I treat people like they are people. I love deep conversations and feeling like I'm in the presence of a friend when I'm working. But do I ask for these guys to expect more?
Example: young guy, we have done 2 separate 6 hour sessions we hung out, fucked, ate, fucked some more. It was fine. But it was work and I received donation.
I get a text this morning to go to the beach tomorrow, he will pay for it all. Ok? How much for me? The beach is far, places are booked so if we get back early we can fuck. We will work it out. He actually says "I want to hang out with you and I'll pay for everything, you said we are friends". Ummmm yes, and business is how it started and will always be. I have never dated in the hobby, and honestly it's not for me and I'm not starting now.
I'm working tomorrow to supplement my income and I'm assuming I'll make 1k, so you pay expenses and give me that. I'm going to the beach Monday and taking the day off. He says "Babe, I'll take you Monday". Again, I have already planned this with friends. "Aren't we friends?". I'm just like grrrrr
Ladies, gents? Why do I feel badly. I separate my lives and my friends actually. Hobby people are so very cool, I have an amazing life, but I've never made a free arrangement.
How would you handle this?