Originally Posted by
MarkWatney
Sometimes foreplay even begins before the session in the setup for the appointment. If it's someone you've seen before, it may including sexting, like naughty pics from the gal, or ideas for the next get-together. If you get the vibe that the gal likes to be more discreet in texts, there's still words of reassurance, like "I've been wanting to see you", "I loved the pics in your ad", or even something as simple as the xoxoxo in the greeting can be evocative.
Once you get to the room, foreplay usually starts even before things move to the bed. Hugs and kisses at the door, a little light fondling, words like "You look lovely" or "I'm so horny for you". Long appreciative glances across the room while getting undressed. Even the act of leaving the donation and then excusing yourself to go to the bathroom so that the gal has time to check that everything is in order, since that simple act establishes trust, consideration, and good will.
Then of course there's all the usual attentions like gentle kisses on the lips, neck, earlobes, and breasts, taking your sweet time and maybe keeping her waiting for awhile, so that when you ease your way down to her honey pot, it is especially juicy from the anticipation. Hands are also important, and it feels kind of adoring to hold her face in your hands while kissing her, stroking her hair, gently exploring the curves of her figure. Worshiping her legs, feet, and ass may also come to play if the spirit moves you.
I have a bit of an oral fixation, so I like to linger over DATY and savor the taste, shape, and texture of her lady parts. If butt-hole privileges are also on the menu, then DATO is also a special treat. As to how long it should last, it usually lasts until long after my neck starts getting tired, and then at some point I just can't go on anymore. It's so much fun to give the gal pleasure and imagine her thinking, "Wow I'm getting paid for this. What a great job I have."
Then I just lay back and let her do her magic with her hands and mouth on Mr. Happy and The Boys. With any luck, she'll come up for more kisses or sit on my face while she's doing her magic.
The main event can be kind of challenging because the hat gets in the way of the sensation, so it's hard for me to finish that way. Female condoms help, and they work for me about half the time. When it doesn't, then I usually ask for more foreplay and finish that way. Maybe it's not technically foreplay at that point, but whatever you call it, it's still pretty spectacular.
So I'd estimate that in a one hour session, at least half to three-quarters of the time is spent in some kind of foreplay or another, with the rest divided between wild animal humping and the occasional break for pillow talk and catching our breath, before one of us starts back into fondling and the buildup of sexual tension again, and then back to the races. I haven't noticed any change in the foreplay-to-humping ratio over subsequent visits with a lady, or even with different ladies. It's pretty much a constant with me.
My absolute favorite is a two-hour session, but only after I know that we have chemistry. Chemistry depends on a lot of factors, and it's hard to pin down what they all are. It's just there or it isn't, and it takes a certain amount of effort and patience to maintain, but there also has to be chemistry. Kind of a Catch-22, and you can't make it happen until you can.
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