Am wondering the ladies opinions, is the quick shower before a session starts and after a session ends considered to be part of the session time or on-the-clock? Is it bad form or rude to come right out and ask? Kind of like buying a car sometimes where if you have to ask the price, it's too much for you! Should we read the cues the ladies provide and hope we don't misinterpret? I never want to be known as "that guy" who overstays his welcome or is thought of as taking advantage of or abusing the agreed-to time together.