Exotic Gem ripped me off

[Gofldork]

I hate to have to share this, but don’t want her to do someone else this was. I saw Gem last week and we had a great time together, to the point that we both, seemingly at the time, were excited to meet again. She would text me every day sending picks and videos telling me how she was excited to see me again. Then she said her car was towed and that she would deduct any help I gave her from our meeting, for which she was excited. This should have been a red flag to me, for sure. Naively, I sent her the money she needed. Yesterday we were supposed to meet and agreed to meet at 6:00pm. This is where the b.s. begins. She soon tells me she is having issues with her electricity and will be late, to which I reply no problem. Says she’s leaving in 10-15 minutes and that’s the last I hear from her, until I mention a review here. 5 minutes later she pm’s me here saying she was in an accident and needs a couple days to see me. I have a hard time believing this is merely coincidence. I lent her money, going against my better judgment , thinking there’s no way she would do this. She is clearly desperate and willing to give up at least one good client, as I would’ve seen her every week. That’s certainly not happening now! I took a haircut on this one but hope everyone remembers not to make the same mistake. I am sure some would say, this is your first review on here and this is how you do it? I have many positive reviews on other sites and am new to Dallas, but felt compelled to share this. Don’t fall for this like my dumbass did!

[onestarter]

This is so similar to my story I went through last month. I as well had a great time with her twice. We talked about an ATF situation and worked on an arraingment. Then got a message she had a wreck coming to see me........needed some help. Next day her mother was sick.......needed money. Had several missed appointments then started getting strange texts and emails from someone only identifying that Exotic was her girl. He was very harassing. Tried a bit of blackmail that didn't work. Ended with a CashApp request for $500 that got cancelled the next day.

the whole time I tried to reach her thinking this was out of character but finally resigned myself to the fact she has changed.

Be careful of this one.

[DocHoliday]

Newbies, DON’Y do this ^^^^. These gentlemen's experience is why you NEVER prepay, give an advance or whatever you want to call it.

[onestarter]

I totally agree. My senses were clouded. I have been in the hobby for years around multiple states. First time I was caught thinking with the little head. Its a shame though, she seemed like a legitimately nice person but then again live and learn. One bad apple spoils it for a whole bunch.

[pency]

thanks for the intel

[mrredcat43]

Thanks for the alert

[Dareal1]

I hate to have to share this, but don’t want her to do someone else this was. I saw Gem last week and we had a great time together, to the point that we both, seemingly at the time, were excited to meet again. She would text me every day sending picks and videos telling me how she was excited to see me again. Then she said her car was towed and that she would deduct any help I gave her from our meeting, for which she was excited. This should have been a red flag to me, for sure. Naively, I sent her the money she needed. Yesterday we were supposed to meet and agreed to meet at 6:00pm. This is where the b.s. begins. She soon tells me she is having issues with her electricity and will be late, to which I reply no problem. Says she’s leaving in 10-15 minutes and that’s the last I hear from her, until I mention a review here. 5 minutes later she pm’s me here saying she was in an accident and needs a couple days to see me. I have a hard time believing this is merely coincidence. I lent her money, going against my better judgment , thinking there’s no way she would do this. She is clearly desperate and willing to give up at least one good client, as I would’ve seen her every week. That’s certainly not happening now! I took a haircut on this one but hope everyone remembers not to make the same mistake. I am sure some would say, this is your first review on here and this is how you do it? I have many positive reviews on other sites and am new to Dallas, but felt compelled to share this. Don’t fall for this like my dumbass did!

I don’t care how many times you’ve seen a provider or how cool you are with her, never ever give her the money upfront she will never give you an advancement on her services and say you can pay her later, lesson learned sorry this happened to you.

[8Kandi]

Sad this happened to you...
I have had plenty help and loans but never ran off on the plug

[Gofldork]

At the end of the day, it’s not the end of the world. She’ll not get another dime from me, and I would’ve gladly continued to see her!

[Jaytheangel]

Shame! Unfortunately, i too have learnt my lesson (not with her), but a different provider. Never again will i send money and or pre-pay for services.

[Jamie Jo]

You know, that really sucks. Especially for those of us who HAVE gotten loans and repaid them. It sucks that girls can't appreciate a good thing and appreciate it for all that it is instead of burning a bridge. So dumb.
Sorry this happened to you, for so many reasons.

[BLM69]

Here is another alert on the thief.....

https://home.ourhome2.net/showthread...ed-BEWARE-GUYS

[Universal]

[BLM69]

This one is still open though, keep the members informed

[kologero]

This one is still open though, keep the members informed

appreciate that fam