Why do most ladies have a no review policy?

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

James a man after my own heart, forever yours!Xo

The feeling is mutual love, thank you.

[dodger]

I appreciate reviews and they part of my selection process. So do ads and albums and postings. I’m interested on how the client felt about the lady; consistent with ads and albums or not. I’m also interested in how the client felt about how he was treated. How he felt, overall. And in line with that, what the lady seemed to enjoy.

Added thought: I’ve seen several reviews that indicate Naughty Naomi is a good kisser. That means more than DFK in an ad. It means she tends to like it … so I would probably like her. Good info from multiple reviews.

A bad review or a criticism will not put me off a lady I want to see; though I might express my concern to her if I have one. I’m big on having fun with someone I regard as a friend. I appreciate that the lady may be “acting as if” … and that is ok. I’m fulfilling a fantasy, anyway. And she didn’t choose me … though she did accept the appointment ( not all do ).

Reviews help but we a clever enough to know that not all reviews are true and accurate. And some folk are better at writing reviews than others. And waldt … so I become familiar with reviewers who I feel have more applicability and credibility. I may look for their review about a certain lady, when possible.

I would encourage ladies to support reviews. But I understand there are valid reasons to have a no review policy. I offer to write a review after an encounter. If no, then no. If yes, I give them a clear understanding of the sense of what I intend to say. I have not had issues with any provider I have reviewed … most of these are on eccie, TER, and … wait for it … ASPD.

I would encourage ladies to support reviews. And trust the readers not to swallow anything whole.

[Passion2015]

This is interesting

Words used:
Inflated reviews
Accountability
Degrading
Price and rates
Mens lounge
Play by play
Private areas
Graphic

Four of the words are from providers and five are from hobbyist.

The point is these are all good words from all and we all need to keep these words in mind
because they all deal with each encounter we have together.

I used to write alot of reviews and can personally say I have never inflated my reviews and have slowed down tremendously on writing reviews unless a provider ask me to write a review.

Over the years I have noticed many inflated, accountability, degrading, graphic and play by play reviews realizing reviews are worthless for the most part.

Now reviews are good when they mention activities and the type of TCB skills involved.

Reviews are worthless when they have play by play because most are fantasy living which really didn't happen at all. Heck if you read alot of the reviews here and on eccie we have a bunch of hobbyist that are studs that ware these providers out with multiple orgasms and squirting and everything else you can imagine.

As far as letting a provider know what your looking for versus just showing up and see what happens, this is where most disappointments come from.

Alot of provider ads say they will do everything but jump off a skyscraper and when a hobbyist and provider meet it's not even close.

For me I want to know if a provider likes or is in the mood for what interest me. Why? Because it's a one time meet, greet and pay. Your not asking a lady out because your wanting them to be your girl friend.

As far as providers not wanting a review, its totally up to them and it doesn't bother me one way or the other.

Providers and hobbyist know what bothers me and that's some of the inflated prices that go along with the lack of service.

Yes providers I know you talk about me in that aspect and its totally fine with me but, if you do ever meet me I can guarantee one thing, as long as the chemistry is there you will wonder why we haven't met before:)

Enjoy life all:)

[lovingcamela]

I actually encourage reviews on PD because they are not explicit and I get to respond to it, but no one goes on there. Lol

[dodger]

I actually encourage reviews on PD because they are not explicit and I get to respond to it, but no one goes on there. Lol

I think there should be a modification made along those lines. Just not sure how to handle “he said, she said” issues … but maybe this is more a problem in my mind and not reality. I dunno

[Adonisman]

Alot of provider ads say they will do everything but jump off a skyscraper and when a hobbyist and provider meet it's not even close.

I agree 100%!!!!

I cannot tell you how many times I was extremely disappointed when I left a session.
Now that was back in 2000-2006 during my heyday when I was seeing about 5-7 new girls (new to me) a month to find 1 or 2 regs. So I knew my odds were low going in, however I did not realized how low......
I was not seasoned either. I did not know the full game yet.

Also not enough in the ad makes me wonder too.

[CubanAva]

I agree 100%!!!!

I cannot tell you how many times I was extremely disappointed when I left a session.
Now that was back in 2000-2006 during my heyday when I was seeing about 5-7 new girls (new to me) a month to find 1 or 2 regs. So I knew my odds were low going in, however I did not realized how low......
I was not seasoned either. I did not know the full game yet.

Also not enough in the ad makes me wonder too.

Case and point. Expectations are the killers of happiness and will rob you of you ability to enjoy a pure genuine experience darlin.

[SpencerTracy]

Case and point. Expectations are the killers of happiness and will rob you of you ability to enjoy a pure genuine experience darlin.

I don't really agree with this. Expectations sometimes are part of the excitement. I also think realistic expectations make for a better time for both parties. If I go in expecting a session with certain activities I like and this provider doesn't enjoy said activities, it leads to miscommunication and a really bad time sometimes (and it could have been avoided for both parties if there were a heads up about it). I think guys who do research well look for trends with a provider, not just one review, and seeing what activities they enjoy is part of the research process. If there are no current reviews and you've not seen this provider, you still have expectations...you just have no idea whether they are realistic or not.

Betting blind can be fun, sure. But I'm not that much of a gambler.

That said, I respect provider no review policies. If they don't want the information out there, I don't care. I think it usually helps get more clients if I do a review, but if they don't want the publicity, I certainly don't need to do it.

[Austin Ellen]

I agree. Folks need to have realistic expectations when reading a review and not expecting a porn star experience with all the bells and whistles at a low price That's not realistic. Also, communication is the key to a successful encounter. When I started I thought you had to have reviews. It wasn't until years later that I learned that you do not have to have them. Wish I would of known that when I started because I would not have allowed them. Oh well, too late now. Lol

[SpencerTracy]

Realistic expectations of what to expect at what price point does come out in the reviews, because it is also a trend. There are providers that advertise PSE with all the bells and whistles at low price points and actually provide at that level. They are unusual, but they do exist and I've been with several over the years. Now I don't expect that every time, and frankly I don't want "all the bells and whistles" in every session, nor do I want PSE every session. As much as some providers don't love them, review trends help set my expectations of that provider at their chosen price point and help me decide with whom I might have chemistry. It's not an exact science, for sure. But I know the alternative of having nothing to go by but the provider's own self-serving advertisements would take me completely out of the hobby, and I don't think I'm alone.

Certainly some providers can survive just by posting pictures and finding guys who don't do research, I'm sure. But I also know providers who have had business expansion because I wrote about our encounter. To each their own on that front.

[Austin Ellen]

Spencer, I would say 95% of my clients did not write reviews. But you are correct - to each their own.

[Daniel Larusso]

I agree. Folks need to have realistic expectations when reading a review and not expecting a porn star experience with all the bells and whistles at a low price That's not realistic. Also, communication is the key to a successful encounter. When I started I thought you had to have reviews. It wasn't until years later that I learned that you do not have to have them. Wish I would of known that when I started because I would not have allowed them. Oh well, too late now. Lol

Have you had the option to allow or not allow reviews prior to this site?

[Austin Ellen]

No, I thought that was what was required.

Have you had the option to allow or not allow reviews prior to this site?

[The Infamous One]

Thank you all for the responses. Daniel Laruso, I asked in coed, because I wanted to see the male and female perspectives. Also, to be informed about the possible consequences of combining all my personal reviews and displaying them. It’s a double edged sword. I don’t care for them too much anymore for several reasons, but they can be a necessary evil of the biz if you are not established or like me, popped in and out with long 6 month to year breaks. I don’t like being reduced to acronyms or people knowing all my business. Also, my target clientele are usually not the type of gentleman that feel the need to boast about another notch in their belt or be vulgar. Most of clients are regulars and appreciate me as a person and woman (the whole package) instead of how many acronyms they can get me to perform for the lowest amount etc.
Not saying that guys that do choose to review do, it’s just my personal preference to not really be reviewed too much anymore.
This has helped me make a decision and creative solution that will be helpful for the gentleman and work for me.

Thanks :)

[no go fish]

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