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    Well damn. That's a new one. Well... gotta do what yeah gotta do Hopefully people take notes. I know I am lol.


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    Clearly things happened after I logged off last night, lol...insta-ban and removal of comments...geez louise...but I'm not surprised with no go fish...he had zero positive comments since he joined, so good riddance to the negativity.

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    As NikkiFame said:

    I don’t care for them too much anymore for several reasons, but they can be a necessary evil of the biz if you are not established or like me, popped in and out with long 6 month to year breaks. I don’t like being reduced to acronyms or people knowing all my business. Also, my target clientele are usually not the type of gentleman that feel the need to boast about another notch in their belt or be vulgar. Most of clients are regulars and appreciate me as a person and woman (the whole package) instead of how many acronyms they can get me to perform for the lowest amount etc.
    Not saying that guys that do choose to review do, it’s just my personal preference to not really be reviewed too much anymore.
    This has helped me make a decision and creative solution that will be helpful for the gentleman and work for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CubanAva View Post
    Case and point. Expectations are the killers of happiness and will rob you of you ability to enjoy a pure genuine experience darlin.
    Well Ms Ava unfortunately I got burned too many times on bait and switch looks mostly. Menu items or acronyms, not so much. I am a pretty vanilla guy.

    All I ask for is bbbj, cfs, msog.lfk, dfk. GFE and sometimes PSE, I like greek only if the girl does.

    I am dream Client for almost every lady out there.

    I am very fit, I am healthy, I am clean. I pay full price, I never haggle. I am polite, I show up on time. I am not a freak stalker, Not married, no kids, no Gf,.

    So yeah, I think I deserve some sort of back channel or front channel info, or solid vouch from a Provider I know. I am not going to just show up and hope for the best. Those days are over.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ava In Austin View Post
    I understand and respect that each person has their own opinion on reviews. And, I appreciate that OH2 respects a provider’s preference on this. Which is the main reason I joined. I am also well aware that there are guys who will not see a lady who is not reviewed. And, they have that right.

    I have a no review policy because personally I don’t like how graphic they are. And, I feel our time BCD is personal, private and between consenting adults where discretion paramount. And, each encounter is as unique as the individuals who are enjoying that experience ;) I would also add, that I pursue a career and have family and friends beyond this realm. Just like most everyone one else in the RW :)

    Now with all of that noted, I am okay with a testimonial or even being vouched for. And, when a guys asks about my lack of reviews (which rarely happens) I simply let him know there is no negative information out there on me either. I also offer a “CatFish” clause, that allows the gent to politely bow out should he feel that is the case with me. Though no one has ever done that :-)

    So, that is my opinion for me. I understand and respect that other ladies appreciate and want reviews. The beauty of OH2 is that each provider decides for herself :) Thank you CK!
    Great answer. I can see plenty of reasons why some would want reviews when building a reputation, so to speak. But there are also plenty of obvious negatives.

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    I know that in my case, several reviews that have been written about me were embellished or listed acts that we flat-out didn't do, which then resulted in months of messages from people haranguing me for acts that I don't offer, at least not when meeting someone for the first time. (For example, if you demonstrate a lack of common sense regarding anal, say you need it spelled out, t-o t-h-e l-e-t-t-e-r that yes, anal-to-vaginal literally only exists in porn thanks to editing, then anal obviously isn't happening. Or if you suggest that I can just magically shove things in my ass at the snap of your fingers just because you read it in a review.)

    That and historically, the people who read my reviews and take them at face value end up being people I don't enjoy my time with. I've found that reviews can create false expectations. Many of my reviews have resulted from not just TOB but the chemistry between us. So when they describe those magical fireworks, everyone anticipates a mind-shattering, credit ruining, religious conversion of an experience. But I'm human and as with anything, I might be the girl who ruins escorts for you in the best possible way or you might find me awkward and cringey.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BrianneBanks View Post
    I know that in my case, several reviews that have been written about me were embellished or listed acts that we flat-out didn't do, which then resulted in months of messages from people haranguing me for acts that I don't offer, at least not when meeting someone for the first time. (For example, if you demonstrate a lack of common sense regarding anal, say you need it spelled out, t-o t-h-e l-e-t-t-e-r that yes, anal-to-vaginal literally only exists in porn thanks to editing, then anal obviously isn't happening. Or if you suggest that I can just magically shove things in my ass at the snap of your fingers just because you read it in a review.)

    That and historically, the people who read my reviews and take them at face value end up being people I don't enjoy my time with. I've found that reviews can create false expectations. Many of my reviews have resulted from not just TOB but the chemistry between us. So when they describe those magical fireworks, everyone anticipates a mind-shattering, credit ruining, religious conversion of an experience. But I'm human and as with anything, I might be the girl who ruins escorts for you in the best possible way or you might find me awkward and cringey.
    100%. I flat out ignore reviews except from a few trusted sources. And even then I pay more attention to attitude and rates more than the acts.

    To hear some guys tell it people perform a three act romance novel in every 30-60 minute appointment.

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    Yes, reviews are mostly fabricated, ego driven, juvenile, dressed up, one sided. Also a time consuming pain in the ass to compose ladies. I've stopped doing them as a result.

    You have ladies who don’t want reviews, ladies who discount for reviews, ladies who brag about the number of their reviews, ladies who whine about not getting reviews then complain when they don’t like them. You would have better success shoveling shit against the tide then looking for any rationale on this subject.

    When I have a good encounter I was inclined to share the positive only in a review to be helpful especially if they were new. If I had a good experience thats all that counts with me. It starts when I arrive and ends when I leave.

    However in many reviews I was guilty and untruthful in not admitting some uninspiring sexual visual concerns I encountered. Such as bad acne, unwashed hair, poor hygiene, scars, stretch marks, bad tattoos, in-calls with sketchy locations, smells. These comments I felt would be personal and hurtful so I never disclosed them. I think any deception on age, weight, photos and rates needs to be disclosed.

    Don’t forget P411 used to provide ladies a choice of activity acronyms to list in details. Every ladies profile listed activity acronyms. They stopped in order to be a true verification site only.
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    Here's literally what I said when the question came up in the locker room in Dallas.
    If an alert needs to be written, I'll write one. Everything else is so ymmv in this business as to be useless to anyone else. You won't get what I got and I won't get what you got. Until the sexbots take over at least. Then reviews will matter. Until then it's just a huge pita with no upside because WKs will come out of the woodwork if it isn't glowing enough and trolls will come if it is.
    I was also raised to believe that a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell. So there's a fair bit of that as well.
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    BrianneBanks could you please pm me. I need help with a reference. Please

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    Quote Originally Posted by glbayguy View Post
    BrianneBanks could you please pm me. I need help with a reference. Please
    She is no longer active here. She has guested her account.

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    I started my no review policy when my review reached a certain number on Eccie. I think once people know who u are and have read enough reviews they don’t want to hear it time and again. But I do believe a provider should have a couple under her belt just so men know a little of what to except. Just my opinion though.

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    Agreed, Ambree! It’s a double edged sword for me. I had ALOT of reviews under my previous moniker, but can’t let those be seen for security reasons, so ��*♀️!! I’m not starting all over again, and I’m not going to ask that the names be changed over 100x either! Lol. ’ve earned my Stars and Stripes! Instead, I think I will encourage my previous reviewers to do a re-enactment session to see if I “still got it!” Heh. I may have gotten a couple of years older, but I still look the same age if not younger with more experience! Muah.

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