I don't read reviews sweetheart but believe me, A shy personality isn't going to stop a man that craves a passive woman. Alpha males that takes the lead in the bedroom won't pass it up. Less talk and more action is is what most are looking for.Originally Posted by osirus09
I am NOT defending anyone, pointing out a personality trait is different than actual abilities. If a beautiful escort was deaf and couldn't talk, you would still visit the provider. Just a thought.
So basically I’m given an ultimatum. Either get with it or get lost????? Lol no no no no no no. Your not hearing me or at least not all of me. The problem is, guys come in on FIRST encounter and expect me to act as if I’ve known them my whole life when I’ve stressed (often more than once) that I’m shy & submissive. It’s really not fair that I will have already explained this and they ALL pretend to be okay and know what to do to make me more comfortable yet do nothing at all but lay there and expect me to go full on PSE �� I’m a little sarcastic, but seriously. I’m getting better though, I just felt a little offended that literally everyone under the post was blaming me for something that literally isn’t my fault at all and I would go into detail on how it isn’t my fault but I don’t think I’m allowed. All the comments under it were RUDE. Some one said “just go in hard and bend her over” LIKE SRSSLYY??????? You don’t think that’s apart of the damn problem??? Lmaoooo.
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Zoooooooom...(the sound of all advice going right over your head) Just keep blaming the guys for your issues and best of luck...
I'm wondering how I am blaming you. Oh well, I tried. I definitely didn't see NordicJag or George blaming.
Try to read the advice and take parts that you like and leave the rest.
Last edited by Vanessa; 01-22-2020 at 05:26 PM.
I took a look and I don't see a bad review or bad remarks. I am missing something there.
I did see a pic that looks super hot.
I would like to offer some advice however, and will send a PM later, since I believe not all things should be public discussion. I do wish I could see the remarks that were made though, to better guide the advice I would like to offer.
I try my to have empathy but in this situation I feel the onus is on you. The guys pay you for services, a part of that may be to act as if you've known them your whole life. The fact that you are shy & submissive is, unfortunately, a you problem. As others have said, it was your decision to provide. I'm not saying it's your fault, but it definitely isn't the guys' fault. I'm like osirus, likely to chat a little especially if I feel the other person is a bit shy, but again, the onus isn't on the client.
Truth.
She has PAGES of all YES reviews on Eccie.
I love smart women ^^^ Thxs for looking
I have come to find a gfe experience is depicted of a set of skills and being able to act like you have known for longer by conversing is one set of skills that is mandatory (most girlfriends dont just hop in bed instantly) but it isnt anyones fault learn and grow good luck hun.
I have a deaf provider that I see. I would not let that stop me
And she has loads of no reviews and will not return comments in Lockerroom for OH2 and eccie
I'm not going to comment at all on what's already happened--but maybe you can use your qualities as an advantage. I think it's really cute that you're shy, that would be a turn-on for me.
If you want to nip in the bud those guys who have different expectations, maybe if you lay out what you're looking for in your ad (like you've described in this thread) you'll avoid any misunderstandings, and also attract some hobbyists who like your shyness.
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SpanishCandy,
I used to follow you on Snapchat and when I was interested in a meetup with you, I asked about your rates and inquired if daty was on the menu. Where a simple no would have sufficed, you were and said something to the point of how would I do that with someone I don't know. Instead of being rude I simply stopped following you. If it was a symptom of your shyness, that caused the response you gave me then I can see your issue. If your shyness comes off as cold or rude then that is why you are getting bad reviews.
TBH you have been in the game too long to be trying to say shyness is the reason for bad service.
Trust me ive heard from multiple sources there have been times they put yes in reccomendation ( so she doesnt retaliate) but r.o.s has said otherwise. So i wouldnt count eccie chickens b4 they hatch i habe 8 pgs of straight yes reviews but are they really?? I will never know as i dont have that access and neither will a unverified or non premium hobbyist on the other site.
I say this only to say.. treat everyone like they are the reason for your smile first thing in the morning, treat everyone with respect. Know your individual assests and skillset and make it clear in your bio so these gentleman know exactly what to expect in meeting there is nothing wrong with being shy but if a guy doesnt know then well.. .
Simply saying submissive just means your not gonna tie him up you know the leather and whips option osnt going to be worn by you type sitch.
I would give a brief bio truly laying out your individual personality.. for example
"The sexy librarian type" (smart,beautiful,more introvert but everyone knows her body was meant for sin..) just a example
Heh at least include that information in your ads
And stop offering quick visits and hhr for first timers,if u want to spend a few minutes to break the ice and feel comfortable
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