Let’s talk about the NO AA POLICY

[tre713]

Latinas and whites have big booties too. I didn’t realize thick was a word invented by black people. You seem bitter towards women of other races bc these are things that most women do Period. Who hurt you?

Not bitter at all. In RL I've dated latina women (Columbian, Puerto Rican, Venezuelan). Never had a problem pulling women, and I've never been hurt by a woman either. Women love me. But the main women I've dated have been black women, and women from the continent of Africa (Ghana, Nigeria, etc.).

Although it seems you can't stick to the topic, lol. I'm gonna educate you my Latina sister...

Yes "thick" is definitely a term popularized by black people. YES, Latinas and White women can have fat asses too (nobody said they don't/can't), but it wasn't popular in the white community before it was popularized in the past few decades. (if you don't believe me, look up the top models and porn stars of the 1980s and tell me what their bodies look like). J Lo was the first chick worshipped for her big ass by the white community, then it started becoming a trend later.

You're probably too young to know all this stuff, so a simple lesson (just one example) watch the music video "Baby Got Back" by Sir Mix A Lot. That's from the early 90's. The whole song was a black man venting about how the media disses thick girls and calls them fat. It's very racially charged in its lyrics because there was a huge racial difference on standards of beauty. That has all changed now because of the influence of hip hop and music videos. And that is an influence that you benefit from today.

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

I wish I could say the lack of empathy for black people is surprising, but it's really par for the course.

The No AA policy is hurtful. Really, a No XX policy is hurtful when it's something you can't control. However, it's more acceptable when it's against black people and potentially monetarily beneficial for those who apply them. The funny thing is, though, is that a lot of the people who have No AA policies just do it to appeal to certain white guys' egos. Or at least that's what I've heard when I'm in bed with them. :)

Those who wish to enforce these policies are well within their rights to do so. After all, it is their body and their choice. But let's not also forget that even if it is your body and your choice, you're still being discriminatory. The main difference in this situation is that white guys have never had to see "NWA" shoved in their face and it makes them feel a certain kind of way. Well that's how black people feel, too!

I hope you will think that that before you really decide to keep going with them. In the meanwhile, I'll continue seeing the people who want to see me.

This subject has been debated many times before, but for some reason this thread resonates with me.

I’ve encountered age discrimination at least three times over the last 3-4 years, so I have some empathy. Of course, age discrimination is not as pervasive as race discrimination.

To support my black brothers, I pledge not to see women with NBA policies.

[Universal]

(5) Sex workers who can't figure out how to handle big dicks. Work on your communication skills in bed. Tell him to slow down and not pound so hard.

BINGO

[tre713]

To support my black brothers, I pledge not to see women with NBA policies.

Now that's REAL talk

[Nascobar21]

This subject has been debated many times before, but for some reason this thread resonates with me.

I’ve encountered age discrimination at least three times over the last 3-4 years, so I have some empathy. Of course, age discrimination is not as pervasive as race discrimination.

To support my black brothers, I pledge not to see women with NBA policies.

Respect!

[NordicJag]

I know people here hate to read so I will point it out
Twiggy no longer offers FS to WM..but they can get a blowjob,handjob etc

So stop comparing your policies to hers, they're not the same..not even close

P.s I'm still waiting for an answer,what happens when a non-black client shows up and he's packing like Rocco?
Pause of course

Yes it is the same. Anytime someone denies a service based on race it is racist. It doesn't matter what the service(s) are.

That being said, any attempt to justify their preference, i.e. AAs have big dicks is a copout. That was why I said don't try to justify your preferences. You just make it worse. I have a regular that is AA friendly. We have discussed the dick size issue and she says their are many AAs that don't have oversized dicks. She has a YMMV policy on FS. If the client has an oversize dick, not matter what his ethnicity, she's not doing it. If size is really the issue this seems like a much better solution.

[JessieJane]

LMAO!!!!!!

See, this is the type of shit that will get this thread locked. And it WILL get locked.

You got a PM coming.....

I didn't bother to read that book you wrote me. BTW the thread is still open lol ! Even though I simply can not for the life of me figure out why when its pointless.
A BW whom wont fuck WM whom is opinionated about what WW do with their own body. Lmao. Its almost comical !

Ladies have the right to fuck who they want. Like I said just because you have 200$ doesnt mean a lady HAS to see you. If I was a AA gent I wouldn't bother contacting someone with a NBA policy. Like I also said before find someone whom ,wanted my money so that I will enjoy my time rather than try to force a lady to see me just because I have money. What kind of man does that?

Take race out of the equation, what man wants to pay someone to see them that's not comfortable with them. I personally feel that all men work hard for their money and deserve a great time. So, that goes back to "why see someone who is not going to be comfortable with you".

I personally have seen good and not so good clients of ALL races. Actually when I was in Washington DC-Va-Maryland majority of the clients were black. They were professionals and I never had a issue the 3 years I was there. I haven't been as lucky down south as I was on the east coast. I decide whom I see by how they cooperate with screening and If I feel safe meeting with them. If I dont think it will be a good fit I just politely say I'm unavailable.

Ladies don't have to put NBA policy in their signature, they can simply politely decline the visit. I decline appointments DAILY because I have a NAA (No AssholeAllowed) policy. Meaning, if you don't follow my screening, I don't see you.

Also, wtf does another provider care about what the next does with her pussy? There are so many other things to worry about these days than this.

Trying to FORCE ladies to see AA men and calling them racist if they don't. That's just not okay. It's their body, their rules. If I offended anyone by expressing my own opinion than, I hope you wouldn't take anything that's written on this board to heart. Its a ****** board people. Not a reflection on RW life. Because in RW life you cant force a woman to have dealings with you, period. Like I said there are MANY AA men who do not see women of other races. So, are they racists too?Only in this hobby world do I see men actually trying to do that shit.

[Kp504]

Things I find amusing:

(1) Chicks who are "No AA" but choose to advertise themselves in a black way (e.g."I'm thick" or "I have a big booty") LOL where do you think that angle came from? Hip Hop culture changed beauty standards to where people no longer think you thick women are "fat". AA men put you on

(2) Chicks who think that merely having this conversation equates to someone trying to force them to have sex with black men, smdh

(3) Chicks who think that asking this question is "race baiting" .. To me "race baiting" means "I'm a racist but I want to hide it, so don't throw me the bait that makes me reveal it"

(4) Latina chicks who don't realize that some percentage of your wonderful white clients just attended a MAGA rally chanting "Build That Wall"

(5) Sex workers who can't figure out how to handle big dicks. Work on your communication skills in bed. Tell him to slow down and not pound so hard.

BTW, I'm encouraged by the number of white dudes on this thread who are standing up for logic and calling these chicks out on their racial inconsistencies.

Finally, I HONESTLY learned something new from this thread: apparently taking your time in bed is a black thing. That is awesome! Hahahahahaha. I'm definitely guilty of that. I want to use up that whole hour stroking some good kitty. Guilty as charged! lol

Well said

[titotubo]

BTW, I'm encouraged by the number of white dudes on this thread who are standing up for logic and calling these chicks out on their racial inconsistencies.

Are you talking about OPs racial inconsistencies? LMAO
I’m not white but this shit is so hypocritical.

[someguy12]

I remember this airhead chick who adopted an NBA policy because some black guy gave her counterfeit money
It only takes one bad client and the entire race pays the price

DINGALING…..MAXSTEEL. Since I've been hobbying regularly(Which hasn't been that long)I've learned to take the advice that most of you guys have repeatedly said time and time again on ECCIE, and here. It's taken me a lot to get over the NBA/NO AA thing too. Because for me it also goes to RW too. Because I REALLY believe that for most of these girls the RW carries over in their hobby life too, which I suspect for some. But trust me, you're REALLY not missing anything from most of these NBA chics. There's nothing REALLY special about them. I've learned to "MOVE ON" like everyone says.

[kerwil]

I didn't bother to read that book you wrote me.

You read it, apparently. And I DEFINITELY deleted your reply.

Look, let's just block each other and move on.

[JessieJane]

You read it, apparently. And I DEFINITELY deleted your reply.

Look, let's just block each other and move on.

Thank you. Wasn't mush to delete...

[Dingaling]

[SIZE=3]Yes it is the same. Anytime someone denies a service based on race it is racist. It doesn't matter what the service(s) are.

Heh I disagree but I'm not going to argue with you
I have seen L1 girls say no Black Men in ads
FS in the hobby is not that important for some guys,they'd be cool with a massage,tug and head..especially if their dicks put vaginas out of commission

DINGALING…..MAXSTEEL. Since I've been hobbying regularly(Which hasn't been that long)I've learned to take the advice that most of you guys have repeatedly said time and time again on ECCIE, and here. It's taken me a lot to get over the NBA/NO AA thing too. Because for me it also goes to RW too. Because I REALLY believe that for most of these girls the RW carries over in their hobby life too, which I suspect for some. But trust me, you're REALLY not missing anything from most of these NBA chics. There's nothing REALLY special about them. I've learned to "MOVE ON" like everyone says.

It only bothers me when I find out in person
I booked a provider through p411 a while back and when I showed up she was like "I didn't know you were Black,I usually don't see Black Men but if the money is right it's cool"

Needlessly to say,I cancelled the appointment and bounced,even though she was willing
I'm not some Hobby Keith Sweat,begging ******s to take my money
This whole hobby is about convenience and easy access to me
I don't pursue ******s or put them on a pedestal
If she's down to get smashed,she gets smashed..if not,so what?
Any hint of drama,poor hygiene,poor tcb,BSC tendencies,catfishing,lack of discretion,ignorance and I move on to the next
There's enough poon for clients of every race,size,height and weight here

You can't fuck them all,so let the girls have their restrictions!

[Guest 101723-1]

Lol not about to read 8 pages of post but I will say this. I’ve been caught up in the NBA policy. I’ve stated before that I won’t see AA men. That week was a terrible week with a robbery, shorting, stealthing and a NCNS all from AA men. Today? I welcome all races and ages due to the fact that I’ve had those things happen to me again this year. All of them. None of them by AA men this time.

People are shit sometimes. It happens to the best of us.

But I will also say this. Businesses have the right to refuse service to anyone. There’s plenty of AA friendly, 1 eye friendly, Coronavirus friendly, BBFS friendly, 6 toes on one foot friendly, comb over with three strands of hair friendly, Caucasian mountain friendly, providers out there.

Men have types just like women have types.
This is a dead tired topic. Be like Elsa and let it go.

[Anna Nikkole]

It sucks but I still try to give folks a chance.
I think it says a lot when a person groups and entire race together and shuts them out because of one bad apple.
So I allow room to be shown different so I can leave with more positive experiences regarding WM and the hobby.
Since I started being so vocal, the type of WM I’m getting are much different than before.

Not sure if they’re scared And turned out because I’m so outspoken regarding certain things. But it’s been more pleasant than before.
I say get vocal and they’ll pop up out of nowhere saying how much they adore the fact you can even say such a thing. Encounters are already changing ❤️

Very smart lady. I see what you did there, I ain't mad acha...

Chess not checkers