Advice on how to handle posting a negative review...

[FOURORMORE817]

Normally I would just spill it and be as blunt as I am with anything else, however, this provider is one amongst a group and I don't want to burn a bridge that would prevent me from seeing the other providers. My experience was extremely bad, pretty close to a catfishing, but I don't want to lose a chance to meet the other women that I have interest in there because what I want to write is somewhat scathing. Normally I would just use the old adage of if you have nothing good to say, say nothing at all but I need to get some reviews under my belt on this site and I feel at least some obligation to warn others as well so they don't go through what I just did.

This is a unique situation for me so I'd appreciate any constructive feedback. Thanks!

[Colonelangus69]

My main question is why do you think if she is in a group you will have better results with other members of her group? If they are that tight, then they either know her game or are running the same game.

If you think posting an honest review will ruin your reputation with them, the see the others real fast and then post your review if you still want to.

[FOURORMORE817]

My main question is why do you think if she is in a group you will have better results with other members of her group? If they are that tight, then they either know her game or are running the same game.

If you think posting an honest review will ruin your reputation with them, the see the others real fast and then post your review if you still want to.

I have no idea if this girl is tight with the other girls, she's new to the group so I couldn't say how close they are or how much they share information between themselves, but someone else handles the bookings for the entire group. This was about looks and what was some pretty clever use pictures (or lack thereof), it would be hard to imagine the other girls not looking as drastically different than this one did.

[DocHoliday]

If you’re apprehensive about repercussions about a review, Don’t post a full review. Just post something in the LR about who it is and what was bad about the experience.

[Nova Luxx]

Doc, he won't be able to post anything in the men's area until he's a verified hobbyist on here.

OP, maybe you can reach out to those who are interested here and PM your experience, until you become verified and can see the men's area.

Sorry you were catfished. I hope your future experiences are much better.

[FOURORMORE817]

I appreciate the feedback - I think I'm going to wait for my second trip before coming back and posting trip reports from both of them.

[ahab11]

Curious did you research her first? Does she have existing reviews on Oh2? Was she a verified provider on Oh2? Do you know if she is on P411?

[DocHoliday]

Doc, he won't be able to post anything in the men's area until he's a verified hobbyist on here.

Was in a hurry and missed that. Good catch LOA

[tomcat2]

First of all, OP, I know where you went. Your handle blows your cover. Secondly, I got my requisite two vouches way back in early February or so and I still haven't been verified. Don't hold your breath on getting verified any time soon, if ever.

I am convinced that the place you went to is running a bait and switch scam. The names of at least two of their girls' names (the two I went to) are merely placeholders. They try to match color of hair and height as best they can to that of the previous girl who filled that placeholder name, with varying degrees of success. The pictures are pure fiction. I went to one who was supposed to be Hispanic and she wasn't. Not even close. The other one has a well known name, almost historical, and whom I met socially some 4-5 years ago, and nobody would ever confuse the two. Like all the other cowards on these sites, I think I wrote a favorable review of the one girl on another site. Why? Afraid of pissing them off. Fear of my getting a bad reputation with the other providers in general. Hoping that such an establishment will attract other reputable providers to our geographical area. It wouldn't help to denounce the place as a dump and the pictures as fake.

My advice to you? Do not write a negative review, especially if you're still angry. I share your pain as to getting verified. That process takes forever, if indeed it ever does happen. I've done well with two providers since then whom I found on OH2--without seeing their albums. But do your due diligence! Google their phone numbers. (I think it works better if you leave out the hyphens). Do the pictures look too slick to be believed? Does she have an active presence on OH2? Is she BSC? What are the guys on OH2 and other sites saying about her? I feel your pain, but don't be in such a hurry to get verified that you throw caution to the wind. Go find another fish in the stream (pardon the connotation). There's a lot of good providers out there.

[Precious_b]

Wonder how many more will be suckered until an honest reviewer comes forth?

As the Col. said, birds of a feather. But you said she was new. Gotta do your homework. But that only goes so far as the veracity of those reviewing. You can thank those people for your loss.

[FOURORMORE817]

I understand my unwritten obligation to post reviews and help fellow hobbyists, but again, I don't want to be tossed on a list that won't allow me to visit any of the other women at this place. It's definitely not an ideal situation and I just wanted some guidance so that I could accomplish both of my goals if possible.

[johnnywho]

Can't have your cake and eat it too. You either tell people what happened or you just keep shut about it.

No point in being a reviewer if you aren't going to be honest. It does the community more harm than good, even if your short term goals are just to see the rest of their line-up. Honest doesn't necessarily mean brutal, just be diplomatic about it. However, if this is a group of managed girls, then I would think management wouldn't give too much thought about a negative review. Especially if they are bait-and-switching anyway. You bring money, they'll probably let you back in the door.

Also, if the first one is that bad and she is part of some crew, why on Earth would you take the other girls at face value? Sounds like you are just looking to hand over more good money over to bad operation. It's a sucker's play, and they're counting on you to "want to see the others" to prevent a bad reputation.

[Tx33_averageJoe]

Can't have your cake and eat it too. You either tell people what happened or you just keep shut about it.

No point in being a reviewer if you aren't going to be honest. It does the community more harm than good, even if your short term goals are just to see the rest of their line-up. Honest doesn't necessarily mean brutal, just be diplomatic about it. However, if this is a group of managed girls, then I would think management wouldn't give too much thought about a negative review. Especially if they are bait-and-switching anyway. You bring money, they'll probably let you back in the door.

Also, if the first one is that bad and she is part of some crew, why on Earth would you take the other girls at face value? Sounds like you are just looking to hand over more good money over to bad operation. It's a sucker's play, and they're counting on you to "want to see the others" to prevent a bad reputation.

^This AND counting on your exact attitude towards speaking against them so the word doesn't get out that they are a bad operation.
There are PLENTY of other options than just these girls. To this day I have still not found a woman with a solid gold pussy trimmed in diamonds that would make me give up all others. Best bet is to expose them and let the community judge. They'll either straighten out or dry up.

[BLM69]

By not posting you're enabling her and will continue to do the same with others! If she was that bad there's a pattern already

[FOURORMORE817]

I'm a little surprised by the attitude I'm picking up in some of the replies here. I feel like I went out of my way to acknowledge that I understand that there's some degree of a buddy system to protect and advise each other on providers and I'm in agreement with the philosophy, but I also explained why I have reservations about posting a negative review right this moment. My intention here was to get some helpful advice, not to receive ridicule for "enabling" a bad provider. I'm not enabling anyone, I'm not giving her authority to post extremely deceptive pictures, and I'm not preventing anyone from doing their own research so they can make their own decision. I took a chance on an unreviewed girl and it didn't work out in my favor - I would like to relay my experience but I also have a self-interest to see other girls affiliated with this group and posting a shitty review of someone doesn't trump my desire to find a different provider that I hopefully will enjoy. I'm trying to get something setup in the next couple of days and if it works out then I'll feel better about getting a little negative.