ladies, how do I get this?

[sizedtofit]

So the term GFE seems to defy a true definition and I'm not getting what I'm looking for when using that term for what I want in a session. Ladies perhaps you can help...do I need to describe it differently or is what I want just not offered? I like an hour session with a couple of pops, I want to be "loved on" and by that I mean I want the provider to hug me a lot and shower me with kisses(face and body), constant body contact(you caressing me, holding my hand/s, eye contact, cuddling with me in-between rounds(arms around me head on chest type of stuff). I'm typically everything covered including bj but would like lots of dkf as well.
Essentially I want you to make love to me for an hour.

I thought all of this fit into the term GFE but have been proven wrong enough to warrant this post.

thanks and hopefully I'm not seeking a unicorn session

[The Monk]

So basically you want a REAL gfe experience and not just a provider gfe. You want the kind of attention a real lover would give you. I would say good luck with that. You're going to have to spell out exactly what you want as most gfe pro's will just give the standard gfe which may include DFK, BBBJ and Daty. They won't want to cuddle, caress, nuzzle and kiss you all over and especially not gaze into your eyes. They save that stuff for their real lovers, not the paid ones. They would rather suck your dick raw and drink your cum than show you any real affection.

I might be wrong but go ahead and request those things you want from your future ladies and report back what happens. It could be very enlightening.

[Greented]

eye contact = the ATF gold standard

[Green Eyed Shy Guy]

Contact Alleykat. She is hot, sensual and cool AF. She is open minded and will do whatever she can to meet your request because she wants you to leave happy. I would suggest sending her your link and don't write it out again. Make it clear that this is just your fantasy, because this could also be interpreted as potential stalking behavior. Also make sure you pay a premium because the extra IOP isn't free.

[sizedtofit]

Contact Alleykat. She is hot, sensual and cool AF. She is open minded and will do whatever she can to meet your request because she wants you to leave happy. I would suggest sending her your link and don't write it out again. Make it clear that this is just your fantasy, because this could also be interpreted as potential stalking behavior. Also make sure you pay a premium because the extra IOP isn't free.

From the number of views vs responses from the ladies this is not anything any of them are willing to provide; Good to know. I'll check out Alleykat per your recommendation, thanks.

[Austin Ellen]

You have to find someone who's basic personality is like what you described. When I was providing I was a lovebug. Totally. I loved to love on men. I was not a porn star experience. The best advice I can give you is what I was taught in the corporate world -- communication is the key to a successful relationship. Tell that lady you are interested in what you desire and see how she responds. Good luck sweetie.

So the term GFE seems to defy a true definition and I'm not getting what I'm looking for when using that term for what I want in a session. Ladies perhaps you can help...do I need to describe it differently or is what I want just not offered? I like an hour session with a couple of pops, I want to be "loved on" and by that I mean I want the provider to hug me a lot and shower me with kisses(face and body), constant body contact(you caressing me, holding my hand/s, eye contact, cuddling with me in-between rounds(arms around me head on chest type of stuff). I'm typically everything covered including bj but would like lots of dkf as well.
Essentially I want you to make love to me for an hour.

I thought all of this fit into the term GFE but have been proven wrong enough to warrant this post.

thanks and hopefully I'm not seeking a unicorn session

[DrSicilian]

Ellen-I would beg to differ- you were totally a PSE at times- LOL-and then just drifted into a GFE afterwards-xxx

[Sexy Charlotte]

I think a real GFE experience requires a real gentleman, something that is a rare find these days. Like my grandmother always said "you catch more flies with honey than vinegar." So be the honey bunny from the start, communicate with the lady like a gentleman, dress like you're on a date, be a gentleman and actually talk to her upon arrival like a gentleman, and leave the donation on the counter than excuse yourself to the restroom (thereby not making it a transactional experience).

All of these things make us ladies feel special and want to do all those things you would like. It's easy to have a really genuine lovely experience with a gentleman like this. Conversely doing exactly the opposite makes it super hard to provide a GFE experience.

There are good and bad people in the world. In this corner of the world there is a lot more bad than good. Find good and be honestly kind to that good. You won't need to request a GFE experience it will be a GFE experience.

❤️Charlie

[grumppy]

So basically you want a REAL gfe experience and not just a provider gfe. You want the kind of attention a real lover would give you. I would say good luck with that. You're going to have to spell out exactly what you want as most gfe pro's will just give the standard gfe which may include DFK, BBBJ and Daty. They won't want to cuddle, caress, nuzzle and kiss you all over and especially not gaze into your eyes. They save that stuff for their real lovers, not the paid ones. They would rather suck your dick raw and drink your cum than show you any real affection.

I might be wrong but go ahead and request those things you want from your future ladies and report back what happens. It could be very enlightening.

Sorry The Monk, you're wrong. I'm a newbie and my first and every experience since then has been a perfect example of a real GFE experience. I found a provider I treated just as CharlieTonight described and got back just as she described. Its been awesome. All I had to do was..... be myself, and I've gotten all the GFE I could want and then some.

[AlexandraSand]

I am a GFE. I like being Girl Friend and sex partner.
I like cuddling and body contact is most important to me.
We can satisfy our self by our-self, but we need other human to love on us and touch us. Good hug, can do sexual and healing wonders for isolated body, mind and soul.

By requesting 90 minutes date will allow you to get a second(maybe third) eruption, which is not provided in one hour date. When you find a lady that you like, you absolutely should describe your proffered date setting.
Good luck. Big hugs.

[Anandaman]

I think a real GFE experience requires a real gentleman, something that is a rare find these days. Like my grandmother always said "you catch more flies with honey than vinegar." So be the honey bunny from the start, communicate with the lady like a gentleman, dress like you're on a date, be a gentleman and actually talk to her upon arrival like a gentleman, and leave the donation on the counter than excuse yourself to the restroom (thereby not making it a transactional experience).

All of these things make us ladies feel special and want to do all those things you would like. It's easy to have a really genuine lovely experience with a gentleman like this. Conversely doing exactly the opposite makes it super hard to provide a GFE experience.

There are good and bad people in the world. In this corner of the world there is a lot more bad than good. Find good and be honestly kind to that good. You won't need to request a GFE experience it will be a GFE experience.

❤️Charlie

When I read the post by the Op, I thought of Charlie... :-) She is simply fantastic to spend time with. I agree with what she says as well as far as your behavior and the results you'll obtain.

Actually, just about ALL the girls I see are GFE and meet your description.... about half of them are visiting providers from Houston.

A'Man

[NikkiGhost]

Wait a minute... guys don't just want to blow their load and go? 🥲

[risn2theoccasion2]

Wait a minute... guys don't just want to blow their load and go? ��

There are those of us who savor the intimacy that a Girl Friend Experience provides. Cum and Go has never been my thing. I am specific in mentioning this in my initial introductions, hoping that if the Lady doesn't provide that she will either tell me to move on or not respond.

I also feel the Ladies who provide this generally feel more valued when the Gent treats her with the same affection and respect that he would a GF, rather than just use her as a cum dumpster. But, to each their own on both sides of the Hobby fence.

[NikkiGhost]

There are those of us who savor the intimacy that a Girl Friend Experience provides. Cum and Go has never been my thing. I am specific in mentioning this in my initial introductions, hoping that if the Lady doesn't provide that she will either tell me to move on or not respond.

I also feel the Ladies who provide this generally feel more valued when the Gent treats her with the same affection and respect that he would a GF, rather than just use her as a cum dumpster. But, to each their own on both sides of the Hobby fence.

I was being sarcastic love

[risn2theoccasion2]

I was being sarcastic love

I know, Beautiful. I was just expressing my opinion. I sincerely did not think you were serious.