I went to see a lady (verified, 3 reviews, 1 from a verified hobbiest) the other day. At the incall hotel room, I request to check first by touching her, and she declined. Instead, she asked me to lay out the donation before checking, which I refused. She then offered to touch me with cloths on, which I declined again. Then she said very clear and loud that I can give part of the donation to watch her undress. Her very explicit wording and the sparkling clean room gave me a huge red flag. So I left some roses for her wasted time and left immediately. Can't afford taking chances on safety.
I'm new to Texas from north midwest, and everyone there was perfectly fine with checking (except uncles). Am I being too paranoid? or it's a red flag here too? I don't want to reveal her handle here because she might be good and it was just me too nervous.