I agree, like p411. I always do my due diligence in trying to help gentlemen out whether it be by giving references, verifying on here or giving okays on p411. Doing my part to insure that this is as safe as it can be for the women involved is a big consideration for me. I believe, on here you have to have two female verifications to become verified. I could be wrong on that. I think the problem here might be that there aren't too many admin. I get the impression that C.K. (gentlemen who started this site) might not have a whole lot of help.