Verification using personal info??

[Darksun000]

I know how important verification is so I and many others subscribe to p411 to make the process less difficult. There are a few providers asking for driver's license, Facebook page, linked in, busines cards, etc. For verification. When an unestablished provider asks for that the hair's begin to stand up on the back of my neck. What is the logic in that? This is supposed to be a discreet hobby. I hope others are not giving that. I want thoughts from hobbyist and providers on this issue.

[mochamagicman2]

Why not throw in your social security number while you're at it....

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

When an unestablished provider asks for that the hair's begin to stand up on the back of my neck.

I totally understand where you're coming from here. And just like us Ladies ...."If it don't feel right, walk away"

But to give a little perspective from the Lady's point of view... An unestablished provider is going to sometimes have a hard time getting answers to reference checks for the same reason you don't want to give her your personal info.

She's "unknown". So answering in the positive when asked about a client with whom we hold trust without knowing that she is a legit provider (and not LE or a pissed of SO), we are showing a similar amount of indiscretion as you, the client, are trying to avoid.

See the conundrum? It's almost a "Chicken or Egg" situation. lol

She has a need to feel safe with the Gents she chooses to entertain so that she can feel at ease and provide the highest level of service so that she might become more established but she has to become established before quality Gents will trust her with the information she needs to screen so that she may feel safe and at ease.

For some, it comes down to "just getting lucky" by requiring very light to nearly zero screening and just happens to fall into the lap of an "established" hobbyist that writes her the first positive review that sets her on the road to being established. <== That was me 18 years ago btw lol

Again....I totally get where you are coming from with not wanting to give out personal info for screening. But how wonderful is it that there are so very many beautiful women to choose from that don't require it?

Just like deposits, higher rates than one wants to pay, and cancellation policies some aren't fond of....if her screening requirements are not to your liking, it's easy to just move on to the next.
Trust me, she wouldn't continue to run her business the way she is if it's not working for HER. :)

[DocHoliday]

Ask her to send you her personal information. Look, don’t share your personal information period!!! Let’s move on.

[Universal]

I totally understand where you're coming from here. And just like us Ladies ...."If it don't feel right, walk away"

But to give a little perspective from the Lady's point of view... An unestablished provider is going to sometimes have a hard time getting answers to reference checks for the same reason you don't want to give her your personal info.

She's "unknown". So answering in the positive when asked about a client with whom we hold trust without knowing that she is a legit provider (and not LE or a pissed of SO), we are showing a similar amount of indiscretion as you, the client, are trying to avoid.

See the conundrum? It's almost a "Chicken or Egg" situation. lol

She has a need to feel safe with the Gents she chooses to entertain so that she can feel at ease and provide the highest level of service so that she might become more established but she has to become established before quality Gents will trust her with the information she needs to screen so that she may feel safe and at ease.

For some, it comes down to "just getting lucky" by requiring very light to nearly zero screening and just happens to fall into the lap of an "established" hobbyist that writes her the first positive review that sets her on the road to being established. <== That was me 18 years ago btw lol

Again....I totally get where you are coming from with not wanting to give out personal info for screening. But how wonderful is it that there are so very many beautiful women to choose from that don't require it?

Just like deposits, higher rates than one wants to pay, and cancellation policies some aren't fond of....if her screening requirements are not to your liking, it's easy to just move on to the next.
Trust me, she wouldn't continue to run her business the way she is if it's not working for HER. :)

^^^This

[Phoenixx]

I want thoughts from hobbyist and providers on this issue.

This issue is your own personal problem, and it can be resolved by finding another provider...

[JessieJane]

Let's move on from the "Good ole boys club" and start realizing that ladies have way more at risk these days and if a asshat cant understand that then maybe he should hang up his hat.

On another note; K_bbw her response I hope sheds some light on the situation. Some guys need to step up their hobby minds to 2020. Not the good ole days ( for them). As guys continue to want face pics of ladies, sword swap with these reviews & gifs of acts in sessions constantly exposing ladies I hardly find verification being too much to ask. You hide behind a mask -multiple handles lol yet... expose ladies. On top of it if you dont want to assure the lady you are legit by submitting screening info.

Bottom line your always free to say no and move on.. not badger the lady for her standards.

[JessieJane]

This issue is your own personal problem, and it can be resolved by finding another provider...

Yup!

[Nascobar21]

Extortion is real

[Nightwatch]

Huh?

Who's in control of your money?


Use your head

[1RudePlayer]

Look, don’t share your personal information period!!! Let’s move on.

OR ever give a deposit!

[dwiserlaw]

Never never never share your personal info with anyone on this board. This is a hobby world and your real life world should be kept completely separate.

[LiveFree]

It doesn't matter if she's established or not established it doesn't make sense to give out your personal info. You have no way of knowing if your info will discarded safely and securely. Identity theft is real and it happens more commonly than one might think. If you have to go to those lengths just to meet you're better off looking elsewhere.

[Nascobar21]

It doesn't matter if she's established or not established it doesn't make sense to give out your personal info. You have no way of knowing if your info will discarded safely and securely. Identity theft is real and it happens more commonly than one might think. If you have to go to those lengths just to meet you're better off looking elsewhere.

Thank you

[Darksun000]

This issue is your own personal problem, and it can be resolved by finding another provider...

Luv not a personal problem. Sharing to make sure other hobbyist don't feel pressured due to inexperience and ever provide that info to a stranger in this hobby. There are many with ill intentions out there.