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[Ben Rhimene]

You lost me at $70k.

TBH, I followed the point, but the analogy you present changes drastically at different earning differentials, doesn't it? Which is why hard and fast rules have limitations. To cross-pollinate threads, this is why people do not value a 7-day cruise the same way.

[chloevankatie]

Maybe you should let one of us shoot you, so you can concentrate on looking pious.

I suppose that could be habit forming (sorry...been reading too many of George's greek puns).



The feet guys will be thrilled.

My hunch is Second Wave numbers will be bad in July. Ease restrictions, first summer holiday, bad decisions, and by mid-July the circle of contamination has raged for 6 weeks and 2 holidays. Hell, right now I am in an area with <50 cases in tri-county area and bartender was telling me how wild the place was on Memorial Day.

That is what I am afraid of, everyone went out and had a party last weekend, so we will see how things look 2 weeks from now. You might be right about July, personally I think there might be hell to pay when flu season comes back in October.

But anyway, not trying to turn this into a corona thread, so back to the regularly scheduled programmed discussion of how to justify to an escort girlfriend why men should sleep around on her while using her for sex.

[Universal]

the regularly scheduled programmed discussion of how to justify to an escort girlfriend why men should sleep around on her while using her for sex.

BINGO !!!
I bet a $1,000 (sarcasm) the men would head to divorce court if his wife was fucking around & paying for a boy-toy. The fiancee/gf would be dumped in a New York minute. It wouldn't matter if it's her own money. (most)Men can't handle the same treatment.

[Ben Rhimene]

That is what I am afraid of, everyone went out and had a party last weekend, so we will see how things look 2 weeks from now. You might be right about July, personally I think there might be hell to pay when flu season comes back in October.

Wave 3 likely to be worse than 2. Due to additional identification issues as normal flu season starts.

[chloevankatie]

We are together and married and in love. You work for "whatever" and make 70k a year. I provide because we have discussed what it can do for OUR FUTURE. I make 165k a year. We have big plans. You have your schedule and work alot of hours, I have my schedule to always take time out for you, home every night, sober and we agree that if I can work sober "with no habits" then fine. Sometimes I come in and I'm tired, even sore. But I have 1800 to add to our cause, home, business we are building together. I want love, you love me because I'm doing what so many lazy ass sorry women on welfare can't and won't do. I want support and a intelligent conversation. No calling outside my name when we are angry.

As we are working hard and I'm doubling your progress for our lives, you fuck around on me? Because you allow me to work and put more bread in than you can? You allow me to be the main investor in our lives so you get a pass?

The problem I see is that a man will justify cheating on you in his mind if you make drastically more money than he does, in order to restore his alpha stance in the relationship. The scenario you present is going to be too emasculating for most men to live with.

[Ben Rhimene]

BINGO !!!
I bet a $1,000 (sarcasm) the men would head to divorce court if his wife was fucking around & paying for a boy-toy. The fiancee/gf would be dumped in a New York minute. It wouldn't matter if it's her own money. (most)Men can't handle the same treatment.

Guys cannot handle the blow to their egos.

To be fair, I have dated women who couldn't comprehend that they had competition for my affection. Given I am a rather bland, pasty, middle-aged white dude who isn't packing heat in the meat department I suppose I understand their position...

[chloevankatie]

Guys cannot handle the blow to their egos.

Yes this comment, along with what I responded to Anna.

Ego is the most important consideration to most men, even if it defies logic. And thus, probably the most prevailing reason a man would actually have for sleeping around on an escort girlfriend, not because it is fair, but because he has to maintain alpha status. Even if he won't admit that is the most prevailing reason.

To be fair, I have dated women who couldn't comprehend that they had competition for my affection. Given I am a rather bland, pasty, middle-aged white dude who isn't packing heat in the meat department I suppose I understand their position...

Although you underestimate your physical attractiveness, it is by far your highly intelligent analytical mind that is fucking sexy :)

[Ben Rhimene]

but because he has to maintain alpha status. Even if he won't admit that is the most prevailing reason.

Alpha. Most guys do not understand Greek (including you, George!)...there can be only one.

Although you underestimate your physical attractiveness, it is by far your highly intelligent analytical mind that is fucking sexy :)

Do you think I underestimate, or under-represent? Do not overlook smug and self-deprecating as a profile...

Regardless, let me know if I can offer a stimulus package to open up your economy. I can represent/warranty I have NOT been in contact with maskless president Trump...

[Anna Nikkole]

I get that. And I've always been one to give a man his place. I'm very traditional actually. Probably to much for my job choice.

I don't mind staying single. And I'll never be sorry for trying to make a way where many don't have that way. I have so much respect for the hobby but I'll never understand a open relationship. To each his own, I've met some happy guys who tell me about it with their SO. I just couldn't do it. Maybe that's hypocrisy on my part.

[Preggolover89]

BINGO !!!
I bet a $1,000 (sarcasm) the men would head to divorce court if his wife was fucking around & paying for a boy-toy. The fiancee/gf would be dumped in a New York minute. It wouldn't matter if it's her own money. (most)Men can't handle the same treatment.

I'd take that bet - no issues with gf sleeping with whoever she wants as long as we still have a healthy sex life and it's just sex.

[Preggolover89]

I get that. And I've always been one to give a man his place. I'm very traditional actually. Probably to much for my job choice.

I don't mind staying single. And I'll never be sorry for trying to make a way where many don't have that way. I have so much respect for the hobby but I'll never understand a open relationship. To each his own, I've met some happy guys who tell me about it with their SO. I just couldn't do it. Maybe that's hypocrisy on my part.

How can you not understand an open relationship? If sex can be just a part of a job why can't it be just a part of a routine or entertainment like grabbing a beer or watching a movie?

Either sex can mean nothing or it can't. If the latter, there's no comparison with a provider and a gynecologist. If the former, why wouldn't you be all for an open relationship?

[Universal]

Of course there isn't a comparison to a Gynecologist /provider but there is a real comparison to a male Actor that does an actual sex scene, rated X movie. Not talking about a porn star either. Plenty of male actors on TV that does actual sex and they don't have an open relationship or use their job as an excuse to fuck around in their real life. They have an exclusive life with one woman/man. The woman is respectful enough to not fuck him over for doing a sex scene or feel the need to hang his profession over his head to commit infidelity.

[Cognac]

It depends on the individual, the nature of the relationship, honest communication and acceptance. With that said, as far as I'm concerned, someone's profession is irrelevant unless it flat out interferes with life. People come in all flavors, some cold and bitter, others warm and sweet. I've been with civvie gals in various professions, some have been utterly selfish narcissists, and also met some escorts that were generous and thoughtful. I do not define anyone based on occupation, life is a long journey and not everyone is where they want to be atm. For many, a job is a stepping stone or paycheck. Who we are is defined by our ability to learn, grow, our emotional disposition and how we treat others. We live in a time, now more than ever, where life can change with the next breath. Those emotionally equipped will fare better than those that are not in both life and relationships.

[rmrstyle23]

To be honest I don't really see how this would be possible in a serious relationship. MAYBE an open relationship but a monogamous one Nope never happen

[ShawnMcgillicutty]

I think your analogy is a little incorrect, you make the assumption that it's impossible for an escort to enjoy sex with a client if they have a boyfriend. You may be putting a lot of your personal feelings into that comment, but I have witnessed that different escorts react differently with each client and even enjoy sex with certain clients. My experience with being in an open relationship is an understanding that sex is not directly related to love. Sex is for pleasure if you're not attempting to fertilize an egg. That being said, I don't think there's any way for that relationship to work unless it was an open relationship, but since over half of the providers out there are bisexual I would suggest his playtime with other females include you so you can feel appreciated.