i CANT STAND iT . . .

[Roxanne White]

why is it that N0T 0NE GUY on here , can send a proper introduction about themselves ??!!!

not only that - you make us go phishing for your fckin verified status 🤣 like for something that can be done in 0NE single message - turns into an hour+ of trying to figure out who you are - when you want to come by - how long you want to see us for - and who your references are for you to then say oh I don’t have time anymore 🤣 SMFH . Like WHHHHYYYYYY do I have to ask you all that ?!!!!!

and not 0NLY that - but you providers , you can’t even verify a simple fckin reference check .
JUST WRITE THE GIRL BACK AND YES OR NO !!! IT ONLY TAKES A FEW MINS TO CHECK !!!



FELLAS - HERES A TIP (WHiCH Y0U STILL WONT DO) : WHEN YOURE MAKING YOUR FIRST CONTACT WITH A PROVIDER - IT’LL MAKE SHT GO 10X FASTER IF YOU INCLUDE : A LITTLE ABOUT YOURSELF , WHEN , WHERE , HOW LONG , YOUR CONTACT INFO & 1-2 REFERENCES !!!!



THANKS FOR READiNG MY TED TALK !!!

[Chilipepper]

I have to second this rant. PLEASE at the very least, INCLUDE A NAME, SCREEN OR FAKE. Please gentleman, put yourself in our place..how would YOU answer a sexual question from a random stranger? YES, i get them all the time. I get the Hey...or Hey u available? texts WAY
too often as well. O and by the way, I delete conversations that go nowhere weekly if not several times a week. If we chat, then don't for days, INCLUDE YOUR NAMES SO I KNOW WHO YOU ARE when you text again. It will make things progress faster, I promise. Rant part 2 over �� ��

[JFLYER]

I have to second this rant. PLEASE at the very least, INCLUDE A NAME, SCREEN OR FAKE. Please gentleman, put yourself in our place..how would YOU answer a sexual question from a random stranger? YES, i get them all the time. I get the Hey...or Hey u available? texts WAY
too often as well. O and by the way, I delete conversations that go nowhere weekly if not several times a week. If we chat, then don't for days, INCLUDE YOUR NAMES SO I KNOW WHO YOU ARE when you text again. It will make things progress faster, I promise. Rant part 2 over �� ��

I bet that will make a difference!

[Chilipepper]

Jflyer, YES. YES IT WOULD. I WANT to love everyone but some make it hard. Right after i posted this ☝ I got a one word text- "available?" then made him mad because I got pissy. And in all the texts we sent I STILL have no idea who he was...so he is now a NOT in my phone. �� Bummer

[Mr.0bvious]

Sad you ladies are frustrated and get held up with this type of stuff. I'll be sending you both PMs for little experiment about this verification thing. Maybe you can also experience the frustration from the monger side of this equation in dealing with ladies.

[ck1942]

A few hints:

Ladies, please include all your normal "asks" in both your ads/signatures and in your "about me" -- while is it true all too often the gents either don't look or read or maybe just overlook, at least they cannot justifiably complain about your lack of information.

Gents, when you go looking, and you don't see what her "asks" are, suggest the above ^^^.

ijs

[robexar]

As someone who has very limited time to play and never know when a window of opportunity opens up. I find it better to actual get a woman that is working and available and then start the when, where, etc. Too many times a girl posts and does not answer (no problem, they are busy) or they will not be ready until hours later.

[Chilipepper]

I shouldn't HAVE to ask for a name in the very first text. Hi my name is _____. Is THE most common and courteous way to start communicating. (hobby or real world) Anything after that we can work on. My number serves several businesses so names are essential to my answer.... that's all I'm going to say about that �� ��

[Secret Encounters]

I definitely agree a proper text takes a minute literally. Heck on one of my ads I even stated what to text as Example: lol but Still never really have anyone ever follow this protocol, but I’m pretty patient to an extent. I’ve never been rude or nasty it’s just not called for.

Gents if you do ask “Available Now?” , and we respond immediately with YES then follow the ladies protocol. It’s pretty much the same standard screening for us ladies. Name, handle,reference & brief description then follow with pm to verify who u are.. bc some guys are getting their handles hijacked. After I see you once or clear u idc if u say “3pm today” , “Available now?” or “Monday 3pm ok?” I prefer short and to the point. With simple yes or no response and see u then and text to confirm an hour prior.

What helps expedite things is give the girl who u are using as a reference a heads up. I’m always up for helping a lady and we have to communicate I swear I never hear back from the same 3 ladies it’s ridiculous! Then there’s the girls who I know that don’t screen well or “always being robbed or robbing” I will not ever ask them for a reference the guy must provide another reference for my safety and comfort!
Ladies text me or call ANYTIME, pms I check only so often.

I hope this helps....

[AppleSanAntonio]

I completely agree!

I started writing all this in my ad & signature but it still happens. It's definitely important to include at least a hobby # or email for screening purposes. Letting us know a day/time/how long or even I'm going to have some free time coming up and want to get thru screening/see pics before hand is much better than nothing at all. I definitely applaud the gents that take the time to send a proper introduction!

As far as reference checking, there are some awesome providers on here that are very courteous and quick but some never reply back through pm. I have text a few lately and the response time is almost instant but not every provider has their number posted, including me.

I still have pm's from gents that I never got vouched and it's been a month or two. It's definitely frustrating for both the hobbyist and the provider.

[Budman]

Here is the other side of the coin.

I understand your frustration but you need to understand ours as well. The following points don't apply to all so if you do provide the info listed please don't take offense.

1. Please tell us what your rates are. We don't know if we want to spend an hour or half hour with you until we know the rates.

2. Tell us about yourself. Pictures go a long way to getting us interested. If that is not possible an accurate description is a must. I shouldn't have to go thru screening just to find out that you are 5'2" and 250lbs which would put you in my DNS list. Apple, you state that pics will be sent after screening which is fine but at least tell us what you look like. Are you 25 or 55? Are you petite or BBW? Are you white, black, brown...

3. What is on your menu? If you are CBJ only then you would be on my DNS list. This is not a criticism but just my preference.

4. A general location helps a great deal. If you are in the med center and it's 3 o'clock in the afternoon I would not be interested even if all the other info is provided. Traffic to and from would be a problem. That being said if you are in the Stone Oak area I would be interested.

The number of providers that post ads stating "come see me and I'll fuck your brains out" or some version of that yet don't provide any of the info listed is astounding. You providers are fishing for clients so you need to bait the hook. Us hobbyists are fishing for pussy and we want something that grabs our attention. IMO it is pointless to waste my time, your time and that of a reference only to find out you are someone that I don't wish to see for whatever reason that is.

[AppleSanAntonio]

Here is the other side of the coin.

I understand your frustration but you need to understand ours as well. The following points don't apply to all so if you do provide the info listed please don't take offense.

1. Please tell us what your rates are. We don't know if we want to spend an hour or half hour with you until we know the rates.

2. Tell us about yourself. Pictures go a long way to getting us interested. If that is not possible an accurate description is a must. I shouldn't have to go thru screening just to find out that you are 5'2" and 250lbs which would put you in my DNS list. Apple, you state that pics will be sent after screening which is fine but at least tell us what you look like. Are you 25 or 55? Are you petite or BBW? Are you white, black, brown...

3. What is on your menu? If you are CBJ only then you would be on my DNS list. This is not a criticism but just my preference.

4. A general location helps a great deal. If you are in the med center and it's 3 o'clock in the afternoon I would not be interested even if all the other info is provided. Traffic to and from would be a problem. That being said if you are in the Stone Oak area I would be interested.

The number of providers that post ads stating "come see me and I'll fuck your brains out" or some version of that yet don't provide any of the info listed is astounding. You providers are fishing for clients so you need to bait the hook. Us hobbyists are fishing for pussy and we want something that grabs our attention. IMO it is pointless to waste my time, your time and that of a reference only to find out you are someone that I don't wish to see for whatever reason that is.

I do understand about the pictures, but I prefer to stay discreet about my looks for several reasons and try to remain slightly UTR. Some clients will pass me over due to that but those that don't are definitely pleased. There are some great guys on this board but you'd be surprised how many are not.

On another note, it doesn't take too much time to send a pm with a hobby #, a couple references, and a simple I want to see if you are my type. I have no problem sending pictures whether a session is promised or not :)

If you think all the providers that don't post pictures are fishing, then you're definitely missing out!

My ads always have my schedule, rates, specials, location, etc and reviews are informative as well. I don't like posting my menu but I do list my no's in my signature.
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[Budman]

Apple,
Saying you are fishing for clients isn't a negative. That's what ads are for. Apparently you didn't finish reading item #2. I get why you don't want to post pics but please tell us something about yourself. Age, height, weight, race, petite, bbw... The purpose of this thread was to bitch about hobbyists not introducing themselves and providing requested info. I was just posting what we go thru from some providers. Not all by any means. The OP certainly provides enough info. I know Meegan Hart quite well so I could call her and get some info on you but I won't. I would hope you would provide that info.

[Workitout]

Most of us have a busy rl and/or a short window of time. I completlely understand the vouching process and the safety it affords the ladies along with the men. Its a decent system but it hss its flaws. My issues arise becuase I dont do this often. References change numbers, get out of the business, move to other cities, are asleep around midday or dont respond to reference request for one reason or another. I always give all pertinent info and references with links, my age, short descrip, and how long wanted or asking for prices. Yet without fail its an all day ordeal to get references to respond. By then Ive found someone somewhere else. Once we're vouched for twice to obtain verified status why should we have to continually reverify references for almost every date? P411 is much better in that regard. So much so Ive never bothered to even get verified here.

[Ava In Austin]

Just a little something I posted in the Austin coed forum and thought I would share the love here


How to Contact an Escort Template :)
This is for those who need a little help in this area.

Gentlemen, did you know that ladies really appreciate it when you contact them in a direct manner, which includes a few specific details? Well, we really do! Below are a couple of templates that you can cut, paste, and then fill in when contacting a lady. Using either one will differentiate you as more of a gentleman who is serious with his enquiry.

And Ladies, what would you prefer in an initial correspondence from a gentleman? Post your own copy and paste template here for them to use!

For a Newbie:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector. I am new to this. Let me know what is needed to move forward in getting together.

For the Experienced Gentleman in this realm:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector.
Below are my references and let me know if you need any additional information.
OH2 Handle:
P411 Handle:
Provider Name
Her Location (city)
What site she advertises on
Last time you saw her
The email and phone number she would associate you with.