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    Is it wrong to fall in love with your provider?

    So I’ve been having an awesome time meeting my providers but lately I have noticed my last two appointments I fell in love with them. I’m a sucker for fine ladies. I try not to but I can’t help it.

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    if you are in love but there're not reciprocity... bad thing.

    This is the risk of this job, don't loose your head and keep the objectivity.
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    Who is to tell you it’s wrong. However you just admitted you’re a sucker for the ladies, so is it really love?
    I made the mistake of doing it, but I’m finally over it now. Anyway, you feel like you’re in love and it makes you better in the sack, go for it!

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    You're in love with a persona, a character in a very intimate play where you are the star.
    Hard to be in love with someone you've never actually met

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    It may or may not be wrong but it will likely get expensive :)

    I’m quite fond of my ATFs but only one has taken advantage of that fondness. She put short term over long term.

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    Knott, if I only heard this years ago. Gotta live the mistake to see what you mean.

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    i enjoy a crush ... build it up to an infatuation .. great for the anticipation

    ... the meeting can certainly be love ... but it is fantasy. fun, but not real ... a lot of fun, actually. but still a transaction. easy enough for me to adore a certain type of provider. the ones who bring joy and fun into the encounter. if they give the appearance, the impression, of really enjoying activities. that they are doing exactly what they want to be doing, with me! what a gift! what a service!!!

    is she faking it? maybe .. if she is, that's fine. all part of the service. the good ones do this well. I mean, i don't want to be with a lady who doesn't want to be an escort. being with a woman who doesn't enjoy being an escort couldn't be any fun for me. of course ... if she is really good, i would not pick up on that. not sure how many are really that good. i mean, that can't be easy. but if they are that good... and i don't sense it ... then i got what i paid for.

    so ... i'm living my erotic, romantic fantasy ... and i'm in love, an hour or two at a time. i don't assume i'm touching the real person. i'm with (insert her handle) and i'm dodger ... those are the folks having the experience. but i'm enjoying the good time that dodger is giving to me!

    good providers are wonderful people, imo ... generous enough to share the charms with me! got to love them for that. they make the world, my world, more beautiful, more interesting, more fun!! gotta love them for that.

    i've never met her ... but naughty aughty is currently my ideal woman. i have an incredible hobby crush on her! https://home.ourhome2.net/member.php...-NaughtyAughty ... what is not to love about a woman like that! well ... i don't love that she is in SA .. but if she was in ATX ... i might be broke.
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    Quote Originally Posted by latin_atx View Post
    So I’ve been having an awesome time meeting my providers but lately I have noticed my last two appointments I fell in love with them. I’m a sucker for fine ladies. I try not to but I can’t help it.
    It's not morally wrong but it sure is stupid.

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    That's a strong word to use, there are some attractive, smart and amazing ladies here so I don't blame you, but you can't really say that having met them for an hour or two. Love is more that just sex, yes it can be passionate and romantic but you have to leave those feelings at the door when you leave. I like to think I'm friends with a lot of the ladies I see regularly, I enjoy their company and get a long swimmingly, but that's the extent of the relationship. Don't blur the lines.

    P.s whoever you saw must have done a number on you lol

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    to:purplereign-doing a number-exactly

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    You sound young. It’s only a business transaction. You’re paying for the sex. If they were really into you then you wouldn’t have to pay for sex.

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    You have probably put yourself on several ladies DNS list with this self alert . This is a P4P site NOT Match.com!! As several have mentioned here, this is a business for these ladies. They have their own lives outside the HW. They have BFs, GFs, SOs, etc., and DON’T want or need you bringing your emotional baggage to the table.

    Let’s keep it real here OP. For all parties benefit, check your emotions at the door.
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    Absolutely not.... I fall in love with them... one hour at a time

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    You are paying them to hang out with you. Do you pay your friends to hang out with you? Have you ever paid a girlfriend to hang out with you? Answer these questions and then ask yourself if "falling in love" helps you if your provider is not willing to transition from a paying companion to a relationship.

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