Let’s talk about the NO AA POLICY

[osirus09]

The few times I agree with this man. I believe he nailed it, just as there are many threads on this guy and ladies STILL choose to see him. IT IS a ladies choice. I personally don't see many ppl under 35... and everytime I tend to "make exceptions" to my PERSONAL POLICY (my body, my rules) I am reminded why they are there.

If a lady was to truly put her particulars in her signature, you would think they were part of the Trump family. Ladies who screen tend to have set boundaries and stick to them....

May I remind the AA community that many AA gents dont date out of their race . Just because u have 200$ doesnt mean I have to see you. Find a lady who is comfortable with you so you enjoy your time.

As Fancy stated, dead horse....

Wow, you are clueless. What do you know about AA men? We dont fate outside our race....Edited for core rule violation. -- FIH/staff And where do you get these "stats" that you are pulling outta nowhere.

Every time you post, you show your real ignorance...more please

[Kraid]

I find it contradicting that you want to know what is up with the No AA policy, yet you are over here talking about “I don’t do FS for white men” And “I stay in my lane” Yet, you are calling out other providers for their personal preferences.

We all have our preferences. Our reasons. Because it’s OUR body.

MAYBE if you would have posted this in the ladies forum you might have gotten your answers directly from us women. But you chose to make this “controversial”-attention seeking-post instead of really trying to find the true reasoning behind it.

Personally AA men tend to be big, and love taking their time. Those are both good things for some women. I’m tight and sensitive down there & have been hurt by some AA men in the past so I CHOOSE not to see AA men rather than ask every single one for their size and turn them down when they tell me “magnum”. In this business we can’t afford to see 1 person that 9/10 will last most of the hour and will put you out of commission for the day rather than see 3-5 clients that are super easy, chill, love & truly enjoy my companionship and respect my body by not over working it just to “try and get their money’s worth”. You feel like white men look at you as a fetish for being black. I feel getting pounded on the entire hour by a AA man makes me feel like a blow up sex doll and like my body is just an object to him. That and the pimp thing just make it not worth it for me.

We each have our reasons and guess what, we have no choice but to respect each other’s choices and move on.

Out of curiosity, how does that same scenario play out if a non AA client possesses similar attributes?

Do you turn him down as well, or just solider through?

[osirus09]

Out of curiosity, how does that same scenario play out if a non AA client possesses similar attributes?

Do you turn him down as well, or just solider through?

Great question. I cant wait to see her response. It will prolly be full of excuses or goal post moving

[Kraid]

May I remind the AA community that many AA gents dont date out of their race . Just because u have 200$ doesnt mean I have to see you. Find a lady who is comfortable with you so you enjoy your time.

Wow!

[Fancyinheels]

Members, either discuss this calmly and without insults, rule violations, and accusations or the thread will be closed and infractions will be passed out like candy at Halloween.
Perhaps some should refresh themselves on the site's basic rules, stickied in the local Welcome Wagon? -- FIH/staff

[Psycho Bunny]

This is the 21st century and white women are (up/on) black cock.
Heidi klum & Seal,

Heidi dumped Seal and is now married to a fellow German like herself

Kardashian's,

I'd call that more of a fetish on their part.

football/basketball athletes with Caucasian women.

Status symbol trophy wife on the part of the Black male that he's come up.

The women didn't discount the AA men on the bases of color or money. You can't imply they are hiding the situation when it's common acceptance to be with a AA man. We aren't stuck in 1940.

Everything you just typed before this disproves your reasoning.

But let us not forget that Mike Tirico is an Italian American

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

Too many myths out there.

Amen brother. We are all bred with implicit racial beliefs. Some of these we discover as we mature. Others may be blind spots throughout our lives. Many of these myths do much harm to people. But with all that said, we should not force a woman to see someone she doesn’t want to see now, for whatever reason. As she grows and matures, she might change her mind, and she might not. But it’s her body, her nervous system, and her decision.

[PerfectGent]

Personally AA men tend to be big, and love taking their time. Those are both good things for some women. I’m tight and sensitive down there & have been hurt by some AA men in the past so I CHOOSE not to see AA men rather than ask every single one for their size and turn them down when they tell me “magnum”. In this business we can’t afford to see 1 person that 9/10 will last most of the hour and will put you out of commission for the day rather than see 3-5 clients that are super easy, chill, love & truly enjoy my companionship and respect my body by not over working it just to “try and get their money’s worth”. You feel like white men look at you as a fetish for being black. I feel getting pounded on the entire hour by a AA man makes me feel like a blow up sex doll and like my body is just an object to him. That and the pimp thing just make it not worth it for me.

SMH. I'm sorry, but I think your justification is flawed. Your preference to see clients that are "super easy, chill, love & truly enjoy your companionship and respect your body by not over working it just to try and get their money’s worth" has nothing to do with race.

If you don't want to be "put out of commission for the day" then I'd think your screening should have to do more with size and stamina, rather than race. But hey, you like what you like, and if this is your mentality and preference, then more power to you.

Out of curiosity, how does that same scenario play out if a non AA client possesses similar attributes?

Do you turn him down as well, or just solider through?

Very good question...and reiterates the point I was trying to make.

[Universal]

Heidi dumped Seal and is now married to a fellow German like herself


I'd call that more of a fetish on their part.


Status symbol trophy wife on the part of the Black male that he's come up.


Everything you just typed before this disproves your reasoning.

But let us not forget that Mike Tirico is an Italian American

I just proved my point that Caucasian women DO SEE/Marry/have children with AA men. Stick to the subject. It's about some women not seeing AA men.
Having children with a AA man isn't a fad. Just because someone got a divorce doesn't dismiss the fact they were together and showed the world at that time they loved each other. A trophy wife can come from any country. Trophy wife's are actual models, Kardashian's aren't near that lucky. Forgot about the Kardashian curse.

[Nascobar21]

I find it contradicting that you want to know what is up with the No AA policy, yet you are over here talking about “I don’t do FS for white men” And “I stay in my lane” Yet, you are calling out other providers for their personal preferences.

We all have our preferences. Our reasons. Because it’s OUR body.

MAYBE if you would have posted this in the ladies forum you might have gotten your answers directly from us women. But you chose to make this “controversial”-attention seeking-post instead of really trying to find the true reasoning behind it.

Personally AA men tend to be big, and love taking their time. Those are both good things for some women. I’m tight and sensitive down there & have been hurt by some AA men in the past so I CHOOSE not to see AA men rather than ask every single one for their size and turn them down when they tell me “magnum”. In this business we can’t afford to see 1 person that 9/10 will last most of the hour and will put you out of commission for the day rather than see 3-5 clients that are super easy, chill, love & truly enjoy my companionship and respect my body by not over working it just to “try and get their money’s worth”. You feel like white men look at you as a fetish for being black. I feel getting pounded on the entire hour by a AA man makes me feel like a blow up sex doll and like my body is just an object to him. That and the pimp thing just make it not worth it for me.

We each have our reasons and guess what, we have no choice but to respect each other’s choices and move on.

White pimps exist too!

[Nascobar21]

This is the 21st century and white women are (up/on) black cock.
Heidi klum & Seal, Kardashian's, football/basketball athletes with Caucasian women. The women didn't discount the AA men on the bases of color or money. You can't imply they are hiding the situation when it's common acceptance to be with a AA man. We aren't stuck in 1940.

Those are true examples in the Real world, what about in the Hobby? Its different

[SalmaXO]

Look here I’m not your “Sis” (speaking of tacky...)

I never asked you to cater to my feelings. If anything I’m one of the very few people that doesn’t give a shit what you or other girls think or feel about me. I’m not here to please you. You came in here wanting to know the reasons for providers not seeing AA men then get all worked up bc people are answering your concerns? Btw I was not “trying to be cute”. I’m being real. You just didn’t like what I had to say because I was calling you out on your bs.

Have a good day!

Sis, I’m gone tell you like this.
I’m grown, I posted it EXACTLY WHERE I WANTED IT!
Call it what you want, anything we post is for attention on this site. I don’t carter to your feelings, that’s the lovely part of this all.
So if you can’t keep your comments cute(that tone was tacky you tried in the first and second paragraph) it’s best you stay silent.
I refuse to engage in the slick remarks because this ain’t that and that ain’t this. I’ll step on toes before I let someone, especially on here talk to me any type of way.
So don’t tell me what I tried or didn’t try to do when you don’t know a dang thing about me to say anything really.
Your comment was just that. A comment. Im more so seeking substance than attention IF you want to go there 😌


Xoxo ❤️

[SalmaXO]

Usually they say upfront that they are very well endowed so it doesn’t become an issue. If they don’t and we are already in session they have the choice to walk away or do bj only. I really haven’t had any issues with this preference of mine.

Out of curiosity, how does that same scenario play out if a non AA client possesses similar attributes?

Do you turn him down as well, or just solider through?

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You obviously misinterpreted my words and read what YOU wanted to read. With that said take it as you please. It’s my body and I ultimately decide what goes in.

Our dicks are too big. Got it.
We like to knock chicks out of commission. Got it.
We don't respect women's bodies. Got it.
We don't nut fast enough. Got it.

This whole paragraph had me crackin' up. But trying to explain otherwise would be a waste of time since there are way too many threads on this subject.

Oh, and this thread will more than likely get locked. Until then, carry on.....

[Universal]

Those are true examples in the Real world, what about in the Hobby? Its different

I don't think it's much different. Athletes, Politicians, business owners are seeing regular women in the sex industry that is the real world and it's more prevalent in today's society more than ever.

Yes, there is racism in every line of work and not just the escort world. Unfortunately that shit happens. I wouldn't try to change someone's mind or get upset over someone's ignorance. White men have asked me, "do you see blacks" ? Yep..

[knothead]

You came in here wanting to know the reasons for providers not seeing AA men then get all worked up bc people are answering your concerns? Btw I was not “trying to be cute”. I’m being real. You just didn’t like what I had to say because I was calling you out on your bs.

Have a good day!

Good advice Salma,

If Twiggy doesn't like the reply's she is receiving......then she should stop asking the questions!