Verification limbo

[Elmer Fudge]

I totally understand that the people who run this site have a lot on their plate and trust me I appreciate the work that you'll do. I'm just curious as to how long the verification process takes, because in all honesty even with references it's harder to schedule an appointment. Perhaps,please a PSA from the powers that be that alot of guys have submitted their info as required, it's just a backlog at the present time. I definitely don't want to bug staff members with too many dm's asking about the same thing. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

[DocHoliday]

I totally understand that the people who run this site have a lot on their plate and trust me I appreciate the work that you'll do. I'm just curious as to how long the verification process takes, because in all honesty even with references it's harder to schedule an appointment. Perhaps,please a PSA from the powers that be that alot of guys have submitted their info as required, it's just a backlog at the present time. I definitely don't want to bug staff members with too many dm's asking about the same thing. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

There ^^^^ is your problem!!

This is a direct quote from Fancy's Verification sticky thread: "When a lusty lady responds with verification, she should PM the person requesting validation, include the original note, her confirmation, and ALSO carbon copy that to ck1942 simultaneously." So now do you see your error??? The LADIES must contact Admin. with a voucher PM... NOT YOU!

Now if the ladies cc'd you on their voucher PM to Admin and you have those PMs, by all means attach those voucher PM's to your PM to Admin. requesting that you be verified. I am putting the link here to how to become verified.

https://home.ourhome2.net/showthread.php?59406-The-H2-Verification-Procedure-for-Hobbyists-and-Companions

[Cameron]

Sweetheart... I just explained this to you. I understand you are having problems. While you were just trying to schedule with me, I explained the entire process & possibilities for you not getting an appointment.

#1. You’re not verified
#2. The 2 refs you’ve listed did not reply back.
#3. I asked for alternative screening questions & you said you didn’t feel comfortable answering, but, you did give somewhat of an acceptable answer.
#4. You stated you started a few threads & comment here & there.. It’s good that you’re making some activity, But that doesn’t help you get verified. It might help other new providers comfortable with screening you.
#5. You then said to me “will you just screen me please”? And I can’t do that until your references get back to me.

Like the above mentioned said have your references that you’ve seen send the proper people a private message, stating that they have seen you, and also to include your name in the recipients. Hopefully you find a provider who will see you if you’re not verified, but until then I hope you have all the fun possible & your wants satisfied!

[Italia DiBella]

^^^ same
Except I haven't contact his references yet.
Let's see what happens

About to reach out to his references now

[Elmer Fudge]

Ladies I was extremely discreet, I didn't mention anyone by name or do I plan to. I was simply stating an issue I was having with verification. My references supposedly have sent the info in to ck, this was simply sent out in frustration in general not to anyone at all. I personally want every gent verifiied who has shown trustworthiness bcd. That's all. I will never sling anyone through the mud or mention any problems I have, I don't feel like that will help and I'm here to engage in sessions and build bridges not burn them. Thanks.

[Cameron]

Ladies I was extremely discreet, I didn't mention anyone by name or do I plan to. I was simply stating an issue I was having with verification. My references supposedly have sent the info in to ck, this was simply sent out in frustration in general not to anyone at all. I personally want every gent verifiied who has shown trustworthiness bcd. That's all. I will never sling anyone through the mud or mention any problems I have, I don't feel like that will help and I'm here to engage in sessions and build bridges not burn them. Thanks.

You also need to realize that like people have said before, whoever you had reached out to staff, when they send their private message they need to include you as well. Just so you have proof for your peace of mind I’m assuming. And also it’s not the women’s fault that you’re not being verified. You’re not the only one meaning you’re not the only obvious that is having issues getting verified. There is no timeframe at all. Or let’s just say for shits and giggles the ladies that you have seen, didn’t feel comfortable or like the session went well and maybe they didn’t send a message in to try to get you verified status. There’s many scenarios. Bottom line just have patience and if you don’t then go to another website, and find a provider who is not really into screening, and Who will see you with minimal questions. Be safe and have fun!

[Elmer Fudge]

Geez maam I give. It's not that important. I f I don't see a female it's not like I'll implode. I never even mentioned you nor will I ever mention any names. Please screen to your comfort level. This is ridiculous because I basically stated a bland question without mentioning anyone. My references are good its fathers day
If I had half a life I wouldn't be trying to set a session up on this day. I understand my references are probably some where enjoying their day and I applaud them for that. KaiHTX and Italia dibella you are both beautiful women, I'll have to send my info to you'll so perhaps I can get in with one of you beautiful ladies. Take care

[Italia DiBella]

Ladies I was extremely discreet, I didn't mention anyone by name or do I plan to. I was simply stating an issue I was having with verification. My references supposedly have sent the info in to ck, this was simply sent out in frustration in general not to anyone at all. I personally want every gent verifiied who has shown trustworthiness bcd. That's all. I will never sling anyone through the mud or mention any problems I have, I don't feel like that will help and I'm here to engage in sessions and build bridges not burn them. Thanks.

I'm not understanding you now
Discreet as in your references or who you've inquired to see?

Who's slinging who through the mud?

[DocHoliday]

I'm not understanding you now My dear Italia, trust me when I say...you are NOT alone in that thought.
Discreet as in your references or who you've inquired to see?

Who's slinging who through the mud? Great question! I don’t see any “mud slinging.”

Pardon me OP but are you just here trying to call attention to yourself? I explained what you need to do to get verified. It sounds like these ^^^^ lovely ladies have done the same. Try doing what we told you to do to resolve the issue and stop posting Imaginary complaints about mud slinging and other whiny BS here. They are unproductive!!

[Cameron]

Geez maam I give. It's not that important. I f I don't see a female it's not like I'll implode. I never even mentioned you nor will I ever mention any names. Please screen to your comfort level. This is ridiculous because I basically stated a bland question without mentioning anyone. My references are good its fathers day
If I had half a life I wouldn't be trying to set a session up on this day. I understand my references are probably some where enjoying their day and I applaud them for that. KaiHTX and Italia dibella you are both beautiful women, I'll have to send my info to you'll so perhaps I can get in with one of you beautiful ladies. Take care

Sweetie I think that you misunderstood what I was saying. I was in no way shape or form getting on your case about anything. As a matter fact I think I was being fairly polite. And there’s no need to send your info to me because you’ve been contacting me several times today, and I’ve explained to you that I won’t see you until your of verified status. I think any reasonable, Sensible provider would say the same thing. I understand it’s nothing personal it’s just for our safety and security. And if you’re not verified you need to have DAMN GOOD REPUTABLE REFS. Nobody is being rude, or hard on you. You asked a question & we’ve given you several answers. You’re right- the 2 refs you gave me, may possibly be busy.

[JessieJane]

Ladies I was extremely discreet, I didn't mention anyone by name or do I plan to. I was simply stating an issue I was having with verification. My references supposedly have sent the info in to ck, this was simply sent out in frustration in general not to anyone at all. I personally want every gent verifiied who has shown trustworthiness bcd. That's all. I will never sling anyone through the mud or mention any problems I have, I don't feel like that will help and I'm here to engage in sessions and build bridges not burn them. Thanks.

There are alternate forms of verification besides waiting on another provider to respond when booking. I realize your simply trying to visit and things can be frustrating. Its just the process. Every ladies process is different and what I find that helps a lot is when a guy contacts their reference directly and tells them that I am about to contact them. Then I usually get a quick reply. Find ladies who are newbie friendly because until your verified that's what your considered.

Take care & Stay safe,
JJ

Here is the newbie friendly list:

https://home.ourhome2.net/showthread...mpanion-Thread

[ck1942]

Note that the OP is now set to verified hobbyist based on the ONE vouch rec'd, although he notes two additional companions have told him they sent vouches.

Only the one has come through, however, it was via PM, and none have been submitted by EM that I could locate.

My plate is pretty full, as noted, and I am sure the ladies may have much the same issue.

Happy Hobbying!

[fishingtwo]

I have basically given up trying to get verified HERE and have had 2 verified providers vouch for me...O well

[Brooke Wilde]

Hopefully it was my vouch that got him through. I always do my part as promised. That's why it's so important to CC whomever you're vouching for so they know it was actually done.

I feel it is not only my duty to my client, but also to the board. Considering I pay ZERO dollars to be here, yet I benefit financially from the board, helping the community grow is the least I can do.

Elmer, you can still use me as a reference if the 2 ladies you used earlier turn out to be unreliable references.

[Universal]

Congratulations Sir.
You have every right to vent just like the rest of the members do.. It made a difference.

A big "Thank You" to CK for making things happen
When someone dropped the ball.
CK is doing the best he can.