Bobbing a provider's head during a BJ

[Guest 011723-1]

I have had this happen frequently lately. It is irritating. If you do this, I will slap your hand :) Every provider is different, I'm sure some won't mind... If you enjoy doing this, you can see one of them instead.




Besos,


Alyssa

[Barbara1967]

I Will Do It... 💋💋💋

[Kammye]

I have had this happen frequently lately. It is irritating. If you do this, I will slap your hand :) Every provider is different, I'm sure some won't mind... If you enjoy doing this, you can see one of them instead.




Besos,


Alyssa

I second this. And i also state BEFORE giving my famous bbjs do not touch my head at all. I do not enjoy it. :)

[Barbara1967]

I love it.. when they put they're hands on my head...
It means I'm doin a great job...😋😋😋 & I Really love it when I'm told they're about to Cum too...🤩😍🤩😍

[DocHoliday]

I second this. And i also state BEFORE giving my famous bbjs do not touch my head at all. I do not enjoy it. :)

What about touching your ta ta’s???

[Barbara1967]

Ooh Yes, Them Too...☺️��☺️

And Been Thinking, I Want to Hook Up With A Girl... It Would BeThe First Time...But I Hope It Will Be Fun And I Would Want To Do It Again...��������

[Ben Rhimene]

Interesting topic. I bet MathGuy has a formula which explains the friction coefficient impact such "assistance" has.

In the meantime, we all have our likes and dislikes when it comes to physical gratification, and so I would not judge you on your preferences. I would, however, judge you on how you respond. I have NEVER heard or read of negative reinforcement working when it comes to sexual behavior; all the experts suggest using positive reinforcement to achieve the desired result. Words like "no" or "don't" will not go over well and should be reserved for serious safety concerns. Head bobbing is likely a signal to change pace, so a possible approach would be tell him to put is hands on your ______ because it turns you on, and try to mimic the pace he wanted. Good partners pick up on your signals, spoken or otherwise.

When I flip the script, I love it during DATY when a lady grabs my hair, presses me harder against her, and also when she shoves me away due to tenderness, as it indicates a job well done.

But to each their own...I do agree that finding partners whose style suits you is key to great hobby experiences.

[dtymh55]

I do not touch the Lady's head unless she wants it. When I dine at the Y and the Lady touches my head and caresses my scalp I know I am doing a good job.

[texasgolfer]

Instead of slapping their hand just tell them nicely beforehand not to do it.

[saustin]

Thanks for the PSA. It helps mongers make informed decisions.

[Jason3D]

That's fair. Different strokes for different folks. I've had providers grab my hand and put it behind their head and insist I push down. Different strokes.

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

I appreciate ALL feedback & response to what I'm doing from the Gents. Hands on the head tell me 1) Whether he's enjoying and 2) The pace he wants in the moment.

As long as he let's up when I need to pull away and doesn't force....I'm ALL kinds of good with hands in my hair and on my head.


"The friction coefficient impact such "assistance" has" is invaluable!

[Guest 011723-1]

Instead of slapping their hand just tell them nicely beforehand not to do it.

Noted:)

[Anna Nikkole]

If it's asked and okayed a ff is ok. If not, then no. And that aggressive shit don't ride with me. There is a time and place for everything!

[Dorthy Monroe]

Interesting topic. I bet MathGuy has a formula which explains the friction coefficient impact such "assistance" has.

I laughed way to hard at this