Do you think it’s unfair, or....

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

Wow, a full on background check for a 1 hour time spend. That is the definition of excessive but its your call on how much is enough for your comfort.

In my world, to reduce my chances of a bsc lady having the tools to screw me over, my real life and world info will not be put in their untrustworthy hands.

Yep. A full on background check on any individual that wants to be invited into MY HOME.

If I am untrustworthy with your personal info, then I also should not be trusted with your private parts between my teeth. ;)

[Wile E Coyote]

OK so I have a question for the gentleman. But ladies feel free to chime in:

I understand that we all have different screening methods. People ask for work badge photos. People ask for pictures holding up so many fingers. People ask for just some type of picture of the person they’re meeting with. Hobbyists: you all can see pics of the provider of your choice & many more. You all can read reviews on us, and have a men’s lounge- where I’m sure interesting convo takes place, lol.. And someways you gentlemen, do have the upper hand because you can find out more stuff about us (hobby related). However why do you guys get so offensive, or deny sending a picture? Why is that a problem? The reason we do it is to make sure, I am guessing, that you are the same person that’s going to be showing up at the door. So it’s OK for you all to see pictures of us prior to the meeting, and for you to decide based on our views and pictures. But we can’t see pictures of you because some of you might not want to send them, and there is no review section for men so we can’t read reviews on you.

And my apologies if this post looks weird because I’m using voice text right now and sometimes it just won’t let me be great, LOL. I hope you all have a great weekend!

P.S.

I’m just wanting opinions on this. Either way it doesn’t matter to me. I don’t require pictures. Now if it’s a newbie and he has absolutely no kind of verification- Then I’ll ask for a picture of him..

You screen how you feel comfortable in screening, but the question you have to ask yourself is, breaking down the method by steps, what is it about each step of that process is going to make you feel safer? Then couple that with what is the simpler process for guys to endure to get to see you.

Sure the guys can view your pics if you have some, but let's face it, the guys are the buyers here and many look want to see pics to see what they a getting. A pic of a guy may be a screening tool for you , but how does that help in screening potential clients? I have no doubt ladies review the clients, but they just do not have a public forum for that on this site.

[Kammye]

Wow, a full on background check for a 1 hour time spend. That is the definition of excessive but its your call on how much is enough for your comfort.

In my world, to reduce my chances of a bsc lady having the tools to screw me over, my real life and world info will not be put in their untrustworthy hands.

Yes a full background check. Because our lives are put a risk everytime we see someone. But i understand if you wouldnt wanna give up certain information.

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

Yes. Absolutely no hard feelings towards those that are not comfortable with my screening process.

I am not going to automatically assume that a hobbyist that chooses not to see me, because of the info I require, is out to do me harm and that's why he wants to hide his identity.

Just like I appreciate the Gents that do not automatically assume that I must be some sort of extortionist just because I ask for personal info for my screening process.