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Thread: Edging..tease and denial

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    It is interesting, that when one relaxes enough they can hold back longer. If you were working with someone to be able to hold a release longer that is what you would do. On the other hand, when they are fighting not to release, the muscles tense, and the resultant release is even more intense. So how do you do that?

    One way to do it is to make it initially a game, showing him you will stop immediately when he says he is close, he will test you and not go all the way to the edge, but watch out he may not know himself. If you promise a great release if he holds it till you say ok, it provides the initial incentive. Then along the way you make mention of things like post orgasm torment with an early release. The first time he hears it is not that important, the second time he is on edge so much sooner.

    by the way there was a lady that has retired that did nothing but extended edging and milking named Sultry Sadie. She used restraints and CBT to extend a session. she has written two books on it, on amazon under her name. The first is named sessions. very detailed.

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    Communication is key. Roxy G is excellent with edging. We use a green light yellow and red. Yellow is an indication that I won’t last much longer so you better change pace or grip. Red is stop now or I will come. This system lets us edge for 6-7 right to the edge or an O times over 40 mins. Those who talk about hours of edging are not really edging. You just can endure a HJ or BJ for more than 40 mins without getting desensitized or coming. Changing positions and pace and grip are essential. Time with the taint and balls also essential. Good coconut oil and alternating between hand and mouth is also ideal. I love it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Becca B View Post
    Just finding this little forum of OH. I am with you , Dallas, edging is a way to put a Sensual massage thru the roof. I am a strong believer if I give my clients 4-5 edges during our NURU their finish is much much stronger. I had my doubts in the beginning, but over my 3+ years of practice I’m a firm believer. It’s a shame it doesn’t seem to work on females....
    I listen to my clients a lot on what works for them and what they’ve experienced and enjoy in past sessions. One client in particular showed me your moves that is perfect for edging.
    First one involves lots of warm coconut Oil applied to the balls while they are lying on their stomachs, followed by a very slight and gentle caressing of the “taint”. This move is definitely drool inducing, they often times can’t speak and the sensation is something the first timers are always amazed about. The timing is different for everyone but a edge is produced in a min or 2, as I move to another part of their body I always hear sighs of “pls don’t stop” this of Course equals my perfect edge.
    my second move involves having them put their leg out to the side like a wing( still on stomach)this position allows for a tunnel so I can reach down along their side. I then massage the taint/balls and what’s connected to them�� my second very successful edge and we haven’t even flipped over.
    Becca - you are a true gem. I love that you experiment and hone your skills to enhance the clients experience. Obviously you take pride in what you do. I hope to see you when I visit your area next month!

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    WOW....Becca B you've set the standards high. Sounds like a mind blowing experience I am looking forward to have.

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    Good lawd Becca. I'm a little late to this. But hot damn. I just got weak in the knees

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    Edging for me is more satisfying than the release. About ten years ago I was seeing one of my regulars that was submissive to my mistress. I told my mistress that her sub could not talk during the session. It was interacting to not talk at all only communicating with our bodies. We did all the good stuff- Daty, BBBj, Doggy, Mish and at the end she edged me with slow BBBJ to the boiling point. I would not let her make me cum. The session was ending and she did not know what to do. I got up, rock hard, I pointed to her clothes, she looked at my hard cock and I shook my head, the smart one. I led her out and said goodbye all with a raging fortified Bonner. I did not want the desire to end with a pop. I remained hard as I wrote my review of the session. For me the act, and the desire is way more enjoyable nowadays than the climax.

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