So this is alittle frustrating to be honest. So I how is anyone supposed to accumulate references if no one is willing to see the person? Also, I have seen several women before but sporadically and they dont remember me since i dont see them often so if I see someone how can I help that person remember that they have seen me so i dont have to go through the tedious newbie process each time I want to see someone? I see a few women like perhaps 2 to 3 times a year and i find myself for the 2nd year in a roll having to do the same tedious process since no one remembers me. ugh.