Did you really expect me to do that?

[lovelyxxxo]

Some of you love arguing just to argue
There's nothing in her ads or reviews about being shy
Just a cold dead fish with Backpage tendencies
Clients fuck her for her looks,not performance

Im not sure what bp tendencies are but if the teviews say dead fish in her discriptive terms. Then thats on you gentleman for expecting anything otherwise. You win some you lose some just be glad it wasnt you and move on.. why is this thread even still going? Its turning into a slam page against her but rem. It takes 2

[Aweshucks]

I think she’s hot and have no doubt I could accommodate her personality and have a great time. We are all here for different reasons. Some want PSE fast and furious. Others want connection and the rest is just a means to that end. She is perfect for some of us and not at all what others are looking for. Same could be said for any provider. We’re all different. When someone asks if a lady is GFE I am sure to say “for me she was or wasn’t”. For me I try to find ladies I click with who offer what I’m looking for. I’d imagine it’s harder for the ladies but ideally I’d guess they’d find guys they clicked with and do their best to make a regular out of them.

[Johnnyspeed]

Takes a lot to put these thoughts in a public discussion. Seems like she really cares about doing this long term and was looking for constructive feedback. What's wrong with trying to accommodate her? IMO it's way better to get an idea of her expectations prior to showing up for an appointment. It's kinda like a self review, kinda cool. If you knew exactly how to approach a girl without asking , seems like you'd have a much better time. Nothing is worse thsn being scolded cause you have the wrong approach.

[roncarter]

Takes a lot to put these thoughts in a public discussion. Seems like she really cares about doing this long term and was looking for constructive feedback. What's wrong with trying to accommodate her? IMO it's way better to get an idea of her expectations prior to showing up for an appointment. It's kinda like a self review, kinda cool. If you knew exactly how to approach a girl without asking , seems like you'd have a much better time. Nothing is worse thsn being scolded cause you have the wrong approach.

I agree, and I wonder if this aspect gets overlooked sometimes. In my experience, if she’s happy and confortable because we spend a little time breaking the ice, it’s easier for both us to relax and focus on each other.

I don’t really want to just “get to business” immediately, especially if it’s the first time! Too impersonal for me.

[DizzyDog]

I completely understand the complexity of 'first encounters'. I've been around the hobby for a while, and I even dabbled as a pseudo escort for wealthy Japanese women when I was stationed in Japan years ago. Initial shyness and awkwardness is completely normal when first encountering the unknown. The most amazing things can happen when you are humble, confident, respectful, and willing to take the time to meet and SEE the human. It's the first step toward intimacy. It's the difference between intimate pleasure for the soul, and unfulfilling, shallow-minded sex. Just say'n...

[Anna Nikkole]

If the guy gets naked and lays down, it's sudden, you fake it till you make it. I personally would sit next to him and rub his body while talking my own nervousness away. Maybe it's a tease, but just humor me for a minute or 2. Some of us don't like impersonal no matter how quick. I do qv and I still get in a little small talk. I don't count it against his time. I'm a empath however and I like to make sure we are both relaxed!

[tbone2u]

I enjoy the initial "breaking the ice" time. If I wanted to immediately just stick my dick in something I would find a glory hole.

[Anna Nikkole]

I enjoy the initial "breaking the ice" time. If I wanted to immediately just stick my dick in something I would find a glory hole.

You would be surprised how many want a fuck slut or a ***** to be nasty and bend over and take it. You would be surprised how many want some sort of intimacy. I'm ok with either once my personal fears are gone. After a decade, and the fact that we are 1 on 1, I learn how to deal with these emotions.

But yes absolutely. T-bone, I'm with you, lets make love

[jacksparrow]

Kissy Kissy, sucky sucky, fucky fucky...bye bye...

[JessieJane]

Why are ppl bumping year old threads lmao... Kissy kissy bye bye 2020 and 2021 new hot topics.

Hopefully Cindy has worked past her "shy" phase and is having a damn good time hobbying with the good gents of Oh2.

[tbone2u]

You ask why Jessie? Because one person will bump an old thread and a lot of others, including myself, don't always bother to see when the thread was started.
On the other side of the coin...some may enjoy the different direction the thread took. They almost always drift away.

But that's just my opinion