Sex Industry Dying??? Or all the good guys gone?? Maybe both!

[Alyssa Monroe]

It's not dying at all... The longest living profession known to man ��

Step outside and mingle.. there are plenty of men offline and outside that have no issue with paying what you ask...

Bars, Coffee Shops, Hotels, Casinos.... There's other ways to make money without posting an ad. I'm not talking about walking the streets, please don't do that!

[Tracker7]

There are pearls of wisdom in some of these responses. I’m still here. Markets fluctuate, use the stuff between your ears and think outside the box and find better quality to put in yours (box).

[Universal]

It's not dying at all... The longest living profession known to man ��

Step outside and mingle.. there are plenty of men offline and outside that have no issue with paying what you ask...

Bars, Coffee Shops, Hotels, Casinos.... There's other ways to make money without posting an ad. I'm not talking about walking the streets, please don't do that!

Exactly right

[1andonlyboardman]

Exactly 100%



What you’re describing is nothing new though this is the same shit that has been happening 10 years ago so you’re not adding anything knew! T A R D S have always had a budget regardless of it was 2020 or 2009 this is irrelevant to the OPs Statement!

Your first statement of the rise of sugar baby sites and more young woman trying to figure out what to charge bs y’all are in yalls own category! Those who look for high quality don’t go for what you’re describing! Read my post above!

There are those who are looking for a nutt and those looking for a memorable time and will repeat! You can speak for your bust a nutt experience but that absolutely doesn’t speak for the quality providers that are out there!

The rest of what you said is exactly what I said in my post above ! In these times you either sink or swim like another smart provider said!

There is a lot of BP girls on here but there is a lot of men who look for woman with class it’s all about marketing like I’ve said! You either has the cheap haggling marketing and delivery skills or the upper end delivering skills period ! No girl can blame anyone but themselves for the type of companionship and dates they acquire from there marketing skills!

^^^^^This is why you've always been my favorite.

[kline]

I feel like the sex industry is dying. Ever since backpage went down other sites have went down, came back and never been the same. I use to be able to make a couple thousand each city I went too. Now it’s not even close to that. Once upon a time 250/Hr-300/hr outcall wasn’t “expensive”. Lol like what the hell? Did we get lefted with all the CHEAP guys and time wasters or what?! I guess back to working that good ole 9-5. And whoever wants to see me for 250-300/hr will book me lol. Pray the industry goes back the way it was and all the good guys come backk..

I know that I will get jumped all over for this observation but it is a fact nevertheless. I fully understand why the ladies are requiring so much information from the guys these days and even why so many will not see a guy who has no references. However probably 75% of the "good Guys" out there who would love to meet with a lady are basically shut out completely. Even the so called "newby friendly" ladies don't seem to understand the meaning of that phrase. I was very active in Houston prior to an accident that I had about nine years ago. Since then I have basically been inactive. I recently contacted someone who said she was newby friendly. She emailed back that I needed to send the contact info for at least three ladies that I have seen recently. I returned the email and repeated that I have been inactive for years so no references exist. She emailed back "stop bothering me". I have another story as well but no point in rambling on here. I only commented on this because you said that you felt the industry is dying out. I doubt it will ever dye out but it will be limited to a relatively tiny group of guys.

[Nova Luxx]

I know that I will get jumped all over for this observation but it is a fact nevertheless. I fully understand why the ladies are requiring so much information from the guys these days and even why so many will not see a guy who has no references. However probably 75% of the "good Guys" out there who would love to meet with a lady are basically shut out completely. Even the so called "newby friendly" ladies don't seem to understand the meaning of that phrase. I was very active in Houston prior to an accident that I had about nine years ago. Since then I have basically been inactive. I recently contacted someone who said she was newby friendly. She emailed back that I needed to send the contact info for at least three ladies that I have seen recently. I returned the email and repeated that I have been inactive for years so no references exist. She emailed back "stop bothering me". I have another story as well but no point in rambling on here. I only commented on this because you said that you felt the industry is dying out. I doubt it will ever dye out but it will be limited to a relatively tiny group of guys.

Newbie friendly doesn't mean you forego them requiring personal information from you to feel safe with you. Maybe you don't understand the meaning of the phrase "newbie friendly". Basically it means, they screen you as far as they can, and if they feel okay about it, they are willing to take one for the team and take that risk by seeing you WITHOUT references.

I think you would understand more if you started advertising your services where you're at your most vulnerable (naked with a stranger) and then they get out of hand, steal your money, force themselves on you, rape you, beat you up, or kill you. Then you would understand why we screen. Even newbie friendly providers should screen.

I think a lot of guys think "newbie friendly" means you don't need to be screened. Like "Hey, I love your pics and would love to see you. I'm a nice guy. You'd like me, but I won't be screened. Take a chance on me. I have lots of money and I tip generously." Hell, even Ted Bundy was nice and good looking, and we all know what he did.

Also many guys try to circumvent screening, acting like they're newbies, when they really aren't. They're just former "hobbyists" who had so many alerts and got blacklisted and had to make up a new handle and persona so they could continue their nefarious ways.

Just my opinion, but after a year and a half, you still aren't verified, and I have a hard time believing none of the newbie friendly ladies are willing to see you.

If you're having trouble getting ladies to see you and you really wanna get your foot in the door, jump through the lady's hoops and do what she asks to feel safe. Otherwise, Palmela Handerson will likely be your "go to".

Oh, and be happy the providers are screening. If they take care of their freedom, safety, and security by screening, chances are they'll take care of yours and their other clients too.

Good luck.

[Anna Nikkole]

Loa +1000

[kline]

Newbie friendly doesn't mean you forego them requiring personal information from you to feel safe with you. Maybe you don't understand the meaning of the phrase "newbie friendly". Basically it means, they screen you as far as they can, and if they feel okay about it, they are willing to take one for the team and take that risk by seeing you WITHOUT references.

I think you would understand more if you started advertising your services where you're at your most vulnerable (naked with a stranger) and then they get out of hand, steal your money, force themselves on you, rape you, beat you up, or kill you. Then you would understand why we screen. Even newbie friendly providers should screen.

I think a lot of guys think "newbie friendly" means you don't need to be screened. Like "Hey, I love your pics and would love to see you. I'm a nice guy. You'd like me, but I won't be screened. Take a chance on me. I have lots of money and I tip generously." Hell, even Ted Bundy was nice and good looking, and we all know what he did.

Also many guys try to circumvent screening, acting like they're newbies, when they really aren't. They're just former "hobbyists" who had so many alerts and got blacklisted and had to make up a new handle and persona so they could continue their nefarious ways.

Just my opinion, but after a year and a half, you still aren't verified, and I have a hard time believing none of the newbie friendly ladies are willing to see you.

If you're having trouble getting ladies to see you and you really wanna get your foot in the door, jump through the lady's hoops and do what she asks to feel safe. Otherwise, Palmela Handerson will likely be your "go to".

Oh, and be happy the providers are screening. If they take care of their freedom, safety, and security by screening, chances are they'll take care of yours and their other clients too.

Good luck.

Hi LOA. I was making more than one point in my response to this thread. I don't think that you read my post any more carefully than the lady I referenced in the post. I sent out five requests over a two day period not long ago. All containing the exact same information including the facts that I have been out of the market for nearly nine years. Hence NO REFERENCES to be had. I also said that I was retired from my job so NO REFERENCE there. Three of the ladies sent back very polite responses stating that they hoped that I would understand that they were not comfortable seeing me with no references. I wished them well and said that I understood. One did not read my initial contact as she texted back for me to send my employment information. I did not even bother responding to her. The lady mentioned in my post obviously did not read my initial contact either since she texted back to send info on three references. The rest of the story in in my initial post.

[Guest 081220-1]

Sometimes what gets me is when a lady is running a special and will not respond to an appointment request. Then when she does respond, its to apologizefor not responding and she duly informs you of her new upgraded rates. It always seems like the special was a bait, and once you take it,they switch the rates.

I think my downs are all on thise ladies and my ups are on the ones who timely honor their end of the deal.

[WW-therealMiaRose]

It’s not dying but everything changes within time and with that being said yes back then everything was easy but if you have been around for a long time you should be established enough to have regulars! If you don’t then yes I could see where you would come up with this assumption!

This day and age you actually have to know how to market yourself and if you can figure that out your life as a w h o r e is much easier than others who think they can just get on here and post an ad and make easy money! It takes work to be successful in this business! If you’re not getting the rate you’re advertising then maybe you need to lower your rate and if that’s not an option then you really have no one to be mad at but yourself! Are you doing everything a provider would do in your price range as far as marketing, advertising, website, reviews, and etc!

If you’re relying on only oh2 as your source of income that’s your first problem! Do you offer other alternative services besides GFE and the list goes on! Some of y’all girls just have no clue even after years in this business and it’s truly sad!

Writing this poor me I’m slow ad isn’t going to help you either you should have either posted this in the women’s section or kept it to yourself! You get what you put forth in this business complaining isn’t going to get you anywhere! I should charge you how to be a successful w h o r e lesson 1 fee because you should know all of this already!

Also if you’ve been around a long time then you should know when it’s going to be slow and when it’s not and should plan ahead accordingly this saves you a lot of stress and unnecessary posts such as this one!



The industry will never be how it was 10 years ago because like I stated everything changes with time you just have to learn to adapt and etc!

I can post whatever I want wherever I want 😂

[WW-therealMiaRose]

All these replies I hope u have a house a car and business lol cus if not then girl don’t even talk to me. I’m not tryna sell my pussy till im old and wrinkly and 40 😂😂😂 I’m trying actually get out of this hobby. I feel like the sex industry is dying to ME! I use to be able to make a couple grand in one night from posting 250/300Hr now I have to post HALF of that. I have my own place in the galleria my own car and next my own business so this was never meant to be long term for ME. So yeah it’s dying for ME! But carry on lol

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California & Vegas are great places to tour, and the gentleman are extra generous, just try different sites but a 9-5 is a great back up plan. Good luck beautiful.

Thanks for the info boo

[WW-therealMiaRose]

It's not dying at all... The longest living profession known to man ��

Step outside and mingle.. there are plenty of men offline and outside that have no issue with paying what you ask...

Bars, Coffee Shops, Hotels, Casinos.... There's other ways to make money without posting an ad. I'm not talking about walking the streets, please don't do that!

Not the longest known to man. Lol strip clubs have been empty ass hell. Even porn stars are making their own Onlyfans cus they’re not getting paid enough lol

[Fancyinheels]

I can post whatever I want wherever I want 

Well, actually members must post within site rules, so "whatever I want wherever I want" is not entirely accurate. Just sayin'.

All these replies I hope u have a house a car and business lol cus if not then girl don’t even talk to me. I’m not tryna sell my pussy till im old and wrinkly and 40  I’m trying actually get out of this hobby. I feel like the sex industry is dying to ME! I use to be able to make a couple grand in one night from posting 250/300Hr now I have to post HALF of that. I have my own place in the galleria my own car and next my own business so this was never meant to be long term for ME. So yeah it’s dying for ME! But carry on lol

And about "old and wrinkly and 40," I'm semi-retired by choice (Irish Chihuahua Refuge paid off BY the Hobby), only still seeing a few longtime loyal regulars as I enjoy them, but at 60 I'm still getting requests by new fellows, so let's not disparage old broads in the profession needlessly, chuckle.

For that matter, none of us has to criticize other members even if opinions widely vary. We can all talk about stuff respectfully, can't we???

Everyone makes their own decisions, and Irish luck to those in whatever way they elect to conduct their risque biz or if/when departing the Hobby for other paths.

[WW-therealMiaRose]

yup, the industry is SATURATED

providers are competing against wannabe providers on 'professional cuddling' websites,
'sugar dating' websites, etc. since bros are getting it for a lot less on those sites

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umm... we're in a capitalist economy tho

"Capitalism often includes significant amounts of competition to improve the quality and quantity of consumer goods and services.
Business owners must find ways to differentiate themselves from other companies to gain significant market share levels."

so providers need to find ways to differentiate themselves in order to attract the highest bidder

there will always be providers who charge less, and their rates don't affect my business............................

Yup DEFINITELY more females then males. Lol I don’t care what anyone says. When BP and Eccie went down we lost A LOT of men 😂

[WW-therealMiaRose]

Okay then tell her not tell me where I should post and tell me I’m “winning” “crying” about it when I’m just VENTING.and AGAIN! I’m speaking about ME, I don’t wanna be in the hobby until I’m old and winkled up. That’s not me and even if it was I better have a BIG house and own business if I’m doing this for 10+ years. Again if IM doing this. People are so rude then when I’m rude back it’s a problem lol wow ����