Okay, I'm bored and I'll bite. I always enjoy a lively subject.

Quote Originally Posted by Universal View Post
Getting interesting already.
Y'all are taking her (job) as a means to negotiate/demand time with other escorts within an emotional relationship. You get to pick & choose the escort but she doesn't get to pick and choose her job assignments when it comes to work. Some of you act like her job is an automatic passage to have an (open) relationship when she wants an exclusive man that loves her without mixing the lines of true love/infidelity.
A male gynecologist examines pussies all day so his fiancee decides to play with cocks as a way to level the working situation. He wouldn't be pleased with that insult.
You don't get to pick? What about screening? Some people actually request photos of clients as part of this process. If you REALLY wanted to, you could do it and only take meetings with the more handsome of us. :D

But just like you can have physically relationships without emotional involvement, men can, too. The male gyno comparison was already tackled.

Quote Originally Posted by chloevankatie View Post
Because you guys still don't recognize/respect that being an escort is a job.

And this right here, is why I don't date hobbyists.
I think quite a few of the hobbyists here understand, recognize and respect escorts.

It sounds like you just want a guy who would just be 100% OK with you fucking dozens or potentially hundreds of different men in the course of a year while he can only get physical satisfaction from you. If so, that's ridiculous. In what may be a newsflash, most men in exclusive relationships don't want their SOs fucking ANYONE except for them. In return, they don't fuck anyone else. That's how it goes traditionally. Of course, escorting is not traditional. What you all are really after is a man to uphold the traditional dating/relationship norms while being able to do whatever the fuck you want.

You're already looking for a man who is comfortable enough with himself to commit to you regardless of how many random dudes cum in your mouth AND be willing to kiss you when you get home, but you won't even meet him halfway and let him get some on the side sometimes? That seems really damn selfish to me.

Quote Originally Posted by chloevankatie View Post
No you are saying its ok for a man to be physically unfaithful because of the job I do.
The job of an escort makes it literally impossible to be physically faithful to a man.

What you seem to want boils down to:

Traditional:
Man & Woman: Mentally and Physically Exclusive

What you want:
Man: Mentally and Physically Exclusive
Woman: Mentally Exclusive

It's also quite humorous that some of you are trying to pretend that this job is like any other. There's no other job on the planet that touches on one of the most basic foundations of relationships like this one. That's why I believe that openness and compromise are so important. Or find someone who's open to a lopsided arrangement. I don't disparage anyone for entering such a relationship, though. There's very likely someone out there for it. Just not for me.

Or we can do the traditional relationship. I'm 100% fine with that, too.

But I do hope you all are able to find what you seek. It's already hard enough to find what you're looking for normally without the extra hurdles.