Advice on how to handle posting a negative review...

[johnnywho]

Can't have your cake and eat it too. You either tell people what happened or you just keep shut about it.

No point in being a reviewer if you aren't going to be honest. It does the community more harm than good, even if your short term goals are just to see the rest of their line-up. Honest doesn't necessarily mean brutal, just be diplomatic about it. However, if this is a group of managed girls, then I would think management wouldn't give too much thought about a negative review. Especially if they are bait-and-switching anyway. You bring money, they'll probably let you back in the door.

Also, if the first one is that bad and she is part of some crew, why on Earth would you take the other girls at face value? Sounds like you are just looking to hand over more good money over to bad operation. It's a sucker's play, and they're counting on you to "want to see the others" to prevent a bad reputation.

[Tx33_averageJoe]

Can't have your cake and eat it too. You either tell people what happened or you just keep shut about it.

No point in being a reviewer if you aren't going to be honest. It does the community more harm than good, even if your short term goals are just to see the rest of their line-up. Honest doesn't necessarily mean brutal, just be diplomatic about it. However, if this is a group of managed girls, then I would think management wouldn't give too much thought about a negative review. Especially if they are bait-and-switching anyway. You bring money, they'll probably let you back in the door.

Also, if the first one is that bad and she is part of some crew, why on Earth would you take the other girls at face value? Sounds like you are just looking to hand over more good money over to bad operation. It's a sucker's play, and they're counting on you to "want to see the others" to prevent a bad reputation.

^This AND counting on your exact attitude towards speaking against them so the word doesn't get out that they are a bad operation.
There are PLENTY of other options than just these girls. To this day I have still not found a woman with a solid gold pussy trimmed in diamonds that would make me give up all others. Best bet is to expose them and let the community judge. They'll either straighten out or dry up.

[BLM69]

By not posting you're enabling her and will continue to do the same with others! If she was that bad there's a pattern already

[FOURORMORE817]

I'm a little surprised by the attitude I'm picking up in some of the replies here. I feel like I went out of my way to acknowledge that I understand that there's some degree of a buddy system to protect and advise each other on providers and I'm in agreement with the philosophy, but I also explained why I have reservations about posting a negative review right this moment. My intention here was to get some helpful advice, not to receive ridicule for "enabling" a bad provider. I'm not enabling anyone, I'm not giving her authority to post extremely deceptive pictures, and I'm not preventing anyone from doing their own research so they can make their own decision. I took a chance on an unreviewed girl and it didn't work out in my favor - I would like to relay my experience but I also have a self-interest to see other girls affiliated with this group and posting a shitty review of someone doesn't trump my desire to find a different provider that I hopefully will enjoy. I'm trying to get something setup in the next couple of days and if it works out then I'll feel better about getting a little negative.

[ahab11]

When I joined ECCIE I posted several negative reviews on Backpage Girls but that was Backpage and 50% of those encounters were negative for everyone. Throwing out a negative on your first review on OH2 is a conundrum.

[johnnywho]

You asked, and you received.

Like I said, you can't do both. If you are desperate to see these other girls in the stable, then you might as well not review at all. As it is, we don't even know which girl you are talking about. I stand by my original post. Good luck with the other girls.

[CowboyDave]

You're overthinking this. Post a negative review or at least tell us who it is. Why? Because:

1) They forgot about you anyway 30 seconds after you left. That's literally why we pay them.
2) If you have cash, you can see them again (unless you're dangerous, etc then all bets are off).
3) There are way too many hot options around here to worry about what a shitty provider thinks of you.
4) You have 2 weeks on the board and 5 posts. You have no 'name' to protect.

- dave

[Precious_b]

Don't whine about the replies you are getting. You asked for them.
And the consensus is that you should not posted at all (this seems to be the choice that you should have done) or put out the review, in public or private, with your concerns.

I wouldn't post anymore on this thread except to thank those that supplied input. Anything else you will not like the response.....
Except if you supply the latter up above.

[Dareal1]

The purpose of reviews is to share your experiences good or bad, fear of upsetting or making it so another provider won’t see you is a bit much. I guarantee you that if provider had a bad experience with you, she is going to share it with other providers, she may not share publicly, but she is going to let her fellow providers know that you’re a bad client. All the ladies are pay for play period, if you upset a provider so what, there are plenty of providers on here and other sites that are good to see. Either Way, good luck to you.

[mrredcat43]

OP, grow a set and post the review, but doing so while giving facts and not acting like somebody who has an ax to grind

[TinMan]

Twenty bucks says it’s someone from the Ranch. I’ve never been, but the comment about a “semi-legend” running the place and the description of the photographs makes this a solid bet.

[FOURORMORE817]

Twenty bucks says it’s someone from the Ranch. I’ve never been, but the comment about a “semi-legend” running the place and the description of the photographs makes this a solid bet.

Ding, ding, ding! I went for a second trip and saw someone else, so I've got two reviews to write - one was a train wreck, the other was pretty decent. More to come.

[ck1942]

First off, welcome to the crew.

And a reminder, as a member here, you do not have an absolute obligation to add to the data base by writing reviews. But those reviews will give others on board some clues as to your likes, dislikes, choices, etc.

But, if you asked the companion to honor a review special, then you do owe her a review.

Make it honest, make it factual and make it soon as in my judgment, "experiences" tend to fade not long afterwards. At least make yourself some "notes" to enable your power of recall later on.

And, reviews are not necessary for ROS endorsements; those are the obligation of the companions but usually you must ask for her to send it to ck1942.

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The ROS queue in my jammed up PMs has caused a huge backup and I apologize to all involved, but the list is being cleared bit by by even though the CVQ has severely limited my available screen time due to family looking over my shoulder way too often: like right now even at this hour of the day!