Is there a such thing as too much during an GFE?

[Universal]

You are describing a sugar-baby relationship and that's great for men that want one paticular woman. Each client will be different and you can always ask if he likes something more personal or the wham-bam, thank u, mam'. Don't take it to heart and change your personality. Get on a sugar daddy website and do magic.

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

I would not call that a SB relationship. Honestly, what OP describes sounds, to me, a lot like how I am with my Gents.

I am not putting on an "act". I genuinely CARE about every client I see. The ones that just want it to be all business and no conversation, cuddling, or genuine human connection either do not return or I am not available when they ask to return.
No hard feelings and I'm happy to be a reference for them to see someone that is a better fit for their desires.

MY "GFE" style is that I am actually their Girl Friend for the time that we are together.
The "strings" are cut as soon as the door closes behind him and reattach the next time he calls. LOL

If that's Too Much GFE......ah well! Different strokes for different folks and all that. I'm happy. My clients are happy. And that's all that matters to me ;-P

[MoonlightGraham]

I would not call that a SB relationship. Honestly, what OP describes sounds, to me, a lot like how I am with my Gents.

I am not putting on an "act". I genuinely CARE about every client I see. The ones that just want it to be all business and no conversation, cuddling, or genuine human connection either do not return or I am not available when they ask to return.
No hard feelings and I'm happy to be a reference for them to see someone that is a better fit for their desires.

MY "GFE" style is that I am actually their Girl Friend for the time that we are together.
The "strings" are cut as soon as the door closes behind him and reattach the next time he calls. LOL

If that's Too Much GFE......ah well! Different strokes for different folks and all that. I'm happy. My clients are happy. And that's all that matters to me ;-P

Ditto, Krystal, quite well said. Women who are genuine behind closed doors will, or should, attract the kind of men they want to see.

[NordicJag]

twiggy, it seems that you and Krystal have very similar ideas of what GFE is. So many of the guys have had it beat into their heads that GFE means certain activities. That is horse hockey. GFE is an attitude. For me GFE is like bringing your girlfriend home from a date. She invites you in. You get a couple of drinks and you sit on the couch and start talking. Pretty soon you're starting to make out a little and things progress from there.

Many of the guys that come and are all business would say that they want GFE. BULL SHIT. That is not a GFE attitude. If you go into your girlfriends house acting like that, then you're probably not going to have a girlfriend for long. If that's the way you want your sessions to go that's fine. People want different things. Just don't call it GFE.

[NordicJag]

twiggy, on your post above your sig line doesn't show. However, I just saw in another thread and it said that BnGs are your specialty. If that's what you're advertising, then you are going to get the all business guys.

[DocHoliday]

OP, your ideas on GFE are great and good to go!!

[82luke]

I don’t see a problem with either of your idea of gfe. I like some get to know time before the other activities start.

[twiggy]

I would not call that a SB relationship. Honestly, what OP describes sounds, to me, a lot like how I am with my Gents.

I am not putting on an "act". I genuinely CARE about every client I see. The ones that just want it to be all business and no conversation, cuddling, or genuine human connection either do not return or I am not available when they ask to return.
No hard feelings and I'm happy to be a reference for them to see someone that is a better fit for their desires.

MY "GFE" style is that I am actually their Girl Friend for the time that we are together.
The "strings" are cut as soon as the door closes behind him and reattach the next time he calls. LOL

If that's Too Much GFE......ah well! Different strokes for different folks and all that. I'm happy. My clients are happy. And that's all that matters to me ;-P

EXACTLY! Like I really feel and dang near believe I’m theirs in that moment. ��I think a sb/sd situation would hurt me more as id get attached and want it to truly be a relationship where I do happen to be young and he’s older.

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Keep your options open beautiful, do both the GFE and Sugar baby relationships. Try it and let us know if it works. Communication is your main factor. Hope it gets better.

Thank you lovely ❤️
Going to definitely try communicating what I’m seeking better. As someone fairly new to this, I find myself struggling with wording when I make ads. So for now I’ve kept things pretty short and simply.
I’m a talker more so than writer which is frustrating