Is the conversation for you a plus?

[Kammye]

Hey everyone! In my years of doing this ive found that ALOT of my clients prefer conversation (as well as intimacy of course) but the conversation too me is such a BIG part of the session. Even for me it really relaxes me and puts me at ease; and vice versa. First time meetings can be nervewrecking i know! I usually know within the first couple of minutes from the greeting if things are gonna be a dud or great. And its all based on the conversation! Even in private messages...i know! If someone just isnt pleasant it is such a turn off. No one wants to be in the company of a debbie downer or a batshit crazy person! Many have become regulars because we have such a great time just yapping lol. Ive learned so many things thru the hobby and meeting new and interesting people. So what say you guys and girls? Does the conversation help or hurt?

[twiggy]

From experience, it has helped.
I now won’t meet someone without being able to have a phone conversation with them(I have decided not to meet men after being able to converse with them. It helps me avoid unpleasant situations). I’ve learned that it allows us both to feel more comfortable when we meet. It really adds to the excitement also because once we realize how well we get along via phone. Meeting in person is a true breeze and feels like we’ve known each other for awhile.

When things start to feel forced or robotic, I don’t want any parts lol.

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

I enjoy some conversation, both before and after the under sheets fun. I think it’s an integral part of GFE, BFE, and IOP. Long story short, I enjoy interacting with the whole woman, not just the woman’s hole.

[Kammye]

I enjoy some conversation, both before and after the under sheets fun. I think it’s an integral part of GFE, BFE, and IOP. Long story short, I enjoy interacting with the whole woman, not just the woman’s hole.

Ha!

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From experience, it has helped.
I now won’t meet someone without being able to have a phone conversation with them(I have decided not to meet men after being able to converse with them. It helps me avoid unpleasant situations). I’ve learned that it allows us both to feel more comfortable when we meet. It really adds to the excitement also because once we realize how well we get along via phone. Meeting in person is a true breeze and feels like we’ve known each other for awhile.

When things start to feel forced or robotic, I don’t want any parts lol.

Same.

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

From experience, it has helped.
I now won’t meet someone without being able to have a phone conversation with them(I have decided not to meet men after being able to converse with them. It helps me avoid unpleasant situations). I’ve learned that it allows us both to feel more comfortable when we meet. It really adds to the excitement also because once we realize how well we get along via phone. Meeting in person is a true breeze and feels like we’ve known each other for awhile.

When things start to feel forced or robotic, I don’t want any parts lol.

^^^^^ THIS!!! That conversation on the phone is a required step in my screening process for several reasons. But this is one of the most important, for me, to help make sure the time is enjoyable for myself as well as the Gent.

For me, how much conversation that goes on after he's in the door but before "activities" depends on the vibe as he steps over the threshold. I try to go in for an immediate greeting hug with a kiss.

If it's a warm/passionate embrace, the conversation is most likely going to be happening between "rounds" or after the physical fun.

If he rushes through the door, brushing past me, and takes several hurried steps into the room......I can tell that either a LOT of conversation is needed to make him feel more at ease, or he's ONLY there for the activities and just wants to get to the bed fast lol

[NordicJag]

I usually schedule longer sessions precisely for that reason. I'm there almost as much for the companionship as I am for the sex. I enjoy conversation in the beginning and cuddling and conversation later.

[82luke]

I like the conversation too. It’s a great icebreaker before activities. Not very fun when you have to try and get someone to talk back to you. Awkward silence kills the mood for me.

[Kammye]

I usually schedule longer sessions precisely for that reason. I'm there almost as much for the companionship as I am for the sex. I enjoy conversation in the beginning and cuddling and conversation later.

I enjoy our conversation as well! :)

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I like the conversation too. It’s a great icebreaker before activities. Not very fun when you have to try and get someone to talk back to you. Awkward silence kills the mood for me.

Yes! It is very awkward when everyone is just staring in silence lol.

[DocHoliday]

I have run into some ladies that use conversation to kill BCD time. "Oh, we only have 10 minutes left, would you like to purchase more time for BCD activities, if not, we can keep talking but I'm going to start getting ready for my next meeting." Yeah, it happens.

[kerwil]

I have run into some ladies that use conversation to kill BCD time. "Oh, we only have 10 minutes left, would you like to purchase more time for BCD activities, if not, we can keep talking but I'm going to start getting ready for my next meeting." Yeah, it happens.

Even though conversation is cool, especially for hour or longer sessions, I'd rather not do much talking. Especially if she's a clockwatcher.

[QweenieMonRoe]

When I use to post my actual ads on Escort babylon that was the biggest plus with me. They loved that I always made them feel comfortable as if they’d been knowing me for years. Now even though I only advertise my subscriptions on those sites I get calls and text wondering if I’m even still working etc. Most tell me I’m one of the best this game has to offer and I should come back bc many providers are robotic, clock watchers and attitude sucks.

[GeorgeDRII]

In my opinion, conversations are key to loosening up prior to, then relaxing after the session. I usually talk to a lady as I undress her and enjoy the tastes of her body. I like to hear her talk then mid sentence she stops to pant or moan lightly. Yes ladies I'm that good, I promise. But most importantly I want the lady to be comfortable with me. For instance when she's sitting on my face and looking down at me asking if she tastes good, while I'm reaching up rubbing her nipples. Then she hears me respond with lick lick and a little slurp from her juices. Yep conversation is awesome!

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

LOL Conversation is just not something I can do DURING activities.

If I can articulate actual words and actually pay attention what someone else is saying.....??? Then I'm not really into whatever "activity" is also happening at the time. LMAO

[GeorgeDRII]

LOL Conversation is just not something I can do DURING activities.

If I can articulate actual words and actually pay attention what someone else is saying.....??? Then I'm not really into whatever "activity" is also happening at the time. LMAO

I can always have you calling out names of people you never met before during our ssssion. Oh Lord, oh Jesus while ur gripping me tight. You ain't never met them before. Hehe

[Kammye]

LOL Conversation is just not something I can do DURING activities.

If I can articulate actual words and actually pay attention what someone else is saying.....??? Then I'm not really into whatever "activity" is also happening at the time. LMAO

I do it before or after...im not trying to have a convi with a cock down my throat lol! But i understand what youre saying doll.