For married guys - Is eatin’ cheatin’?

[wyoming]

So that’s the question for all to weigh in on - Is eatin cheatin?

[L8nighter]

I would say sexual contact of any type is “cheating”... but it all depends on the marriage parameters. Hell you can “cheat” without ever making a physical contact as far as some are concerned... just having a deeply emotional and intimate conversation (not even sexual) could be considered by some women / men as cheating.

Define your own house rules first ... before you try to break them :)

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

It really depends upon who you ask and how one defines cheating. I agree with L8nighter.

In my own case, my wife and I married 30 years ago using the conventional vows. So yes, I am cheating. My wife agrees. But my cheating will never change the love I have for my wife, or that she has for me. We are both secure in our relationship and future together, despite my shenanigans.

OP, what is your opinion?

[london2012]

Ask Hillary Clinton if Bill was cheating with Monica.