Did you really expect me to do that?

[DizzyDog]

I completely understand the complexity of 'first encounters'. I've been around the hobby for a while, and I even dabbled as a pseudo escort for wealthy Japanese women when I was stationed in Japan years ago. Initial shyness and awkwardness is completely normal when first encountering the unknown. The most amazing things can happen when you are humble, confident, respectful, and willing to take the time to meet and SEE the human. It's the first step toward intimacy. It's the difference between intimate pleasure for the soul, and unfulfilling, shallow-minded sex. Just say'n...

[Anna Nikkole]

If the guy gets naked and lays down, it's sudden, you fake it till you make it. I personally would sit next to him and rub his body while talking my own nervousness away. Maybe it's a tease, but just humor me for a minute or 2. Some of us don't like impersonal no matter how quick. I do qv and I still get in a little small talk. I don't count it against his time. I'm a empath however and I like to make sure we are both relaxed!

[tbone2u]

I enjoy the initial "breaking the ice" time. If I wanted to immediately just stick my dick in something I would find a glory hole.

[Anna Nikkole]

I enjoy the initial "breaking the ice" time. If I wanted to immediately just stick my dick in something I would find a glory hole.

You would be surprised how many want a fuck slut or a ***** to be nasty and bend over and take it. You would be surprised how many want some sort of intimacy. I'm ok with either once my personal fears are gone. After a decade, and the fact that we are 1 on 1, I learn how to deal with these emotions.

But yes absolutely. T-bone, I'm with you, lets make love

[jacksparrow]

Kissy Kissy, sucky sucky, fucky fucky...bye bye...

[JessieJane]

Why are ppl bumping year old threads lmao... Kissy kissy bye bye 2020 and 2021 new hot topics.

Hopefully Cindy has worked past her "shy" phase and is having a damn good time hobbying with the good gents of Oh2.

[tbone2u]

You ask why Jessie? Because one person will bump an old thread and a lot of others, including myself, don't always bother to see when the thread was started.
On the other side of the coin...some may enjoy the different direction the thread took. They almost always drift away.

But that's just my opinion