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    Sugar Baby game

    Hi all,

    Just wanted to give my fellow pussy hounds a heads up.

    I've been doing the escort thing FOREVER and it's really become less than exciting, even more so with eccie folding and reopening.
    OH2 being the best alternative but with 1/10 the number of ladies to choose from.
    I had been laying low due to a low libido for a few years - but fixed that and am back.

    Have just seen one or two of the available ladies that I would even care to call. And most of the better ones need refs and approved accounts. I don't begrudge them that or their safety, just being out of the game for so long and eccie flopping, I've lost any old references and not attracted most of the newbie friendly providers...so catch 22.

    So reupped my Seeking Arrangements for a month (way too pricey btw but ultimately worth it). Had used it 3-4 years back (only for a month, maybe two) and had great success then and now.

    There are some AMAZINGLY hot chicks on there. Just stunning 20 somethings that are tight and fit.
    Think walking into a 24 hour fitness and taking your pick of the hot girls. Truly.
    All types, shades and shapes on there too.

    Some wanting way too much to play. Have been quoted up to $1500 by one model type and $600 from one rank as a "do-able" level escort.
    But most are good with $300 or so. And we're not talking $300 for a slam bam, get the fuck out - I've got another client coming in 10 minutes type deal. It's always at least 3 hours. Most of the time 4-5 hours. Nice to feel relaxed and not rushed. Most are down for whatever and about the same % of them are/aren't good with anal as the providers here. Not a deal killer for me. The IOP is usually off the charts, these chicks are craving some dick, not just going thru the motions.

    These girls are DTF as fuck. I think its partly due to the majority of young guys today are cucks. They're more interested in video games and taking cool selfies than servicing that pussy. Plus these girls today are crazy open to causal fucking...like they're just taking a spin or yoga class.

    There is a catch - always a catch.
    Beyond the high price to get on SA, you have to work to mine the gems there.
    You need to have a little bit of game and a passable pic (mines just a head shot and I'm way too old and fat to be 'attractive' bodywise). It takes time too (but what a hobby!) as you have to comb thru the girls, message the ones you want to fuck (never so bluntly - takes a lighter touch at first), wait for replies (lots of no replies), message back, negotiate price/meetup etc. No just calling them up to setup an appointment and an hour later you're pounding puss.
    So score one for the escorts on this point.

    But the benefits are massively on the SB side.

    I have no affiliation with seeking arrangements or any other sugar site, other than being a paid member.
    Seeking seems to be the best, but most of the girls have account on other sites. So shop around.

    LMK if you guys have any questions...
    Last edited by artdeco; 05-27-2020 at 09:11 AM.

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    First off I'm glad you enjoy Seeking Arrangements and have found your new go to site for "pussy" (I'm known for my sarcasm but I promise I wasn't being sarcastic I really am happy for you). As a SB who's been on Seeking Arrangements I'll put my opinion on here as well...There is no guarantee of anything sexual happening when going on dates or meeting up but the girl will still want to be paid for the meeting/date. Unlike on here it's pretty much a for sure thing (unless you didn't do your homework on a girl and cashapped them money before even meeting them lol sorry I love teasing yall). If your someone who wants a more romantic/arm candy/travel companion then Seeking Arrangements is definitely the way. If your wanting a (guaranteed) intimate with no strings attached type thing then OH2 is the site for you. P.S. This in no way means you'll NEVER get laid by the smoking hot SB that you've been seeing but it will take time kinda like dating. #pussy4all

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    Thanks for the reply Nikki. Great to get your perspective on this.

    And yes, it is almost apples vs oranges (pussy vs vaginas?)

    Is it for every guy here? No, you do have to work at it, have at least a little game and don't expect to send a couple of messages and then be balls deep in a few hours.
    You have to contact them, get them to respond, get a rapport going and set up a date.
    To me, I really enjoy the 'hunt' as opposed to picking a provider and making an appointment.

    Could consider it a cross between speed-dating and escorting.

    I've bedded ~20 ladies off SA. All but one was under 30. Mostly 22-26 range.
    All the allowances (re:$) and sexual expectations are nailed down prior to meeting.
    Never ripped off.
    Always gift them at end of play and don't think I've had a one ask for it up front.

    I haven't paid for a 'coffee 1st' meeting (only had a few) as most are down for meeting in room and never prepaid either.
    Some of the ladies are there to be wined and dined with little in returned.
    Some are there for cocks and cash and some are delusional and think some guy is going to pay their bills, in exchange for a few text.

    Just have to be able to read the signs to hunt the right ones.

    Have only taken two out to dinner, as 'friends' because I don't get off on publicly parading someone around like a trophy.
    Still friends with a couple ladies, but not sexually as they've moved on from Sugaring.

    Never paid more than $400 (only once and 2nd time with her I paid her $200), most $300, some as low as $200. And these are not slam/bam/get the fuck out playdates, but relaxed multihour off the chart IOP (or just P) good times.
    Think most of these girls are just exploring their sexuality plus guy their age are so burnt out on porn that real pussy doesn't interest them.

    I will say that beyond the advantage of 'instant' availability that Escorts provide, it's the INCALL that weighs in Escorts favor.
    Less than 25% of the Sugars 'host'. More are open to it after 1st play date, but not that many. So figure on either hosting or getting a hotel room.
    That being said I'm chatting with one smoking hot 24 year old, dark curly hair college girl who will host for $200 for 3 hours or so.

    I'm going to stick with the Sugars, deal with the hunting and planning (more fun anyways IMO).
    I have more sugars lined up than I can afford in dollars or libido...and new hot chicks keep joining every day.

    Escorting is easier (for guys) but I'm having a blast with the sugars.
    Last edited by artdeco; 05-29-2020 at 03:10 PM.

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    I liked seeking arrangements and was a member for four years until last January. Yes, you did have to work a while with the ladies on site to determine whether to proceed with a "meet", but once parameters were set I found it extremely worthwhile. I've had quite a few great SB experiences. I was in the hobby through aspd and eccie and basically dropped out of the hobby at the end of eccie for seeking arrangements.

    However, all that came to a crashing halt in January when notified by seeking arrangements I had violated their policies and was told because I was seeking sex for money, they permanently banned me from the site...after I had just renewed my contract. The only way they could have known this was to view my private messages where the potential sugar babies and I were negotiating arrangements. Beware of what you put in your messages if you do join seeking arrangements. If sex in exchange for money is discussed and they find out....you're banned.

    I'm positive I never angered or upset any of the ladies and they subsequently reported me. I had nothing but great experiences messaging and meeting in every case. I think seeking arrangements randomly performs searches to find out what's being discussed on their site between individuals. Personally, I found out the only way to not waste time on a possible meet was to be open before meeting as to what exactly you're looking for. Of course what we considered "mutually beneficial" was never discussed until we had multiple conversations prior to meeting in person. However, somehow seeking arrangements found those messages and banned me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by txpilot3 View Post
    I liked seeking arrangements and was a member for four years until last January. Yes, you did have to work a while with the ladies on site to determine whether to proceed with a "meet", but once parameters were set I found it extremely worthwhile. I've had quite a few great SB experiences. I was in the hobby through aspd and eccie and basically dropped out of the hobby at the end of eccie for seeking arrangements.

    However, all that came to a crashing halt in January when notified by seeking arrangements I had violated their policies and was told because I was seeking sex for money, they permanently banned me from the site...after I had just renewed my contract. The only way they could have known this was to view my private messages where the potential sugar babies and I were negotiating arrangements. Beware of what you put in your messages if you do join seeking arrangements. If sex in exchange for money is discussed and they find out....you're banned.

    I'm positive I never angered or upset any of the ladies and they subsequently reported me. I had nothing but great experiences messaging and meeting in every case. I think seeking arrangements randomly performs searches to find out what's being discussed on their site between individuals. Personally, I found out the only way to not waste time on a possible meet was to be open before meeting as to what exactly you're looking for. Of course what we considered "mutually beneficial" was never discussed until we had multiple conversations prior to meeting in person. However, somehow seeking arrangements found those messages and banned me.
    Always move to text messaging as soon as general mutual interest is established. There is no "private" messaging on that site... they are listening.

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    Good advice but too late for me. It is an excellent site for what one is looking for.

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    I was on SA years ago and found one good guy. Still see him. Good and bad everywhere. Just Be Safe ✌️

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    Yeah, must move over to txt before you talk $ on SA.
    Just creepy how all up in your shit they are.
    Pretty sure it's blowback from when they charged backpage owner for pimping.

    When I first started SA 5 or so years back I was writing these long messages about myself and how I'd be a good pick.
    Nothing sexual, very nice and proper.
    Got next to no replies.

    Switched it up to sending nasty dirty messages about how I wanted to make the girls squirt and was pretty good at it (true).
    Didn't offer money or anything, wasn't mean or much dirtier than that.

    The majority didn't respond, got a small handfulls of "How dare you" messages back from a few of the babies.
    Got a whole bunch of positive replies (some from girls I'd messaged nicely before) and hooked up with about 4-5 hotties.
    And I received a nasty message from Seeking admin - warning me not to do this shit again or I'd be banned due to complaints.
    I said 'sure' but also that I'd tried playing nice the 1st messages and got zero but the dirty message got me tons of action.

    To be sure it's a lot of messaging, work to find the nuggets...but I really enjoy the hunt. Makes getting with them all the sweeter.

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    Thanks for the insight, I’ve always wondered about seeking arrangements but I’m having a great time with the ladies on OH2, OH2 is working for me and met some of the coolest girls here. I’m sticking to OH2 I used to use Eccie but yeah it’s pretty much nothing going on there for us guys anymore. I just go to Eccie to find some providers I’m familiar with.

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    I know I'm not the best looking girl out there, and everyone has their own taste... But some of the most beautiful women I've ever seen are older than 30.

    Text or PM please :-)
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    Quote Originally Posted by BrigittaBanana View Post
    I know I'm not the best looking girl out there, and everyone has their own taste... But some of the most beautiful women I've ever seen are older than 30.
    You're beautiful ma'am.

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    Lightbulb Splenda.

    Quote Originally Posted by artdeco
    Never paid more than $400 (only once and 2nd time with her I paid her $200), most $300, some as low as $200. And these are not slam/bam/get the fuck out playdates, but relaxed multihour off the chart IOP (or just P) good times.


    Splenda daddies bargain hunt for the cheapest lay they can find
    (and then brag about it)

    Sugar daddies invest time & money into their SBs


    Quote Originally Posted by artdeco
    So reupped my Seeking Arrangements for a month (way too pricey btw but ultimately worth it). Had used it 3-4 years back (only for a month, maybe two) and had great success then and now.
    you’re already throwing away money on half ass escorts you
    meet from there, so might as well throw away money
    on a subscription since it’s ‘ultimately worth it’


    Quote Originally Posted by artdeco
    Some wanting way too much to play. Have been quoted up to $1500 by one model type and $600 from one rank as a "do-able" level escort.
    sugar daddies see $1500 as chump change


    Quote Originally Posted by artdeco
    These girls are DTF as fuck. I think its partly due to the majority of young guys today are cucks. They're more interested in video games and taking cool selfies than servicing that pussy. Plus these girls today are crazy open to causal fucking...like they're just taking a spin or yoga class.
    They likely have a younger boyfriend and fuck Splenda daddies
    like you on the side to pay off that student loan, make some
    easy extra money, and other reasons unrelated to your dick


    Quote Originally Posted by artdeco
    But the benefits are massively on the SB side.
    It’s basically a paid Tinder date involving a dude who doesn’t want to
    screen nor afford to pay a ****** for multihours and a young naive
    broad who doesn’t want to be seen as an escort
    and sugarcoats her paid sexual encounters
    as ‘sugaring’ or she’s too scared to
    escort due to criminalization


    Quote Originally Posted by artdeco
    I have no affiliation with seeking arrangements or any other sugar site, other than being a paid member. Seeking seems to be the best, but most of the girls have account on other sites. So shop around.
    paid member lol

    you make a new account every month to avoid that fee
    and save up any dollar you can for your pussy fund


    Quote Originally Posted by artdeco
    Think most of these girls are just exploring their sexuality plus guy their age are so burnt out on porn that real pussy doesn't interest them.
    Bro, you know nothing about my generation

    Millennials Are the Unluckiest Generation in US History

    younger dudes are trying to power thru this recession and pandemic themselves,
    but younger women like myself will have it a bit more easier time since
    sex sells via webcam, escorting, selling nudes, etc.

    so, younger folks aren’t worried about getting laid unless they
    can make a profit from it during these times, sir



    Quote Originally Posted by artdeco
    I will say that beyond the advantage of 'instant' availability that Escorts provide, it's the INCALL that weighs in Escorts favor.
    sugar daddies don’t have to worry about renting a space to fuck since they’ll
    have multiple homes or other property they own to canoodle in


    Quote Originally Posted by artdeco
    I'm going to stick with the Sugars, deal with the hunting and planning (more fun anyways IMO). I have more sugars lined up than I can afford in dollars or libido...and new hot chicks keep joining every day.
    Seeking isn’t sugaring

    It’s a site full of people in denial as they sugarcoat everything

    Seeking SBs are half ass escorts who can’t accept themselves being ******s

    Seeking SDs are Splenda daddies who bargain hunt with $100 and a dream

    !


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    THIS +1


    Quote Originally Posted by Phoenixx View Post


    Splenda daddies bargain hunt for the cheapest lay they can find
    (and then brag about it)

    Sugar daddies invest time & money into their SBs




    you’re already throwing away money on half ass escorts you
    meet from there, so might as well throw away money
    on a subscription since it’s ‘ultimately worth it’




    sugar daddies see $1500 as chump change




    They likely have a younger boyfriend and fuck Splenda daddies
    like you on the side to pay off that student loan, make some
    easy extra money, and other reasons unrelated to your dick




    It’s basically a paid Tinder date involving a dude who doesn’t want to
    screen nor afford to pay a ****** for multihours and a young naive
    broad who doesn’t want to be seen as an escort
    and sugarcoats her paid sexual encounters
    as ‘sugaring’ or she’s too scared to
    escort due to criminalization




    paid member lol

    you make a new account every month to avoid that fee
    and save up any dollar you can for your pussy fund




    Bro, you know nothing about my generation

    Millennials Are the Unluckiest Generation in US History

    younger dudes are trying to power thru this recession and pandemic themselves,
    but younger women like myself will have it a bit more easier time since
    sex sells via webcam, escorting, selling nudes, etc.

    so, younger folks aren’t worried about getting laid unless they
    can make a profit from it during these times, sir





    sugar daddies don’t have to worry about renting a space to fuck since they’ll
    have multiple homes or other property they own to canoodle in




    Seeking isn’t sugaring

    It’s a site full of people in denial as they sugarcoat everything

    Seeking SBs are half ass escorts who can’t accept themselves being ******s

    Seeking SDs are Splenda daddies who bargain hunt with $100 and a dream

    !


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    Phoenixx, I would love to meet you some day.
    James
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovinglifeinaustin View Post
    Phoenixx, I love you
    Fixed it for you. Wink

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