Is there a such thing as too much during an GFE?

[Olderandwiser]

Anna: You are top shelf for sure. Got to get together again soon.

[mathguy]

Great post/question twiggy! Cool question that isn't just the same old trite filler prose that we see everywhere.

I sometimes find myself getting too personal. Really treating them like someone I’m with and have known.
I recall one situation where he stated “this feels too much like couple sh*t”. Which made me really feel as if I need to be “cold” and straight to business.

All I can say is .......... WOW Really?! Talk about one fucked up dude.

No don't be cold. Be exactly the way you described yourself elsewhere throughout the thread. That's perfect.

I haven’t found a happy medium where I’m not too friendly but not too cold.

No such thing as too friendly or too GFE, baby. The only thing you could do in my book is be "too cold".

Is there truly a such thing as too much?

Nope. Apparently from what you said there are some weird guys who for whatever reason don't like it. That's the same deal as some guys won't like that a girl has X or Y or Z feature or attitude, and vice versa. That's something the person should research either through reviews or just during the text and call exchanges.

I like to talk, laugh, joke, snuggle ��. All that good stuff. Yet I’m getting men who just want me naked soon as they see me.

This is definitely odd if it's happening a lot. I'm sure there are guys who want the "naked part fast" and very little GFE but that just seems fucking weird to me (especially if you're encountering it that often).

Honestly you seem super sweet, nurturing, and genuinely enjoy what you do, but somehow you are attracting the male scum of the hobby? I do not mean that as an insult to you btw. No way no way. I'm baffled is all.

They would be the guys which most girls loathe. These are the men whom are loathed in the hobbyverse and RW alike. Chauvinists, misogynists, and guys who just want a "cum recepticle" (i.e. virtually *any* girl whom they can then use to abuse one of, or all, three of a specific orifice).

Do clients exist that want more?

Absolutely. Without a doubt. Most do. Keep being you. The authentic you. Don't change it.

I wish you all the best! Good luck!

[roncarter]

Hey everyone ���� (truly wanted to hear you ladies and gents opinions.)
So lately I’ve been simply missing things like cooking for someone, dates, cute yard work, trips, events etc with someone.

I sometimes find myself getting too personal. Really treating them like someone I’m with and have known.
I recall one situation where he stated “this feels too much like couple sh*t”. Which made me really feel as if I need to be “cold” and straight to business.
I haven’t found a happy medium where I’m not too friendly but not too cold. It’s either one or the other with me. It’s frustrating because I don’t want folks to be scared away at the fact I like a more personal companion/hobbyist relationship.

I’m one of the nicest people one can meet, but I’m learning that’s not what men like in this business who decide to see me.

Is there truly a such thing as too much?
Ladies, do you feel you have to be someone else during SOME encounters? I feel when a man clearly wants to get right to business, I’m more reserved and my wall goes up. I don’t think I’m as fun unless I’m able to get personal. (Not invasive)
I like to talk, laugh, joke, snuggle ��. All that good stuff. Yet I’m getting men who just want me naked soon as they see me.

Do clients exist that want more? Heck guys have told me they were sick and I’ve wanted to nurse them back to health by making Elderberry syrup lol Pretty wild.

(Praying this is the right section for this��)

I would not call that a SB relationship. Honestly, what OP describes sounds, to me, a lot like how I am with my Gents.

I am not putting on an "act". I genuinely CARE about every client I see. The ones that just want it to be all business and no conversation, cuddling, or genuine human connection either do not return or I am not available when they ask to return.
No hard feelings and I'm happy to be a reference for them to see someone that is a better fit for their desires.

MY "GFE" style is that I am actually their Girl Friend for the time that we are together.
The "strings" are cut as soon as the door closes behind him and reattach the next time he calls. LOL

If that's Too Much GFE......ah well! Different strokes for different folks and all that. I'm happy. My clients are happy. And that's all that matters to me ;-P

I love this. I'm more real life and let's mess around and smile and be intimate type....

Twiggy, Krystal and Anna, I absolutely LOVE your ideas for GFE. This is right up my alley, and honestly I didn't realize this level of intimacy was available in the hobby. None of what you've said is too much for me. I know every guy is different, but the illusion of a real girlfriend during our meet would be wonderful.

[Anna Nikkole]

Anna: You are top shelf for sure. Got to get together again soon.

I hope so darling!!!

[Anna Nikkole]

Twiggy, Krystal and Anna, I absolutely LOVE your ideas for GFE. This is right up my alley, and honestly I didn't realize this level of intimacy was available in the hobby. None of what you've said is too much for me. I know every guy is different, but the illusion of a real girlfriend during our meet would be wonderful.

I remember being intimate with a client and him saying "this feels so real". I guess he hadn't experienced real intimacy before that either. I'm a very passionate sexual woman!!!

[GenesisNicole]

Twiggy, (great name by the way!) :)

You, actually, sound like the type of companion that will do VERY well and have quality gentlemen who want to see you.

I, like you, prefer to get to know the gentleman and have a great time beyond just the activities.

The men you seek are around, and they will find you. :)

I have met a few gentlemen that I hang out with (sometimes "off the clock"), because we have built that type of rapport.

Best of luck to you, Darling.

*curtsy*

[knottyman]

Too gfe?
I doubt it.
But I draw the line at " ass to mouth".
Cuz I'm fucking ronantical like that.
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Ok. I lied. NOBODY draws the line at ass to mouth!!!

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

Too gfe?
I doubt it.
But I draw the line at " ass to mouth".
Cuz I'm fucking ronantical like that.
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Ok. I lied. NOBODY draws the line at ass to mouth!!!

Isn't that a line from "Clerks 2"??

[Anna Nikkole]

All I can say is .......... WOW Really?! Talk about one fucked up dude.

Not really. I am the sensual type, but I can be diverse. I have one clients who I do chit chat with (he isn't gonna escape that part hehe), and he sees me maybe 2x a week. His thing is, "I'm pulling up, get naked". Nothing derogatory in text. Once in the room it's "you love to fuck 10 cocks a day dont ya *****, getting fucked like a *****, getting pounded like a *****". And it's whatever lol. It is what he likes, and although it's not totally me after years and probably 100+ sessions I'm his fave and he is a good guy. He likes the mentality of "fucking a *****". He pays for that fantasy and that's his right he doesn't want that strong hard passionate love making type session.

I personally love when I'm with someone who has fresh breath and body and we get entangled up in each other. That's my preferred session honestly.

But I'll fuck like a ***** hehe.

[mathguy]

^ That's a fair point of view Anna. I was maybe a little too harsh (well, absolutely with the way I worded it).

It's not at all my thing but it's fair how you pointed out guys may have these views and still be "good guys". My main concern is if someone wants only that it could tend to indicate a desire/need to demean women. Now, that said I realize people have fantasies, we all do, in a huge panoply of flavors. It's possible that someone has a really vanilla sex life at home & wants to experience something super extreme (?). They never had a "naughty" girl & want to experience it, for example. It doesn't automatically make them a misogynist. If that were true then any time couples experimented at home with fetishes or extreme sex acts it might connote something warped going on emotionally. And this is not the case.

So, yea, you did change my view a bit ;) I shouldn't have been so harsh with my language in that regard. Good point Nice job :)

[twiggy]

Twiggy, (great name by the way!) :)

You, actually, sound like the type of companion that will do VERY well and have quality gentlemen who want to see you.

I, like you, prefer to get to know the gentleman and have a great time beyond just the activities.

The men you seek are around, and they will find you. :)

I have met a few gentlemen that I hang out with (sometimes "off the clock"), because we have built that type of rapport.

Best of luck to you, Darling.

*curtsy*

Thank you so much! ❤️
It’s been frustrating me to the point I’ve just considering giving up.
Not sure how to advertise more to the type of men I’m seeking.
I also think I encounter these type of men simply because I’m fresh. They consider women who don’t have a huge fan base essentially no good it seems.

[twiggy]

Great post/question twiggy! Cool question that isn't just the same old trite filler prose that we see everywhere.



All I can say is .......... WOW Really?! Talk about one fucked up dude.

No don't be cold. Be exactly the way you described yourself elsewhere throughout the thread. That's perfect.



No such thing as too friendly or too GFE, baby. The only thing you could do in my book is be "too cold".



Nope. Apparently from what you said there are some weird guys who for whatever reason don't like it. That's the same deal as some guys won't like that a girl has X or Y or Z feature or attitude, and vice versa. That's something the person should research either through reviews or just during the text and call exchanges.



This is definitely odd if it's happening a lot. I'm sure there are guys who want the "naked part fast" and very little GFE but that just seems fucking weird to me (especially if you're encountering it that often).

Honestly you seem super sweet, nurturing, and genuinely enjoy what you do, but somehow you are attracting the male scum of the hobby? I do not mean that as an insult to you btw. No way no way. I'm baffled is all.

They would be the guys which most girls loathe. These are the men whom are loathed in the hobbyverse and RW alike. Chauvinists, misogynists, and guys who just want a "cum recepticle" (i.e. virtually *any* girl whom they can then use to abuse one of, or all, three of a specific orifice).


Absolutely. Without a doubt. Most do. Keep being you. The authentic you. Don't change it.

I wish you all the best! Good luck!

Thank you for responding! I truly appreciate everyone’s prospective regarding this.
I think if I’ll continue to be in the hobby I’ll have to change some things. Market differently.
I’m just over feeling as if I’m not appreciated here at all and the way I like to do things isn’t right because of what other women do or don’t do.
I think all these women are amazing no matter how they do business. Just wish the men seemed to think that way who want to see me

[twiggy]

I remember being intimate with a client and him saying "this feels so real". I guess he hadn't experienced real intimacy before that either. I'm a very passionate sexual woman!!!

From what I’ve gathered about you, you’re fkn amazing! ��❤️ And the fact you’ve been responding is greatly appreciated. Thank you.

[Anna Nikkole]

From what I’ve gathered about you, you’re fkn amazing! ��❤️ And the fact you’ve been responding is greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Thank you beautiful. I just give my honest opinions. Everyone's fantasy is different. I'm diverse but I would rather make sweet passionate lovings. My personal preference just like you, I'm a spoiler and pamperer. And I would understand it being difficult to change from "who" you are.

I've been in the business for several years now, and I cater to different fantasies. But even the most odd fantasy could come from an incredible individual. I have met such amazing men that this hobby has benefited me more than financially.

If you find that you can't "play it off" as far as being that porn star type then many here would still see you for that intimate touch. But at least try, the wider your menu the more gents and personalities you can cater to!!!

You have a beautiful personality, don't change that

[PerfectGent]

You, actually, sound like the type of companion that will do VERY well and have quality gentlemen who want to see you.

I, like you, prefer to get to know the gentleman and have a great time beyond just the activities.

The men you seek are around, and they will find you. :)

*curtsy*

Couldn't agree more, and after seeing her multiple times, I can attest to that

Thank you so much! ❤️
It’s been frustrating me to the point I’ve just considering giving up.
Not sure how to advertise more to the type of men I’m seeking.

I will say that your advertising could possibly send mixed signals based on what I know about you, but that can be changed. I wouldn't recommend giving up though...the hobby is much better with you in it.