talk down to the girls on here or make them feel bad about themselves but not once have I heard any of the girls saying your body isn't our type. Or you're not the one I wanted. Let's just be clear, you're paying for pussy. So I'm not sure what gives anyone the right to make any of these women, including myself, feel bad about the way we look, dress, talk, etc.

Man the guys nowadays have really made the hobby unenjoyable.

[chelseamorning]

There are a lot of really good guys on here girl. I have taken many breaks over the years and sometimes that’s needed. Just focus on you, if you need some time to reset nothing wrong with that. You can talk to me any time!

[Thomas48]

Going to hate to see you take a break. I just came back to this site and had my eye on you. But you need to take care of yourself first and always. Much love and respect

[Lindsey Lacey]

You are a lovely lady.

Negative people will attempt to ruin your shine.
You will be criticized and picked apart.
Even when you have given 100%.
Someone will find something to whine about.
And never mention all the good things.

"You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world. There is always someone that will hate peaches."

My best advice for everyone.

DO NOT TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY.!!!

Kind Regards,
Lindsey Lacey

[JohnnyNaked1]

Sincere apologies for my gender. BTW, sent you a PM. Take are of yourself!

[bobbyb1234]

I am in full agreement with Ms. Lacey. You cannot allow yourself to take rejection personally. I unfortunately have not made enough rounds down here, but I can tell you, many guys in the hobby are not very particular. Many of us just want to enjoy those fleeting moments of affection and appreciation that might have been lacking for some time. All you can do is keep on the path, staying positive and getting that validation from inside yourself and not from others.

[Reverseheadstock]

I say we get to Saturday next week and OP and I have us a cup of coffee. Or whip cream. Or something refreshing from Dirty Dan's Emporium of Delight. Some like it hot. That means some are just the kind of people we wish didn't didn't follow all the safety labels on electrical appliances.

[TinMan]

Excellent advice from Lindsey. A break may not be a bad idea, though, if you find your current mindset is keeping you from enjoying your sessions regardless of the client.

[Lindsey Lacey]

You are petite and pretty.
Presentation is everything.

If I were your friend.
I would suggest red lipstick and this dress for you.
Take a selfie or two...

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00K72TT7G/ref=ox_sc_saved_title_2?smid=A3IYM2VCPFWQ3K&psc=1

You would make the perfect petite Marilyn Monroe.
Re-Invent yourself.
For pictures.
For fun.

Kind Regards,
Lindsey Lacey

[TinMan]

Ooo...Marilyn! The pinup look is always a winner!

[Dallasguy1]

Hope you come with a positive mind set after a Break
Good luck !!

[Ranchguy]

Ms Lacey is about as classy as they come. What she says. Hang in there.

[Part_tymer]

I'm very sorry that you feel that way. I was actually having a conversation about this type of thing.

I worked in the service industry a long time ago and I found that some people just feel the need to make others feel like crap. My theory is that some people are just so unhappy that the only way to make themselves feel better is to make others feel as bad as they feel.

If you need a break, then that's probably what you should do. Go on a vacation, do something nice for yourself, etc. Sometimes a break (or vacation) is best thing.

[old school doc]

I agree with ignoring the negativity. It is important to not feed the trolls.

[Northeastguy903]

I agree with OSD! Who gives a shit what anyone thinks! It’s their loss sweetie. I think you’re absolutely gorgeous even though I haven’t met you but hopefully when you come back that will change.