Fellow gents with an SO - what are some of your best tips for keeping things on the down low so SO doesn't find out about extracurricular activities? What rules and boundaries do you set for yourself?
I'll start. For myself, it's about keeping those two worlds completely separate. For example:
1. Get a hobby phone - of course. Buy it with cash. Buy minutes with cash.
2. Hobby phone never enters house. Hide it at work or in the car somewhere, but never bring it into the house.
3. If you want to be extra careful, take the SIM card out of the hobby phone and hide it separate from the phone.
4. Don't browse ourhome or similar sites when the SO is home. Even if it's late at night and you think the SO is asleep.
5. Don't browse ourhome from a desktop computer with a big screen even when you think SO is not home - because it's too easy for someone to come home unexpectedly and glimpse the screen.
6. Get cash by using the cash back feature at ATMs
Alright, what else you guys got?
- Vegas77