My LinkedIn Account? My job info? Ummm What?

[Texdot1]

OP, quit your bitching. To add to Secret’s post, you don’t make the providers rules, you live by them.

[DocHoliday]

I don’t care if you are a lady or a gentlemen nor do I care about the reason, do NOT give out your personal information!!!

[SpinnerCindy]

I don’t care if you are a lady or a gentlemen nor do I care about the reason, do NOT give out your personal information!!!

Hey Doc, Lol. so I just have one Question..... I was reading your signature, and this may be a oblivious question, what does bsc mean?...

Also, not to get off topic, sorry I couldn’t make it tonight! I would’ve loved to go! But I’m still recovering and what not..

[Universal]

Ladies, I can vouch for Sir Doughnutt - he is a cutie and a sweetie.

More of what ^^^she did.
I look for public/written vouches.
Dallas also does shout-out vouches and I LOVE IT.
This saves me time.
Can we PLEASE do more ?????
Every little thing helps.

[SpinnerCindy]

We've seen threads like this before.

The very short answer is no one is forcing you to see a provider.

Totally! To each their own!


Some guys filter out the providers they see by their reputation. So when they take the chance to meet said provider; they do their research. (Mostly) so if they see she’s well know and has never had issues per say before, they pull the plug... that’s what all this is about; taking the chance, with a 50/50 consequence. Simply said, if you don’t wanna take that chance, get a p411 or look elsewhere and find someone who your requirements meet.... if you’re so worried about your info, see someone who screens without it and takes the same chances you take.

it’s kind of give away, so I thought.

[dodger]

you don’t make the providers rules, you live by them.

…… or you don’t. You move on. Been said several times several ways. One of my favs is “women make the rules. Men get to choose.” Even so … OP gets to post his experience and opinions, as do we all. Didn’t anyone post: “oh, really! Well, then … I’ll change my ways!”

[saustin]

what does bsc mean?

Black Star Coop is a delightful brew pub in North Austin, though Bat Shit Crazy is the more common reference on this board.

[TxHarleyGuyV]

Being from waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay back in the day - long before ASPD, etc.......The 'golden rule' of hobbying - FOR BOTH PROVIDER AND HOBBYIST - should always be "Keep your fuckin' trap shut" Discretion, discretion, discretion. Sadly, those days are behind us now. Providers can ask for whatever the hell they want. Some hobbyists will comply. Others will not. Providers - just like hobbyists - are a dime a dozen (and this statement is not meant with any disrespect whatsoever to either party; it is what it is). If one doesn't like any rules or requirements put forth, the next one likely will. Remember folks, this here hobby (or industry on the whole) ain't exactly built on a foundation of everyone being forthright. And for you newbies out there, just remember two things and you'll be fine. Those being a) all providers keep records whether they profess to the contrary or not and b) once you provide your personal info, there ain't no taking it back; expect for it to be shared/circulated. EVERYONE - on both sides of the aisle - talks too damn much. If folks would simply go out there and have fun all the while keeping their own counsel, this whole thing of ours would be far less complicated (at times). Just my opinion, mind you.

[SirDoughnutt]

You can say I'm bitching, thats fine. Honestly I'm just trying to give you all some advice. Giving out your personal info is completely uncalled for, and these girls are out of line for asking for it. After you leave the fantasy for a couple hours, youre the one that has to return to something called real life. Yea, you might be a guy paying for sex but you're a human just like she is. You dont have to trust her anymore than she trusts you. At the end of the day, you're the guy with dollars that she wants.
As a person that's known many escorts on a personal level, before and after the business; believe me when I tell you, YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE THROWING AROUND YOUR PERSONAL INFO. That girl you just gave your info to could be a Meth Head, That girl could have a pimp ready to do god knows what with your info. That girl could be a criminal....Or that girl could be a completely honest, and cool human being. The point is, you have no idea who's who.

I just want to call it out now, before this becomes an all too common trend. But hey, you dont have to listen to me. Feel free to be a dumb ass and learn the hard way. I guess idiots need love too. Give her your credit card info and SSN number while you're at it.

[Deja Tha Doll]

I agree completely. For all the hype around deja the doll I had to stop my screening when she asked for my linked in and other personal info, despite having reputable references.
Anonymity is key around here and all these send me a pic of yourself ladies get an instant pass from me.

I've never asked you or anyone for a LinkedIn so please don't lie just because you're upset I wouldn't see you.

It's ALWAYS the ones who I don't/refuse to see that choose to talk bad about me lol. And I'm sure you won't be the last guy who gets upset about it either. I make it very known that I'm selective and picky. It's also listed in my reviews as well as my site, bio page and my ads, that I screen EVERYONE (as well as what all I expect during screening from you.) And anyone wanting to visit me at my private place in Temple (as well as newbies) will all be deep screened. I ALSO deep screen anyone with alerts on them as well. Having references means nothing if you can't get by the rest of my screening. Because you may have a good experience with one, and with another, not so much. And vice versa for the ladies with the gents.

Understand that if I invite and welcome you into my safe space, it is imperative to be congruent, build trust and for me to know a little about you before our first meet. I value safety and security foremost, as well as the need for vigilante privacy. Hence, my screening process.

Without exception, I require all first-time gentlemen to be screened. This is not only for my safety and comfort but for yours as well. In respect to privacy, any information conveyed remains strictly confidential.

If you're uncomfortable providing me with the info I require, please DO NOT waste your time or mine contacting me. Nonetheless complaining about it. - xo Deja

[AtxSam]

^^^^ Sheesh Deja. I don’t know about you guys, but now I’m hard. I love an assertive, intelligent, sassy, and beautiful woman. Especially when she’s right.

[SirDoughnutt]

I've never asked you or anyone for a LinkedIn so please don't lie just because you're upset I wouldn't see you.

It's ALWAYS the ones who I don't/refuse to see that choose to talk bad about me lol. And I'm sure you won't be the last guy who gets upset about it either. I make it very known that I'm selective and picky. It's also listed in my reviews as well as my site, bio page and my ads, that I screen EVERYONE (as well as what all I expect during screening from you.) And anyone wanting to visit me at my private place in Temple (as well as newbies) will all be deep screened. I ALSO deep screen anyone with alerts on them as well. Having references means nothing if you can't get by the rest of my screening. Because you may have a good experience with one, and with another, not so much. And vice versa for the ladies with the gents.

Understand that if I invite and welcome you into my safe space, it is imperative to be congruent, build trust and for me to know a little about you before our first meet. I value safety and security foremost, as well as the need for vigilante privacy. Hence, my screening process.

Without exception, I require all first-time gentlemen to be screened. This is not only for my safety and comfort but for yours as well. In respect to privacy, any information conveyed remains strictly confidential.

If you're uncomfortable providing me with the info I require, please DO NOT waste your time or mine contacting me. Nonetheless complaining about it. - xo Deja

No one here said anything is wrong with screening. This thread specifically talks about LinkedIn. If you claim you've never asked for anyones LinkedIn then why are you ranting about something noone disagrees about.

How does someone's LinkedIn account protect you in this safe place? How does knowing where someone works and what college they went to stop them from being a ashole?

At the end of the day. If you're really that paranoid and tons of good references isn't enough for you then dont bring random guys in your home to sell sex. Get a office job where you're safe place is safe.
Again, all this stutt works both ways. He's taking a risk just like you. Hobbyists get set up and robbed all the time. There's no excuse for asking for someone's personal info.

[The Infamous One]

#1 privacy is an illusion, in this day & age
#2 to each their own
#3 what one of the long timer’s said, “y’all all talk too fucking much.”
#4 if provider or hobbyist doesn’t like or want to divulge something, don’t do it and move the hell on. Sheezus.
#5 if someone will discuss you to others, they’ll discuss you too.

Having said that, as long as you’re not a danger to me or others...I do not want to know anything! I don’t care what you do, how much money you make, nor you’re damn drama! Lol. Just be discrete & respectful & you shall always be treated the same, in return.
I, personally, have enough drama at home & in my real world job on top of children. I do this shit to escape, have uncomplicated fun and make some extra $$ to give my family a life and/or chances I didn’t have! I’m too damn old (a dinosaur in hobby years) for any indiscretion, drama or bs! If you’re a client or provider who does this...please stay away! Lol. Good vibes only! I stay in my lane. You stay in yours! These are my only kinda peeps! After screening, I don’t ask questions! I don’t gossip and don’t like anyone who does!

[knottyman]

#1 privacy is an illusion, in this day & age
#2 to each their own
#3 what one of the long timer’s said, “y’all all talk too fucking much.”
#4 if provider or hobbyist doesn’t like or want to divulge something, don’t do it and move the hell on. Sheezus.
#5 if someone will discuss you to others, they’ll discuss you too.

Having said that, as long as you’re not a danger to me or others...I do not want to know anything! I don’t care what you do, how much money you make, nor you’re damn drama! Lol. Just be discrete & respectful & you shall always be treated the same, in return.
I, personally, have enough drama at home & in my real world job on top of children. I do this shit to escape, have uncomplicated fun and make some extra $$ to give my family a life and/or chances I didn’t have! I’m too damn old (a dinosaur in hobby years) for any indiscretion, drama or bs! If you’re a client or provider who does this...please stay away! Lol. Good vibes only! I stay in my lane. You stay in yours! These are my only kinda peeps! After screening, I don’t ask questions! I don’t gossip and don’t like anyone who does!

Real world job on top of children?
That's nasty!

[Passion2015]

Never Ever give any personal information out which includes but not limited to, photo, job, LinkedIn, or any other personal information.

If a provider can't do a little research on here , eccie or any other verification site as we have to do, then they are not worth seeing, IMO.

Heck I've even gotten to the point of not texting or calling and only using PM for all communication with a provider.

Alot of BSC providers and hobbyist out there:)

Research is your friend