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    While I can’t imagine the frustration of providers (no one would pay to see me for sure), my biggest issue is false advertising. When a provider presents themselves in a certain way, but when you meet ladies are poorly groomed, live in a messy place, have an attitude of “hurry up & get it over with” I have a difficult time paying full price for sub-standard service.

    If I go to a restaurant and the food is not properly prepared, the server is slow or worse tries to rush me out, makes excuses for the bad service I ask for the manager and frankly expect at least part of the meal will be removed from the bill. I will, however, still leave a tip because the waiter/waitress brought the food, but it will be much less than what I would have given for proper service in the hope that that will motivate them to perform properly the next time. Unfortunately, often the response is to attack the poster instead of making some effort to reflect, see if there is merit to the post, and change their behavior accordingly. The fact that providers choose this attack mentality so frequently is disappointing to me because everyone could have a better experience if as much thought was put into changing the offensive behavior as personally attacking the critic.

    Although I have been in a few terrible situations, I have done what I came to do & left having paid the agreed amount. I consider that a learning experience and although I am hesitant to write negative reviews, mainly because some providers or agencies have false hobbyist accounts so that they can see what reviews say about them, or what is posted in the Locker Room. I will instead contact hobbyists directly who are asking questions about a provider I have seen or had contact with so that they will have more information to make a decision based on all of the information available. Isn’t that what this site and others like it are for?

    Finally, I understand the frustration of both sides, but I disagree that service providers should be paid in full for poor service, just the same as I believe that providers should be able to refuse service to hobbyists who they don’t find acceptable (poor hygiene, rude or abusive behavior).

    I’m sure that I will catch hell for this, but that’s OK. We are all entitled to our opinions. There is nothing to say that mine is right or wrong. Like the saying goes,”Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one & it stinks,” but hope fully not if Greek is on the menu. Ha

    Maybe my ideas are a bit Pollyanna, but it is the way I believe things, especially here, should work.
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    You aren't getting any hell from me intelligent man.
    But let me add to your opinion.
    Opinions aren't/shouldn't be based on someone they haven't (seen).
    The lady they haven't seen is being demonized about CBJ's & GPS accusations.
    You know there is a big difference between a Mercedes-Benz & a Nissan.
    The prices are very different.
    Her body is a definite Mercedes Benz in comparison to my fat ass & therefore she is in greater demand.
    People shouldn't complain about something they have never experienced
    You don't go into a Mercedes-Benz office & complain about the prices.
    Give the same RESPECT !!!!
    It all boils down to some wanting something they can't afford so they go on the attack.
    She can afford to charge what ever she wants with a body of a porn star.

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    I apologize. I didn’t mean to upset you so much. I did believe that some would not appreciate another opinion as I stated.

    I never complained about anyone’s price. How a provider values her body is entirely up to her. No problem there. However if the Mercedes performs like a Sentra then I’m going to return it for a refund. I also stated that I only provide information that I have directly about any interaction I have had with a provider someone is asking about. Sometimes that interaction is only communication where myself or the Mercedes have decided not to meet for whatever reason.

    Bottom line is that this is a business transaction. If I’m not satisfied with the item I return it for a refund, sometimes minus a restocking fee. I never complained about the services offered by the lady, so I’m not sure what that’s about unless you we’re getting to the other posts in the thread.

    I have paid $100 for a qv with a provider and I have paid $600 for one hour with one whose services I appreciated more than others. I know what I’m getting at both price points. That’s my responsibility and my choice just the same as you can charge whatever you wish for your service weather you’re a “fat ass” or a “porn star” (your words, definitely not mine).

    As I said earlier, I understand both sides of the transaction to a degree and would like to think that expressing my opinion wouldn’t hurt someone so much that they feel the need to attack it or be hurt by it. Unfortunately, in society at large, people seem to think that a “get ya, got ya” posture is necessary. We seem to have forgotten that sticks & stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.

    Once again, for clarity, I’m not complaining about someone else’s opinion about this particular issue, just that I can have one that differs and that’s allowed. I’m truly sorry that I hurt your or anyone else’s feelings by not agreeing, and hope that we can continue to engage in healthy debate about this and other issues.

    Best of luck to all and everyone stay safe out there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sawbonz54 View Post
    I apologize. I didn’t mean to upset you so much. I did believe that some would not appreciate another opinion as I stated.

    I never complained about anyone’s price. How a provider values her body is entirely up to her. No problem there. However if the Mercedes performs like a Sentra then I’m going to return it for a refund. I also stated that I only provide information that I have directly about any interaction I have had with a provider someone is asking about. Sometimes that interaction is only communication where myself or the Mercedes have decided not to meet for whatever reason.

    Bottom line is that this is a business transaction. If I’m not satisfied with the item I return it for a refund, sometimes minus a restocking fee. I never complained about the services offered by the lady, so I’m not sure what that’s about unless you we’re getting to the other posts in the thread.

    I have paid $100 for a qv with a provider and I have paid $600 for one hour with one whose services I appreciated more than others. I know what I’m getting at both price points. That’s my responsibility and my choice just the same as you can charge whatever you wish for your service weather you’re a “fat ass” or a “porn star” (your words, definitely not mine).

    As I said earlier, I understand both sides of the transaction to a degree and would like to think that expressing my opinion wouldn’t hurt someone so much that they feel the need to attack it or be hurt by it. Unfortunately, in society at large, people seem to think that a “get ya, got ya” posture is necessary. We seem to have forgotten that sticks & stones my break my bones, but words will never hurt me.

    Once again, for clarity, I’m not complaining about someone else’s opinion about this particular issue, just that I can have one that differs and that’s allowed. I’m truly sorry that I hurt your or anyone else’s feelings by not agreeing, and hope that we can continue to engage in healthy debate about this and other issues.

    Best of luck to all and everyone stay safe out there.
    I gave you a compliment in my first sentence. Shall I quote my exact words again? don't see anyone being upset intelligent man. Makes 2 compliments. This definitely isn't about emotions. Have a great night.

    All I did was ADD to your opinion with mine.
    I didn't disagree with anything you wrote.
    The whole thread got started because she wasn't given a chance, I am on point with the threads subject. Wasn't implying you did anything to the lady.
    Last edited by Universal; 09-20-2020 at 08:57 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Universal View Post
    I gave you a compliment in my first sentence. Shall I quote my exact words again? don't see anyone being upset intelligent man. Makes 2 compliments. This definitely isn't about emotions. Have a great night.

    All I did was ADD to your opinion with mine.
    I didn't disagree with anything you wrote.
    The whole thread got started because she wasn't given a chance, I am on point with the threads subject. Wasn't implying you did anything to the lady.

    I did see your compliment and I do appreciate it very much. Thank you. I luv your passion for your profession and your peers.

    Dasvidaniya And have a good night.

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    You know Russian?
    Omg, that's such a turn on. Wink

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    HAHAHAHA!!! No Russian for me. Just a simple idiot who watches too much TV.

    If we’re gonna continue like this we should at least exchange #’s so we can text instead. People might get the wrong idea here!

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    Best to omit the "flirts, assertions and etc." and concentrate on the OP's subject, please.

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    We did stop, on the 20th of September.


    Thanks for Noticing.
    Happy Hump Day CK

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    Miley, sounds like that guy was just nervous. Probably fairly new to this. Used “bad comments” on a review as an excuse to save face.

    He’s just a pussy. Unfortunately it happens.


    Also, I agree with the earlier post someone had. I wish every woman would post whether they are CBJ or not, or at least say so upon initial contact.
    Yeah, yeah, the head is so good that wearing a rubber for the BJ makes no difference.
    Bullshit. Been there, done that. It makes a HUGE difference. Not only with the feeling, but the visual as well. If by some chance I go to see a lady and I found out once I am there that she is CBJ only, I usually do not even bother with continuing the date. I tried that CBJ date before and it didn’t work out. Couldn’t even keep a hard on going. So I politely tell her the situation, pay her fee, and make sure to never contact her again. But I would rather know in advance and save my money.
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    Trash 3 days later = personal prob

    Quote Originally Posted by ck1942 View Post
    Best to omit the "flirts, assertions and etc." and concentrate on the OP's subject, please.


    tell us how you really feel.......


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    Quote Originally Posted by Universal View Post
    You aren't getting any hell from me intelligent man.
    But let me add to your opinion.
    Opinions aren't/shouldn't be based on someone they haven't (seen).
    The lady they haven't seen is being demonized about CBJ's & GPS accusations.
    You know there is a big difference between a Mercedes-Benz & a Nissan.
    The prices are very different.
    Her body is a definite Mercedes Benz in comparison to my fat ass & therefore she is in greater demand.
    People shouldn't complain about something they have never experienced
    You don't go into a Mercedes-Benz office & complain about the prices.
    Give the same RESPECT !!!!
    It all boils down to some wanting something they can't afford so they go on the attack.
    She can afford to charge what ever she wants with a body of a porn star.

    Facts!!
    XOXOXO MILEY RAY😘

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