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    This is my pet peeve too but It hasn’t happened recently.
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    When I was accepting references for screening.....

    Sometimes guys would send me the provider's name and phone number. If she did not have that phone number posted in her sig line or profile, I would PM (if I could find them here lol)

    Even if he gives the number, Ladies need to check and make sure she has it published before using it to check the reference.

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    Bone head move on my part y’all! It was a trap- a bunch of y’all p’s ask for it. It won’t happen again! To whom do I owe penance?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tracker7 View Post
    Bone head move on my part y’all! It was a trap- a bunch of y’all p’s ask for it. It won’t happen again! To whom do I owe penance?
    My bad as well, lesson learned!! I just thought I was making it easier for the screening process. It will not happen again.

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    My question is ..... how are they screening, if their is no connection of the number to the providers? How do they know it’s not the guy on the other end verifying himself?


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    I had one guy who KEPT doing it. Until i just stopped responding. EMAIL ME. OR SEND LINK.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tracker7 View Post
    Bone head move on my part y’all! It was a trap- a bunch of y’all p’s ask for it. It won’t happen again! To whom do I owe penance?
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    Quote Originally Posted by SuperHead713 View Post
    My question is ..... how are they screening, if their is no connection of the number to the providers? How do they know it’s not the guy on the other end verifying himself?
    The way they have been contacting asking for a reference they probably aren’t screening and is another reason why I don’t want people to have my number! If the provider doesn’t advertise her number there is no way of even screening the provider like you said how do they know that’s even a provider they're texting!
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    I had a Gent give me three references via PM. All with just phone numbers and no link to their profiles.

    One of those, he gave her old handle and not the one she currently uses. - luckily, I knew who he meant.

    Only one of the three had her phone number in her profile/sig line. I texted that one and got a reply in a timely manner.

    The other two, I PMed. It was quite some time before they replied telling me that they rarely check messages and giving me their numbers for future reference checks.
    The numbers they gave did match what he had given me, but it was too late. The wait time between his giving the sparse (and partially incorrect) information and the time that I received replies in the positive for this Gent was so long that, by the time I could "give the green light", he had moved on to more immediately attainable pleasures.

    Even though I gave him the "thumbs up" and let him know he is now screened and free to schedule.....I have not heard from him again since. That's $$ lost for me.

    And that's the story of the last time I accepted references for screening. LOL

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    I don't call a provider for references, easier/faster to do my own screening & it eliminates everyone getting into each other's business.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Krystal_RoseBBW View Post
    I had a Gent give me three references via PM. All with just phone numbers and no link to their profiles.

    One of those, he gave her old handle and not the one she currently uses. - luckily, I knew who he meant.

    Only one of the three had her phone number in her profile/sig line. I texted that one and got a reply in a timely manner.

    The other two, I PMed. It was quite some time before they replied telling me that they rarely check messages and giving me their numbers for future reference checks.
    The numbers they gave did match what he had given me, but it was too late. The wait time between his giving the sparse (and partially incorrect) information and the time that I received replies in the positive for this Gent was so long that, by the time I could "give the green light", he had moved on to more immediately attainable pleasures.

    Even though I gave him the "thumbs up" and let him know he is now screened and free to schedule.....I have not heard from him again since. That's $$ lost for me.

    And that's the story of the last time I accepted references for screening. LOL
    One thing you could possibly do in a situation like this is to PM like you did, then send a text to the given number just saying that you sent a PM. If the number is a correct number, then this might speed things up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dorthy Monroe View Post
    When Giving Other Providers Your Provider References Information DO NOT

    Give Them The Providers Phone Number If She Doesn’t Advertise Her Number

    Simply Send A Link From Her Page So That They Can Contact Them Directly Through PM!

    You Wouldn’t Want Us Giving Out Your Number That You Don’t Advertise So Have The Same Respect For The Love Of Tebow!

    Please Don’t Be A F u c k t a r d
    Usually, its simple to ask the lady to agree for her number to be given out for a reference. This thread made me recall when we met years ago...its time fir a revisit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NordicJag View Post
    One thing you could possibly do in a situation like this is to PM like you did, then send a text to the given number just saying that you sent a PM. If the number is a correct number, then this might speed things up.
    Yes.....to the Ladies that accept references for screening, and are willing to spend that extra time that the potential client was not willing to spend by sending the requested information for her screening.... that's a very good idea.

    My point was that part of why I no longer accept references for screening is that

    1) All too often the Gents do not send the correct information so it takes more time to screen but they don't want to wait that long for the screening process.
    and 2) Providers are busy and sometimes it takes hours (sometimes days) to get a reply to the reference request and potential clients don't always want to wait that long.

    You know what would also be a good idea that would speed things along? For the guys to pay a little more attention to the individual provider's policies/preferences and send the requested correct information to begin with. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Krystal_RoseBBW View Post
    You know what would also be a good idea that would speed things along? For the guys to pay a little more attention to the individual provider's policies/preferences and send the requested correct information to begin with. LOL
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    I ask for providers contact info...meaning email or handle to pm her at

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    Wow, that sucks that happen to you! That is a rookie move.
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