Flowers are plant sex. To make a flower bloom you must till the soil, plant the seeds, weed, water, fertilize, make sure the plant gets plenty of sun, and protect it from the cold. In other words flowers require patience, attention, and nurturing to blossom. When similar principles are applied to human sex, it is a lot more pleasurable. This work can enable bad habits or teach better ways. I am an advocate of the latter. Would love to hear what people are teaching and learning from the hobby.