Ladies: How many of you do this as a secret side job?

[Cc.goliath]

Reason why I ask is I’m always afraid of running into a female I know. Hence why I prefer to meet up with ones that show their face in pics or send me a head shot.

Do you ever ask the guys for a face pic?

[JessieJane]

Reason why I ask is I’m always afraid of running into a female I know. Hence why I prefer to meet up with ones that show their face in pics or send me a head shot.

Do you ever ask the guys for a face pic?

If this is a "secret life side job" why would a lady post her full face pic on here? Gents aren't posting pics of their face on here.... worrying about running into a lady somewhere in life LOL as a excuse to get a lady to post her face on the boards especially in 2020 is not a valid reason. For YEARS ladies have always exposed themselves while men hide behind handles.... to most ladies during these times discretion is VERY important to some ladies. Just my opinion.. hey we all have one. LOL.

[richard fitzwell]

Reason why I ask is I’m always afraid of running into a female I know. Hence why I prefer to meet up with ones that show their face in pics or send me a head shot.

Do you ever ask the guys for a face pic?

That an interesting question.

If this is a "secret life side job" why would a lady post her full face pic on here? Gents aren't posting pics of their face on here.... worrying about running into a lady somewhere in life LOL as a excuse to get a lady to post her face on the boards especially in 2020 is not a valid reason. For YEARS ladies have always exposed themselves while men hide behind handles.... to most ladies during these times discretion is VERY important to some ladies. Just my opinion.. hey we all have one. LOL.

I don’t think the OP is trying to get ladies to show their face, just simply stating that he tends to see ladies that show their faces in their post or send him a face photo.

I sometimes wonder about running into someone that knows my S/O. Lmao! I don’t really mind the ladies that don’t post photos of their face on here because I understand their need for discretion too. It has not happened to me yet, but I worry about showing up and she turns out to look like a bulldog in the face. Lmao. Then time has been wasted and now I have to set up a new appointment.

[JessieJane]

That an interesting question.



I don’t think the OP is trying to get ladies to show their face, just simply stating that he tends to see ladies that show their faces in their post or send him a face photo.

I sometimes wonder about running into someone that knows my S/O. Lmao! I don’t really mind the ladies that don’t post photos of their face on here because I understand their need for discretion too. It has not happened to me yet, but I worry about showing up and she turns out to look like a bulldog in the face. Lmao. Then time has been wasted and now I have to set up a new appointment.

OMG knows your SO. I never thought of that... I guess that's why some men dont hobby in their area of where their everyday life could be compromised. Geez.. that would stress me the hell out !! LOL !!

Me personally Im not sending a guy a personal photo(head shot) I used to post my full face. Not anymore due to all of the "activity" from LE. Im also not sending it for him to share in the mens area LOL. I try to post a half face pic to give a gent a idea... of what I look like with still being discreet.

[Champagne Brown]

OMG knows your SO. I never thought of that... I guess that's why some men dont hobby in their area of where their everyday life could be compromised. Geez.. that would stress me the hell out !! LOL !!

Me personally Im not sending a guy a personal photo(head shot) I used to post my full face. Not anymore due to all of the "activity" from LE. Im also not sending it for him to share in the mens area LOL. I try to post a half face pic to give a gent a idea... of what I look like with still being discreet.

When I was living houston, my husbands ex best friend saw my ad and booked appt.. He also was the best man at our wedding, hadn't seen him since 1998, I was 18 then(in Austin Tx).

This man knew who I was by seeing photos online, but all I can say what a friend if they were still friends..

I can see why one may not want to show their face, I've had to do it a few times due to folks putting the government in my life.. Houston can be cut throat, and I can understand respecting your privacy.

I also can understand his, but men take a risk anyway when they decide to cheat.. It don't matter who the girl is, they can just be slipping one day, and bam busted. If it's his comfort zone to see girls with face shots that's cool, and some girls may not have a issue sending a face pic if asked. It doesnt hurt to try.

[Rattlers26]

Interesting thread. Couple really funny stories, thanks for sharing. Ran into my SB one time with wife in tow. We shared a glance, a wink, a meet by the bathroom for a kiss, and a laugh. She was one cool chick.

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

This is not a side gig for me. This is a life/career choice I made a looonnnngggg time ago LOL 19 years this month. I call it my "Wh*reVersary"

I've also always shown my face in pics. Well......there was the brief time right after I came back from my short retirement that I hid my face. But that was because my confidence was low at the time.

I don't really care about being recognized when I'm out in public anymore. I am not ashamed of what I do for a living. My now adult aged children are not ashamed of what I do for a living. My Mother is not ashamed of what I do for a living. I couldn't care less about what my brothers think. They're assholes. lol

My Dad passed about a year after I started. He was such a Dog lol He kinda thought it was cool when he heard - not in a creepy way. Just that he was a frequenter of the Chicken Ranch back in the day and had great admiration for the Ladies in this industry.

Since most men that see providers have SO's and could possibly lose their jobs if it was found out that they hobby.....I totally understand why they hide behind handles here on the boards. But, as anyone that actually reads my profile can see, I do ask for a face pic for my screening. But that is to insure my safety.
Awesome deterrent for bad guys. LOL No dude that is out to do me harm is gonna give up that info. Would be like dropping your wallet at the scene of a crime.

I have seen a few of my clients while out in public. Hell.....I've even had a short friendly exchange with a client's wife at the grocery store once.
Poor guy. lmao I never gave a hint tho. It was so funny.....one of my daughters was with me and she noticed his reaction. As we were loading bags into the trunk she said "That guy was a client wasn't he? He looked terrified when he saw you!"

[JessieJane]

This is not a side gig for me. This is a life/career choice I made a looonnnngggg time ago LOL 19 years this month. I call it my "Wh*reVersary"

I've also always shown my face in pics. Well......there was the brief time right after I came back from my short retirement that I hid my face. But that was because my confidence was low at the time.

I don't really care about being recognized when I'm out in public anymore. I am not ashamed of what I do for a living. My now adult aged children are not ashamed of what I do for a living. My Mother is not ashamed of what I do for a living. I couldn't care less about what my brothers think. They're assholes. lol

My Dad passed about a year after I started. He was such a Dog lol He kinda thought it was cool when he heard - not in a creepy way. Just that he was a frequenter of the Chicken Ranch back in the day and had great admiration for the Ladies in this industry.

Since most men that see providers have SO's and could possibly lose their jobs if it was found out that they hobby.....I totally understand why they hide behind handles here on the boards. But, as anyone that actually reads my profile can see, I do ask for a face pic for my screening. But that is to insure my safety.
Awesome deterrent for bad guys. LOL No dude that is out to do me harm is gonna give up that info. Would be like dropping your wallet at the scene of a crime.

I have seen a few of my clients while out in public. Hell.....I've even had a short friendly exchange with a client's wife at the grocery store once.
Poor guy. lmao I never gave a hint tho. It was so funny.....one of my daughters was with me and she noticed his reaction. As we were loading bags into the trunk she said "That guy was a client wasn't he? He looked terrified when he saw you!"

OMG that's hilarious... I have had this happen too but it was more of a double glance and turn to walk away. In Austin I had one approach me. I was at Chilis at the bar by my hotel. I didn't mind much but hell Im glad I haven't had that situation. Plus I down play myself ALOT in public, hair in a messy bun.. light makeup lol regular girl next door.

[RoboCock]

Hell.....I've even had a short friendly exchange with a client's wife at the grocery store once.
Poor guy. lmao I never gave a hint tho. It was so funny.....one of my daughters was with me and she noticed his reaction. As we were loading bags into the trunk she said "That guy was a client wasn't he? He looked terrified when he saw you!"

LMAO, I nearly choked on my coffee Krystal!

So the big question is, did that guy remain a client?

[richard fitzwell]

That’s a good question, Rogue!

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

LMAO, I nearly choked on my coffee Krystal!

So the big question is, did that guy remain a client?

Yep

[Oral Empress]

This is not a side gig for me. This is a life/career choice I made a looonnnngggg time ago LOL 19 years this month. I call it my "Wh*reVersary"

I've also always shown my face in pics. Well......there was the brief time right after I came back from my short retirement that I hid my face. But that was because my confidence was low at the time.

I don't really care about being recognized when I'm out in public anymore. I am not ashamed of what I do for a living. My now adult aged children are not ashamed of what I do for a living. My Mother is not ashamed of what I do for a living. I couldn't care less about what my brothers think. They're assholes. lol

My Dad passed about a year after I started. He was such a Dog lol He kinda thought it was cool when he heard - not in a creepy way. Just that he was a frequenter of the Chicken Ranch back in the day and had great admiration for the Ladies in this industry.

Since most men that see providers have SO's and could possibly lose their jobs if it was found out that they hobby.....I totally understand why they hide behind handles here on the boards. But, as anyone that actually reads my profile can see, I do ask for a face pic for my screening. But that is to insure my safety.
Awesome deterrent for bad guys. LOL No dude that is out to do me harm is gonna give up that info. Would be like dropping your wallet at the scene of a crime.

I have seen a few of my clients while out in public. Hell.....I've even had a short friendly exchange with a client's wife at the grocery store once.
Poor guy. lmao I never gave a hint tho. It was so funny.....one of my daughters was with me and she noticed his reaction. As we were loading bags into the trunk she said "That guy was a client wasn't he? He looked terrified when he saw you!"

DYING over that story lol
I've got one y'all might enjoy:

Waaaay back when I first got started, I was also a server at IHOP. A client came in with his family (wife and 3 kids), his parents, her parents, and I think her uncle? They got sat in my section, and the hostess came to give me their drink orders and appetizers they'd already decided on. Another server helped me take their drinks out, he asked them if they were ready, they said no, so we ducked back into the kitchen to grab the apps.

At this point, this guy had not noticed me, nor I him. I grab the apps, tell the other server I got it from there, and head back out to the floor. As I'm coordinating what goes where, the uncle makes a pass at me, comments on my chest size, and elbows my client trying to get some kind of support. The client looks up, looks me over, and then blanched as pale and white as the ranch dipping sauce I'd just given his kids for the appetizer sampler.

Not gonna lie, I felt a rush of panic. I was sending laser beams of psychic screaming at him, praying to whatever deity was listening that this motherfucker was not about to out the both of us, because this was during the time I was terrified of people finding out. Oh the shame, the disgrace, the dishonor! *clutches pearls*

Somehow I kept my face neutral, I don't know how, mystery to this day, and the poor bastard managed to regain oxygen to his brain enough to tell the uncle to stop "harassing the staff" and quit "talking about women like objects in front of his daughters". I think that was the moment I felt safe to breathe again, like "okay, he's not a total idiot, we can get through this". I took their orders, served everything up, helped wrangle the kids and keep them entertained (I LOVED serving kids, make the munchkin happy, easy tips from the parents, babam!), and everything was smooth from there, despite having to actively dodge the uncle's hands every time I rounded the table.

The client, his parents, and her parents tipped nicely on their card receipts, the uncle wrote his phone number and a lewd comment on his, and the client's wife thanked me for being so patient with the kids, told me it was so nice to have actually eaten her food while it was still hot instead of wrestling with her trio of elementary-schoolers (feels mama, feels), and asked me if I'd ever consider babysitting!

A few minutes after they left the building, the client came back inside and started rifling around the table. Thinking he'd left something behind, I went to ask him if he needed help. He pulled his wallet out from under his chair (which had NOT been under there when he left), and said "no, I got it, all good," and walked out the door. I shrugged and started stacking plates up to clear the table, and found two $100 bills wrapped up in a napkin (I nearly threw it away!). On the napkin, he had scrawled, "thank you for maintaining your poise! You understand though, I don't think we should see each other again!"

Its been 8 years since then. My blood family still has no idea about my intermittent profession, and my keeping them in the dark is more about not wanting to have to deal with their questions than giving a rat's ass about their opinions. ALL of my friends are fully aware of what I do, and it currently is my side hustle to help fund the businesses I've always wanted to build. I do live a double life, but it's run that way out of a desire for peace and privacy in my daily life, not fear or shame. To be completely honest, if the legal atmosphere adjusts in favor of sex work, I'll be one of the first ones to be completely open about my experiences. This line of work has been a source of so many good things and people in my life, and I've grown into someone that simply would not exist had I not been in it, and I like her.

I guess the short answer to your question would be... No, it's not a "secret". It's just privileged information bestowed upon those who won't use it to be a thorn in my side or a pain in my ass! Lol

[Italia DiBella]

Reason why I ask is I’m always afraid of running into a female I know. Hence why I prefer to meet up with ones that show their face in pics or send me a head shot.

Do you ever ask the guys for a face pic?

The few civvy/family people in my life that matter know all my beeswax soooo.

No, this isn't a secret side job. lol
It's my "me time" away from civvy work and civvy business.

I've never asked for full face pics but gents will often send one on their own.
It's a nice way of breaking the ice and I feel at ease knowing it's not someone I already know as in a civvy friend or family member.