I have no desire to explore a session with a trans person, pre or post op, that being said i also do not judge those who do. Nor do i judge those who like feet, or watersports, or whatever kink they choose, but i also feel like i should not be forced to partake.
Trans providers fall under that same umbrella in my mind. Is there room for them here? Hell yes there is. Are there those who wish to partake of their services? There must be. They offer an opportunity for some to explore a taboo (maybe only taboo in their own mind).
I think that male sexuality is far less flexible, maybe its a toxic masculinity thing, i dont know, but this thread feel very judgy and hostile. Maybe its the lack of ability to read emotion through text.