Dilemma- honest opinions hobbyist/provider

[Dandansmash]

Hey all- GENERAL HOBBYING DILEMMA- found myself in a predicament and was wondering what yall would do-

Been seeing a provider up north- 4x in the last two weeks-

1st visit- qv, was late and went way over time due to her not being ready, no arguement tho
2nd visit- hh, standard
3rd visit- hh- gave xtra 40$ cuz she said she needed to pay rent- interrupted twice by “friends” knocking at door
4th visit- qv- overtime but she was really late and not rdy still after having me come up

On the drive home- she said she wants an extra 25$ (apparently rate went up) and another 40$ for the qv since it went over- claiming an hr but will cut me a deal- note the “hr” was 10min of me waiting in a car- 15 her getting ready- and maybe 20-25 max of fun activities-

She is kinda harrassing me now about it- am i in the wrong for not wanting to?

Also note- i am worried if i dont pay, then she will out me somehow since my car is very identifiable and she knows im married...

Should i pay and cut my losses and just move on? Or not pay because im being paranoid...

Also note- massive **** issue

(Been forced to hobby up north where ive had one provider with shitty service, one rob me, and now this... need travel to open back up asap and come back to tx)

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[DocHoliday]

F that ^^^*!! Move on and who is threatening to out you? BTW, 20-25 minutes is over a QV so you owe for going over. IMHO, you need to get verified so you can post this type of thread in the LR. Waiting around is on you. Don’t be a chump. Leave!

[Dandansmash]

Been waiting on verification... have one dallas reference, one houston, and one from a denver provider who has a OH acct but still no verification :(

Yeah- i agree i went over- but i guess one would think its the providers responsibility to track time? Wasnt like i was intentionally staying later...

And i guess it also is like- does the time start from when i walk in the door or when we start the festivities (she didnt specify prior to any of the four visits)

She could 100% out me in public if she saw my car... and im in the general area quite a bit... very small city in RI

Thanks for the reply tho

[DEAR _JOHN]

OP, I want to hear more about who robbed you. Also you mentioned several times 'up north', then mention a small city in RI (Rhode Island). Are any of these problems in the Houston area?

[Dandansmash]

OP, I want to hear more about who robbed you.

Happened in pawtucket RI- PM me if you want more details since not the purpose of this thread hahaha

[Dandansmash]

OP, I want to hear more about who robbed you. Also you mentioned several times 'up north', then mention a small city in RI (Rhode Island). Are any of these problems in the Houston area?

Havent been back to houston since quarantine- miss it. This was a general thread from hobbyists since there really is no (good) forum

[DEAR _JOHN]

Havent been back to houston since quarantine- miss it. This was a general thread from hobbyists since there really is no (good) forum

Please, next time, let us know it's a general hobby question, not aimed at the Houston hobby scene. When I see 'up north' I think about the Woodlands, Greenspoint, and Spring.

[Ben Rhimene]

OK...I am a bit of a dick but it seems that is something you need now.

WTF...OVER! WHY does anyone have your RW info? Burner phone, fake email, park around the block, wear sunglasses to block the CCTV.

Or just email your DR beforehand...WYF???!!!

So, you've fucked up and demonstrated you are over your head. All is not lost. They are blackmailing you. Save screenshots of what they ask. Then email them asking if they want to get the FBI involved. End of issue.

Take your lumps and move on.

Caput means head in Latin....a few meanings here....

[Dandansmash]

Please, next time, let us know it's a general hobby question, not aimed at the Houston hobby scene. When I see 'up north' I think about the Woodlands, Greenspoint, and Spring.

Apologies- just didnt know the best post spot and know houston has some well versed hobbyists and providers

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OK...I am a bit of a dick but it seems that is something you need now.

WTF...OVER! WHY does anyone have your RW info? Burner phone, fake email, park around the block, wear sunglasses to block the CCTV.

Or just email your DR beforehand...WYF???!!!

So, you've fucked up and demonstrated you are over your head. All is not lost. They are blackmailing you. Save screenshots of what they ask. Then email them asking if they want to get the FBI involved. End of issue.

Take your lumps and move on.

Caput means head in Latin....a few meanings here....

Haha i should have clarified- does not know real name or email or etc- just burner phone # and saw my car out window

[Universal]

Yep, ALWAYS 2 sides to a story & the website is fairly reasonable about both individuals giving their details. And they can send evidence to staff when making claims.
If she doesn't want to come forward she can still have a staff (possibly/maybe/ hopefully) write something on her behalf if she is too intimidated/scared of retaliation.

[Dandansmash]

Yep, ALWAYS 2 sides to a story & the website is fairly reasonable about both individuals giving their details. And they can send evidence to staff when making claims.
If she doesn't want to come forward she can still have a staff (possibly/maybe/ hopefully) write something on her behalf if she is too intimidated/scared of retaliation.

Huh? Zero intimidation or any foul play here- just looking for general opinions... this isnt in texas

[Universal]

Some men and women won't come forward on a public thread because they are scared of MANY different reasons is/was the point.
The person may be shy or doesn't want a public showdown/judgement/drama.
Intimidation comes in different forms & wasn't directed at one paticular person. People have witnessed a pile-on of negative comments before the 2nd person even had a chance to speak. Just saying.
I gave an opinion, that's what you wanted.


Explaining the core rules that the staff implements is a fair and impartial system when it comes to accusations.

[Dandansmash]

Some men and women won't come forward on a public thread because they are scared of MANY different reasons is/was the point.
The person may be shy or doesn't want a public showdown/judgement/drama.
Intimidation comes in different forms & wasn't directed at one paticular person. People have witnessed a pile-on of negative comments before the 2nd person even had a chance to speak. Just saying.
I gave an opinion, that's what you wanted.


Explaining the core rules that the staff implements is a fair and impartial system when it comes to accusations.

Gotcha thanks for the opinion!

[Cameron]

I highly doubt she will out you based on what car you drive. Do you think she’s going to see you driving down the street 1 day & yell out: hey, that’s the guy who paid me to suck & fuck!?! Or, drive around and look for your home?. I’ll say no.. You also accuse her of having a bad habit, yet, you chose to see her 4 times. And, of those 4 times, what I get from your post, is she always provided you w/ sub-par service. You brought the situation on yourself. However, there ARE 2 SIDES to every story.

[Dandansmash]

I highly doubt she will out you based on what car you drive. Do you think she’s going to see you driving down the street 1 day & yell out: hey, that’s the guy who paid me to suck & fuck!?! Or, drive around and look for your home?. I’ll say no.. You also accuse her of having a bad habit, yet, you chose to see her 4 times. And, of those 4 times, what I get from your post, is she always provided you w/ sub-par service.

Gotcha- so im just being paranoid- thanks for the opinion

Honestly minus the waiting service has always been good-great- and available escorts up here is awful- no really good legit spot like OH2 or TOB or anything

Its just the fourth visit asking for more $$$ has thrown me a little for a loop- way different then her attitude in person.

Why im glad i have some companions opinions- honestly not hating on the extra $$$ when she asked up front- its the afterwards thats bothering me