Escort girlfriend

[Max_Steel]

Okay, I'm bored and I'll bite. I always enjoy a lively subject.

Getting interesting already.
Y'all are taking her (job) as a means to negotiate/demand time with other escorts within an emotional relationship. You get to pick & choose the escort but she doesn't get to pick and choose her job assignments when it comes to work. Some of you act like her job is an automatic passage to have an (open) relationship when she wants an exclusive man that loves her without mixing the lines of true love/infidelity.
A male gynecologist examines pussies all day so his fiancee decides to play with cocks as a way to level the working situation. He wouldn't be pleased with that insult.

You don't get to pick? What about screening? Some people actually request photos of clients as part of this process. If you REALLY wanted to, you could do it and only take meetings with the more handsome of us. :D

But just like you can have physically relationships without emotional involvement, men can, too. The male gyno comparison was already tackled.

Because you guys still don't recognize/respect that being an escort is a job.

And this right here, is why I don't date hobbyists.

I think quite a few of the hobbyists here understand, recognize and respect escorts.

It sounds like you just want a guy who would just be 100% OK with you fucking dozens or potentially hundreds of different men in the course of a year while he can only get physical satisfaction from you. If so, that's ridiculous. In what may be a newsflash, most men in exclusive relationships don't want their SOs fucking ANYONE except for them. In return, they don't fuck anyone else. That's how it goes traditionally. Of course, escorting is not traditional. What you all are really after is a man to uphold the traditional dating/relationship norms while being able to do whatever the fuck you want.

You're already looking for a man who is comfortable enough with himself to commit to you regardless of how many random dudes cum in your mouth AND be willing to kiss you when you get home, but you won't even meet him halfway and let him get some on the side sometimes? That seems really damn selfish to me.

No you are saying its ok for a man to be physically unfaithful because of the job I do.

The job of an escort makes it literally impossible to be physically faithful to a man.

What you seem to want boils down to:

Traditional:
Man & Woman: Mentally and Physically Exclusive

What you want:
Man: Mentally and Physically Exclusive
Woman: Mentally Exclusive

It's also quite humorous that some of you are trying to pretend that this job is like any other. There's no other job on the planet that touches on one of the most basic foundations of relationships like this one. That's why I believe that openness and compromise are so important. Or find someone who's open to a lopsided arrangement. I don't disparage anyone for entering such a relationship, though. There's very likely someone out there for it. Just not for me.

Or we can do the traditional relationship. I'm 100% fine with that, too.

But I do hope you all are able to find what you seek. It's already hard enough to find what you're looking for normally without the extra hurdles.

[Sargonic]

^ Well stated ^

[chloevankatie]

Okay, I'm bored and I'll bite. I always enjoy a lively subject.



You don't get to pick? What about screening? Some people actually request photos of clients as part of this process. If you REALLY wanted to, you could do it and only take meetings with the more handsome of us. :D

But just like you can have physically relationships without emotional involvement, men can, too. The male gyno comparison was already tackled.



I think quite a few of the hobbyists here understand, recognize and respect escorts.

It sounds like you just want a guy who would just be 100% OK with you fucking dozens or potentially hundreds of different men in the course of a year while he can only get physical satisfaction from you. If so, that's ridiculous. In what may be a newsflash, most men in exclusive relationships don't want their SOs fucking ANYONE except for them. In return, they don't fuck anyone else. That's how it goes traditionally. Of course, escorting is not traditional. What you all are really after is a man to uphold the traditional dating/relationship norms while being able to do whatever the fuck you want.

You're already looking for a man who is comfortable enough with himself to commit to you regardless of how many random dudes cum in your mouth AND be willing to kiss you when you get home, but you won't even meet him halfway and let him get some on the side sometimes? That seems really damn selfish to me.



The job of an escort makes it literally impossible to be physically faithful to a man.

What you seem to want boils down to:

Traditional:
Man & Woman: Mentally and Physically Exclusive

What you want:
Man: Mentally and Physically Exclusive
Woman: Mentally Exclusive

It's also quite humorous that some of you are trying to pretend that this job is like any other. There's no other job on the planet that touches on one of the most basic foundations of relationships like this one. That's why I believe that openness and compromise are so important. Or find someone who's open to a lopsided arrangement. I don't disparage anyone for entering such a relationship, though. There's very likely someone out there for it. Just not for me.

Or we can do the traditional relationship. I'm 100% fine with that, too.

But I do hope you all are able to find what you seek. It's already hard enough to find what you're looking for normally without the extra hurdles.

NO you cherry picked quotes from what I said to support your idea that you can use a provider for free sex while you get all the pussy you want on the side.

And then you want to say some some nasty shit to me like "regardless of how many random dudes cum in your mouth AND be willing to kiss you when you get home, but you won't even meet him halfway and let him get some on the side sometimes" and then call ME selfish.

How is what you just said respectful at all?

You guys have zero respect for ladies in this line of work.

You already saw what I posted about both people leaving the hobby because it was the post right before this one, but you still decided to cherry pick quotes of mine and say shitty things to me and call me selfish, but I will post the quote again.

To be honest, I don't really think anyone within the hobby should be dating. It's too complicated. I think if people wanna date they both need to leave the hobby.

But it drives me bonkers to hear these guys say they would love to date a provider and that they also get a free pass to sleep around on them. Well of course that sounds like a great deal to them - free sex from the provider in the relationship and plus they want to go out and get pussy on the side!

They pretty much only think about what's in it for them and they don't give a shit about the lady they are sleeping around on.

And your statement - If I am with someone I have feelings for then I won't see anyone else.

I agree. If I am in love with someone then I don't want anyone else.

But like you said, I should let random dudes cum in my mouth and I should also let any man who comes into my life sleep around on me and ignore that I am a human being with feelings in any sense and he has any right to do whatever he wants cause I am a ***** and a selfish person.

Got it.

[chloevankatie]

It's also quite humorous that some of you are trying to pretend that this job is like any other

Exactly.

You find it humorous that anyone who works this job should be treated like anyone else.

You said it yourself.

[Fallout4]

Before this devolves any further. Relationships are inherently complicated. What people expect/want/need or the amount of effort they put in is different from person to person. You just need to find someone compatible with you that you can see eye with.

We’re all humans and each of us deserves to carve out a little happy spot on this spinning rock.

[DEAR _JOHN]

Just wondering how many guys out there wouldn't mind your girlfriend being an escort?

No, (just being honest) I'm too insecure. Then again, I would be insecure if my girlfriend would be a Hooters waitress. My feelings aren't against the women, I respect what they do, my feelings are on me and knowing guys were hitting on them all day long.

Just know that in my history, having providers saved a marriage, not destroyed it.

[Universal]

The Hypocrisy is DEEP as bullshit at a rodeo.

[Max_Steel]

NO you cherry picked quotes from what I said to support your idea that you can use a provider for free sex while you get all the pussy you want on the side.

And then you want to say some some nasty shit to me like "regardless of how many random dudes cum in your mouth AND be willing to kiss you when you get home, but you won't even meet him halfway and let him get some on the side sometimes" and then call ME selfish.

How is what you just said respectful at all?

You guys have zero respect for ladies in this line of work.

You already saw what I posted about both people leaving the hobby because it was the post right before this one, but you still decided to cherry pick quotes of mine and say shitty things to me and call me selfish, but I will post the quote again.


But like you said, I should let random dudes cum in my mouth and I should also let any man who comes into my life sleep around on me and ignore that I am a human being with feelings in any sense and he has any right to do whatever he wants cause I am a ***** and a selfish person.

Got it.

Who's "using a provider for free sex"? In this scenario, aren't you my girlfriend? When you're in a relationship, that's just called "sex".

However, you are right. I was a bit crude in what I said. What I meant to say what "regardless of how many esteemed gentlemen of the community expel pent-up frustration and ejaculate majestically into your goddess-like oral cavity" instead. :p

Your post about both people leaving the hobby holds no water to the original argument. If you both leave the hobby, then you are no longer an escort and he is no longer a hobbyist. In that case, the traditional relationship rules would apply for me. If a woman was willing to be 100% emotionally and physically faithful to me, then I definitely wouldn't be on here.

The rest of this just sounds like a temper tantrum because everybody doesn't want to bend over backwards to accommodate you.

Exactly.

You find it humorous that anyone who works this job should be treated like anyone else.

You said it yourself.

That's nowhere near what I said, but I find it so cute that you thought it was.

Don't make me send you to your room! :p

[chloevankatie]

The rest of this just sounds like a temper tantrum because everybody doesn't want to bend over backwards to accommodate you.

Accommodate me? I said I don't date hobbyists and people who date should leave the hobby.

You are saying I am throwing a temper tantrum cause I am not going to support your idea of using a provider for free sex while you fuck other women?

It sounds more like you are having a tantrum when you are the one calling me selfish and saying nasty things like I am having random men cum in my mouth cause I don't want to support your cause to use women in this industry simply because of the work they choose. Who is having the tantrum?

I have not engaged in saying disrespectful things towards you.

If a woman was willing to be 100% emotionally and physically faithful to me, then I definitely wouldn't be on here.

And I literally cannot understand why any women wouldn't want to be 100% emotionally and physically faithful to you....you are a real winner.

The rest of your response is a shitty, condescending, demeaning, and a sarcastic joke.

I am putting you on ignore because you clearly have no respect for me and I am not entertaining you.

[chloevankatie]

Isn't a provider paid to be a professional and NOT to have feelings or emotions? Isn't that what you pay a provider for? You get to fuck her and then go do what you want?

So if you are sleeping with her for free in a relationship, and then you say you are going to go sleep with other women and she has no say about it and cannot have any feelings or emotions about it one way or another, then are you not basically enjoying the professionalism of a provider for free and she is not allowed to display any feelings?

If you are going to sleep with women on the side, then you might as well just pay the provider you are in a "relationship" with so you can do what you want without strings attached.

If you are going to have a girlfriend, then you are going to have to deal with her feelings.

As I said, in my opinion, I think both parties need to leave the hobby to be able to pursue an uncomplicated relationship.

[chloevankatie]

The Hypocrisy is DEEP as bullshit at a rodeo.

Yes

[Universal]

Okay, I'm bored and I'll bite. I always enjoy a lively subject.



You don't get to pick? What about screening? Some people actually request photos of clients as part of this process. If you REALLY wanted to, you could do it and only take meetings with the more handsome of us. :D

But just like you can have physically relationships without emotional involvement, men can, too. The male gyno comparison was already tackled.



I think quite a few of the hobbyists here understand, recognize and respect escorts.

It sounds like you just want a guy who would just be 100% OK with you fucking dozens or potentially hundreds of different men in the course of a year while he can only get physical satisfaction from you. If so, that's ridiculous. In what may be a newsflash, most men in exclusive relationships don't want their SOs fucking ANYONE except for them. In return, they don't fuck anyone else. That's how it goes traditionally. Of course, escorting is not traditional. What you all are really after is a man to uphold the traditional dating/relationship norms while being able to do whatever the fuck you want.

You're already looking for a man who is comfortable enough with himself to commit to you regardless of how many random dudes cum in your mouth AND be willing to kiss you when you get home, but you won't even meet him halfway and let him get some on the side sometimes? That seems really damn selfish to me.



The job of an escort makes it literally impossible to be physically faithful to a man.

What you seem to want boils down to:

Traditional:
Man & Woman: Mentally and Physically Exclusive

What you want:
Man: Mentally and Physically Exclusive
Woman: Mentally Exclusive

It's also quite humorous that some of you are trying to pretend that this job is like any other. There's no other job on the planet that touches on one of the most basic foundations of relationships like this one. That's why I believe that openness and compromise are so important. Or find someone who's open to a lopsided arrangement. I don't disparage anyone for entering such a relationship, though. There's very likely someone out there for it. Just not for me.

Or we can do the traditional relationship. I'm 100% fine with that, too.

But I do hope you all are able to find what you seek. It's already hard enough to find what you're looking for normally without the extra hurdles.

iop- illusion of passion. Actress in other words.
Cardinal sin, falling in love with a H0E. Bro code101

[nachovivre]

My girlfriend is a provider. I have never been a client, of hers or anyone else. She is a fantastic, intelligent, independent, and very sexy woman. What she does for work is not the same as what we do in the bedroom (or living room, or kitchen, ...). We have had times where the relationship has been open, and we have sex with other people because it gives us something we want. We have had times where the relationship is closed, and although she is doing the sex for clients it is very much a service job. It may be a job she cares about, that she treats professionally, and finds fulfillment and satisfaction in doing - but those encounters are happening because the clients are spending. It is complicated. We work at it because we are worth it and we want to. Every relationship is different, every person has insecurities, flaws they need to work on, and things about their partners that aren't perfect. For me, her job isn't a flaw or something to overcome - it is something to be proud of. She makes people feel amazing while they are with her and great about themselves after they part. I support her in her profession and I'm her biggest cheerleader in every respect. Just my two cents.

[Universal]

My girlfriend is a provider. I have never been a client, of hers or anyone else. She is a fantastic, intelligent, independent, and very sexy woman. What she does for work is not the same as what we do in the bedroom (or living room, or kitchen, ...). We have had times where the relationship has been open, and we have sex with other people because it gives us something we want. We have had times where the relationship is closed, and although she is doing the sex for clients it is very much a service job. It may be a job she cares about, that she treats professionally, and finds fulfillment and satisfaction in doing - but those encounters are happening because the clients are spending. It is complicated. We work at it because we are worth it and we want to. Every relationship is different, every person has insecurities, flaws they need to work on, and things about their partners that aren't perfect. For me, her job isn't a flaw or something to overcome - it is something to be proud of. She makes people feel amazing while they are with her and great about themselves after they part. I support her in her profession and I'm her biggest cheerleader in every respect. Just my two cents.

You are secure enough to know she isn't in love with her clients. She loves you, comes home to you every night, spends holidays with you, has family get togethers with you & will care for you without sex being the main criteria for a relationship.
Y'all are lucky to have each other !!!!

[JuggHead]

Just wondering how many guys out there wouldn't mind your girlfriend being an escort?

I didn't mind at all with the 2 previous escorts I was in long term relationships with but it didn't work out.
After a while the sex became average & I was back to booking appointments after a few weeks.
Most escorts won't admit or maybe they just don't realize it but they try harder to please their sex partner when they're being compensated for it.