Is the conversation for you a plus?

[Kammye]

Hey everyone! In my years of doing this ive found that ALOT of my clients prefer conversation (as well as intimacy of course) but the conversation too me is such a BIG part of the session. Even for me it really relaxes me and puts me at ease; and vice versa. First time meetings can be nervewrecking i know! I usually know within the first couple of minutes from the greeting if things are gonna be a dud or great. And its all based on the conversation! Even in private messages...i know! If someone just isnt pleasant it is such a turn off. No one wants to be in the company of a debbie downer or a batshit crazy person! Many have become regulars because we have such a great time just yapping lol. Ive learned so many things thru the hobby and meeting new and interesting people. So what say you guys and girls? Does the conversation help or hurt?

[twiggy]

From experience, it has helped.
I now won’t meet someone without being able to have a phone conversation with them(I have decided not to meet men after being able to converse with them. It helps me avoid unpleasant situations). I’ve learned that it allows us both to feel more comfortable when we meet. It really adds to the excitement also because once we realize how well we get along via phone. Meeting in person is a true breeze and feels like we’ve known each other for awhile.

When things start to feel forced or robotic, I don’t want any parts lol.

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

I enjoy some conversation, both before and after the under sheets fun. I think it’s an integral part of GFE, BFE, and IOP. Long story short, I enjoy interacting with the whole woman, not just the woman’s hole.

[Kammye]

I enjoy some conversation, both before and after the under sheets fun. I think it’s an integral part of GFE, BFE, and IOP. Long story short, I enjoy interacting with the whole woman, not just the woman’s hole.

Ha!

- - - Updated - - -

From experience, it has helped.
I now won’t meet someone without being able to have a phone conversation with them(I have decided not to meet men after being able to converse with them. It helps me avoid unpleasant situations). I’ve learned that it allows us both to feel more comfortable when we meet. It really adds to the excitement also because once we realize how well we get along via phone. Meeting in person is a true breeze and feels like we’ve known each other for awhile.

When things start to feel forced or robotic, I don’t want any parts lol.

Same.

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

From experience, it has helped.
I now won’t meet someone without being able to have a phone conversation with them(I have decided not to meet men after being able to converse with them. It helps me avoid unpleasant situations). I’ve learned that it allows us both to feel more comfortable when we meet. It really adds to the excitement also because once we realize how well we get along via phone. Meeting in person is a true breeze and feels like we’ve known each other for awhile.

When things start to feel forced or robotic, I don’t want any parts lol.

^^^^^ THIS!!! That conversation on the phone is a required step in my screening process for several reasons. But this is one of the most important, for me, to help make sure the time is enjoyable for myself as well as the Gent.

For me, how much conversation that goes on after he's in the door but before "activities" depends on the vibe as he steps over the threshold. I try to go in for an immediate greeting hug with a kiss.

If it's a warm/passionate embrace, the conversation is most likely going to be happening between "rounds" or after the physical fun.

If he rushes through the door, brushing past me, and takes several hurried steps into the room......I can tell that either a LOT of conversation is needed to make him feel more at ease, or he's ONLY there for the activities and just wants to get to the bed fast lol

[NordicJag]

I usually schedule longer sessions precisely for that reason. I'm there almost as much for the companionship as I am for the sex. I enjoy conversation in the beginning and cuddling and conversation later.

[Kammye]

I usually schedule longer sessions precisely for that reason. I'm there almost as much for the companionship as I am for the sex. I enjoy conversation in the beginning and cuddling and conversation later.

I enjoy our conversation as well! :)

- - - Updated - - -

I like the conversation too. It’s a great icebreaker before activities. Not very fun when you have to try and get someone to talk back to you. Awkward silence kills the mood for me.

Yes! It is very awkward when everyone is just staring in silence lol.

[DocHoliday]

I have run into some ladies that use conversation to kill BCD time. "Oh, we only have 10 minutes left, would you like to purchase more time for BCD activities, if not, we can keep talking but I'm going to start getting ready for my next meeting." Yeah, it happens.

[82luke]

I like the conversation too. It’s a great icebreaker before activities. Not very fun when you have to try and get someone to talk back to you. Awkward silence kills the mood for me.

[Captain.Classic]

I actually enjoy some convo. As long as it’s not too lengthy and doesn’t feel like she’s stretching out the time so we spend less time with activities, it’s cool and it allows me to kind of get familiar with her and her likes/sense of humor. In my experience, conversation also helps put the provider at ease and makes her more comfortable with you which can lead to... a more exciting experience, I’ll put it that way. Just don’t forget why we’re both here lol

[Anna Nikkole]

I don't clock watch, but I use conversation to ease the tension and get to know each other. I don't use it to skip out on activities. As a provider I know for me it makes me feel like I'm with a friend with benefits
While very few guys want the "*****" experience of walk in, get it in, and get out. Many appreciate that you are a real person with real conversation skills (not everyone has those).

So I hope it helps the gentleman feel like he's with a friend and if it makes any sense it helps my dignity. It helps me feel like a person. And if my smile and laugh and a good little conversation can brighten someone's day besides me releasing stress, it's a win win!