Originally Posted by
Jizzin
I’m pretty average length wise but girth I’m over 6 inches and there’s been a few times where I just stopped because I could tell she was in pain. So as title states do any of you just have a limit and would be willing to turn away a guy because he is too big?
I doubt many women will chime in. Most likely they think it might be seen as alienating potential clients (?). Dunno 
As a well endowed man myself (~6.25in EL, ~6.5in EG at the base but more like 6.1-6.2 overall girth), and with my experiences over the years here is what I'd break it down to for the OP:
Fist off the "average man" statistics: 5.5in length, 4.6in girth (~1.46in "wide")
Women can deliver a baby and that would be a penis girth around 12.5-13.5in (~4+in wide) and there is no such thing in existence. Granted at that size there is immense pain too.
A girth of 7.75in translates to ~2.5in "wide/across". However, that likely doesn't even exist. Even 7.5in is so rare that only a handful of men on Earth would be that large. Even something like 7.25in girth is so rare it's probably on the order of 1 in 10,000,000 men if even that. Though, yes, they would likely cause discomfort and pain upon entry, definitely gasps, sighs, possible tearing without lube, needing relaxation, etc...
It also all depends on the woman. Some women, whether tiny short women, petite, super tall, large, etc.... will have a very disproportionately small vaginal entry and will experience more pain/discomfort depending on the mans size.
"SOME" PAIN/DISCOMFORT RANGES FOR LENGTH AND GIRTH:
GIRTH (pain/discomfort - remember this is different for every person, height, weight, size of their genitals, psyche, arousal, etc...):
~4.5-4.75in - This is the normal range for the average man and is what most women experience. About 1.45" across.
>5in - This is ~1/2in above the "average" guy and will not usually cause any discomfort except in the most extreme circumstances, anatomical issues, anxiety, arousal issues, lube, etc... However, it's quite a respectable and enjoyable size. This is the size that women picked for one night stands in a study where they chose 3D penis models but they didn't know the sizes beforehand, they just chose what they liked. Interestingly when asked for a long term partner the girth sizes they picked went down to an avg of 4.8in. The length IIRC was 5.75.
>5.5in - You could cause gasps or sighs upon entry, regular condoms will not fit well either, and vigorous sex could leave her sore.
>6in - You will easily make almost any woman gasp upon entry, some will tear with vigorous sex. I've had that happen multiple times with exes. As well as excessive soreness/bleeding for 1-3 days due to "marathon" sex sessions and so on. However, it's not a serious issue. Most handle this well and just need arousal, natural or artificial lube, relaxation, etc... What I love about it (personally) is this is the range where it actually moves the internal clitoral nerves and g-spot area closer to the clitoris (due to the stretching of the vaginal wall) and makes for being able to give "gushing" or intense or even explosive orgasms to women much more easily. I have done it a variety of times in my life with no toys, no finger hook trick, no hooked toy (makes it WAY easier with a hard hook device/vibe) but with my penis alone. Especially in mish position with girls legs raised up (best position to try for an internal/clitoral orgasm). The other good position is girl on top, depending on her anatomy, and she "rocks" her pelvis around. For girls who have the right anatomy and if you fit snug and fill it all out inside it can cause explosive orgasms as the internal "g-spot" nerves rub along the penis as she "rocks" her pelvis. I've had 2 exes and 1 or 2 fwb's (even in the hobby too) who have literally started gushing all over and didn't know what was happening (i.e. never experienced it before). Either in mish and it begins dripping down my balls or drips out all over my stomach while they are rocking their pelvis on top in CG. That is what the girl is doing btw when she rocks like that if any of you wonder why she he isn't "bouncing up and down" instead. It's b/c she knows she gets a better orgasm by rocking her pelvis (almost like a "twerk" motion) around to get the internal clitoral nerves to excite. If she doesn't do that she doesn't have that anatomy for it OR she's never experience it as of yet.
>6.5in - This is getting into insanely large territory, many will not want to put it in especially if the entire girth (overall girth, meaning all the way up/down the shaft) is 6.5+. For example like I said mine gets close to 6.4-6.5 all way at the base but is more like 6ish at the very tip so if I'm wanting to get a real idea of the total "volume" it's closer to 6.1 to 6.2 girth up/down the length. That's what I meant. Anyway if you are beyond 6.5+ you are in an ULTRA elite crowd (like seriously 99.99999%ile) and you will definitely cause many moans, gasps, sighs, and definitely certain women will tear or bleed with excessive sex, not enough relaxation lube, etc... SOME women will run from it and you will likely never do anal and most BJ's will suck pretty bad.
>7in - This is getting absurd at this point. This will cause discomfort for virtually any woman. Almost any woman can tear, bleed, or get very very sore with excessive sex. This is the range where breakups happen over sex b/c the man is simple too "thick". That being said many women can still likely do it pleasurably with proper arousal and lubrication. Even MORE women will run from this one and anal is all but impossible as well as a BJ.
>7.5in - Not many exist. I would doubt almost any claim I saw online, even with pictures, b/c I'd think they were photoshopped or otherwise faked. There are so few of these on Earth it's crazy. MANY women would run from this IF they ever encountered one and you would never ever be able to do anal or get a BJ.
There will always be certain women who are super sensitive, super small vaginal openings, whatever, that will get pain or discomfort likely beginning at anything beyond ~5.75in (getting close to 2" wide vs the average 4.6in girth or 1.46" wide); at least upon entry or without proper arousal/lube and/or she may experience soreness, chafing, or bleeding with vigorous sex.
LENGTH (pain/discomfort - remember this is different for every person, height, weight, size of their genitals, psyche, arousal, etc...):
~5.5in - This is the average penis length and is what most women experience as a result. Even this can hit the cervix though (which is "ouch" for the woman).
>6in - Very easy to cause pain by hitting the cervix when going all the way in. Realize that a vaginal canal is only 3in long on average and expands about 1-2in on average during arousal, therefore, even guys that are 5.5in in many positions can hit the cervix (quite painful for women).
>6.5in - Super easy to hit the cervix must be very careful in positions like doggy and such. When a girl jumps, yelps, says, "ouch, wait wait....", lunges forward, and so on... guess what just happened? Yep. You hit her cervix.
>7in - Getting quite long and you can't nearly put it all in except in certain positions due to cervix jabbing (again, maybe she has tilted uterus, or the cervix moves slightly with positions, or she has certain anatomical anomalies that make it easier to fully enter at this length)
>8in - Super large territory and you can't ever go all the way in except in the most extreme or unique anatomical situations or positions without jabbing the insides and the cervix.
>9in - Too long. You will never go all the way in and you will jab and poke everything. You will have to learn to be careful during most sex encounters and positions.
Skimming is always great too
It didn't look that long on my 32in monitor but now on my phone yea a little lol.
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