What I might do in session and what I do in private are separate. Privately, I am very submissive. With that said I can with the right person and trust go there.

In session, I play with sensual dominance. I like to say that being submissive I understand what another submissive likes. That said I don’t have dungeon or the skill set for extreme CBT.

Role play, yeah I feel good at role play if I get the character and scenario. Both parties need to be committed or it’s awkward. “Nooo...you are supposed to be the patient...!!!”

Edging, teasing and denial. I don’t see that from the dominant perspective. The verbal cues make it dominant. “Don’t you dare...” Groovy music, low light lighting, comfortable table, lots of oil...lots...all with slow hands, really slow and knowing when to pull back. That’s my recipe.

But..There is nothing wrong with good old fashion vanilla. Vanilla is a wonderful flavor as with anything else.