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Thread: Just curious... WHAT MADE HER YOUR ATF?

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    It's really hard to describe, but it is the chemistry. It's little things. Things that we remember that make us want to come back. One lady actually brought me a flower on her first visit. Didn't know me from Adam's house cat. Never had that happen before or since. I still remember.

    Another remembered what she was able to discern about my preferences in what she wore. One just really connected with things we shared in common outside the hobby (without needing to disclose personal identification). Sometimes it's the provider trusting me after a while to let me more fully pay attention to her needs and meet them. It's complex.

    To providers, I'd just say stick with what works for you. While its vitally important to maintain boundaries, be genuine. Listen and share within established hobby boundaries. In terms of BDC skills, I may be in a minority in saying this, but if you focus in what activities you enjoy most, are willing to gently guide the guy to participate in things you like, and be perceptive of his responses to you, chances are good that he will consider you among his short list of ATFs.

    Appearance matters more than age or body build. The guy will probably have taken that into account in scheduling the session in the first place. By appearance, I mean grooming, cleanliness, appropriate choice of clothing for arrival (if outcall). If your website photos are current and accurate that helps. Avoid distractions like taking calls or texting during the session.

    Also know that for those of us who travel, we may only get to see you once, but if the encounter is fabulous, you become an ATF and we do share that experience by reviews or back channel within the hobby. First impressions do matter.

    Just a few thoughts . . .
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    Heidii, I was hoping to make you my atf! I felt like we had great chemistry. Hopefully one day you'll return to SA for a visit.

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    Be genuine, well said.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stonesouth210 View Post
    Heidii, I was hoping to make you my atf! I felt like we had great chemistry. Hopefully one day you'll return to SA for a visit.
    Stone_ I was there and we did have amazing chemistry ❣️. I am moving back just not sure if it will be before baby or after...baby is end of November

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    chemistry and connection is key to success in a mind blowing play partner!

    great question OP!!
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    I have been in the hobby for six years, and only in the last 2 months have I found my first ATF. I travel for work frequently, so I have experienced the nuances that comes with different regions of the mainland.
    I have had great, mediocre, and horrible experiences, as I suspect most here have.
    What I enjoy most is similar as mentioned above, chemistry, cleanliness, IOP, and accurate advertising.
    Beyond that, I also seek sarcasm, intelligence, quick wittedness, dark humor, metalheads, confidence, and a good mix of dominance and compliance.
    As for my only ATF, I met her at a club, chatted for a while, then said I had a fellatio appointment coming up, and would return later. Her eyebrows shot up, repeated "fellatio" and asked if I wanted her number. Well duh!
    Prior to meeting this beautiful young lady, I might see someone I liked a second time, and rarely a third.
    The new lady had all of the qualities listed above, and was very untraditional in meetings; which lasted 3-7 hours, walks through town, on the beach, cooking dinner for me, Netflix and youtube browsing, bcd activities, massages, and finding time to watch sunrises/sunsets.
    Sadly, I only got to visit 9 times before going home 4,000 miles away.
    No expectations to find anything like that again, but if a lady at least has the primary qualifications above, I'll be looking them up for a round two for sure.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kimberly Kisses View Post
    They stay busy because not all guys want a full on pretend date with someone they're paying. Massage parlors and blow and Go are popular for a reason... no guilt, in and out, just a relaxing massage and release.

    They absolutely go back because there's no pretense and the rate is cheaper. As long as her attitude is not mechanical and fake, most don't care about all the other BS.

    In short, these guys are not career hobbyists. They just want to get off once a month and not deal with the alphabet soup.

    I'd disagree some, I like AMPs and it has zero to do with money, I actually see at least one of them weekly. I love asian chicks, I have several that I follow and actually see outside their place of business, we often have dinner and drinks. All 3 offer me something different depending on my mood but most importantly its hassle free and they actually are compassionate and not watching the clock the whole time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IBackdoor20 View Post
    I'd disagree some, I like AMPs and it has zero to do with money, I actually see at least one of them weekly. I love asian chicks, I have several that I follow and actually see outside their place of business, we often have dinner and drinks. All 3 offer me something different depending on my mood but most importantly its hassle free and they actually are compassionate and not watching the clock the whole time.
    Most asians are docile and submissive in general, that's why lol.

    I'm speaking from what I know personally from certain guts, not for anyone I have never met.

    These guys are rarely on review boards either.
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    I'd replace docile and submissive with kind and gentle, big difference, for me anyway.
    Your second sentence lost me, not sure what you were trying to say.
    They review plenty, just not where you are. You couldn't be any more wrong.

    I've been doing this for 40 yrs, absolutely a way of life for me and its a weekly thing, always has been.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IBackdoor20 View Post
    I'd replace docile and submissive with kind and gentle, big difference, for me anyway.
    Your second sentence lost me, not sure what you were trying to say.
    They review plenty, just not where you are. You couldn't be any more wrong.

    I've been doing this for 40 yrs, absolutely a way of life for me and its a weekly thing, always has been.
    I'm not talking about YOU or your personal experiences!

    My second sentence was supposed to read "Guys" not guts, so I see the confusion.


    You don't know the guys I'm even referring to because they're not on the boards, so how could you possibly say what they do or how wrong I am?

    I'm sorry, didn't know you were there with us during private time. These men don't go around talking about their escapades with anyone, much less a bunch of strangers.

    I'm not commenting on what you like or think. I don't know you. I'm talking about personal experiences and what guys have discussed with me, not guys in general. I don't see but one a week usually, so you're right, I'm not an old hand at this.

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