What we go through... Just to have fun!

[The Infamous One]

Geez! After reading about a controlled provider, it made me think about all the things WE, as hobbyist & provider, go through just to have a little adult consenting fun!😒

Good job to the guy that pointed that out. Although, at what point, do you say someone is being represented or managed willingly vs some one who is not? It makes me really sad and angry that this goes on. I don’t want to get into a philosophical debate about what’s right or wrong. Quite simply, if you don’t want to be here, I hope no one has to. I would like to think that no one would willingly see a person that they knew was not here on their own free will. Sadly, it happens. Let me find out! I’d lay my life down for another that was being hurt or victimized like that.

I digress. Anyway, it got me to thinking about what we all go through and how we could make each other feel safer, in this hobby. Personally, I’d love to see newbies, as I love the thought of being their first experience, but I just can not risk it! Unless, you’d like to fork over your ID with a selfie that matches and I wouldn’t blame anyone who didn’t want to do that in this day and age.

I thought about what you guys must feel like going to see a new lady. In the back of your mind, you must feel, at least, a little apprehensive about that. What if she has a dude or a pimp that’s laying in wait to rob you or worse? Ladies, and I can only speak for myself, must worry about LE, getting outed and the costs of that like cps, losing your normal job or career, rape, robbery, stalkers and worse... death! With so much ugliness in the world, how can we mitigate these risks and just fucking have fun as two happily willing & consenting adults?!

I, for one, miss the more wholesome days when two human beings could just have fun! I’m so happy that verification sites, like this one and others exist! But, still the risk runs high.

If I know someone has seen my lady friends on here, that personally helps me to feel more comfortable!

What helps you guys/ladies feel more comfortable besides screening and the obvious?

[WiskerBilly]

What helps you guys/ladies feel more comfortable besides screening and the obvious?

A government that stays out of my personal business. I usually only hobby in Germany/Spain/UK/Ireland, as hobbying between two consenting adults is mostly legal in those countries. Street walking, brothels, and other scenarios where exploitation/trafficking are common are not legal nor should they be.

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

WB, some of us don’t have the luxury of hobbying overseas. We have to deal with this third world backward culture we live in.

It’s a shame that women are at such risk of being exploited or controlled. It’s also a shame that we need screening. But that’s a function of where we live.

I’ve never been asked to provide personal information that I was reluctant to provide. I am thankful that technology makes screening and verification easier. That’s why I’m here. But if I had to feel more comfortable, I probably wouldn’t be here.

[The Infamous One]

Yes. A government that would stay out of grown up’s bedrooms would be nice!!

[DocHoliday]

We have to deal with this third world backward culture we live in.

I will speak to this ^^^^ as a veteran. If you feel this ^^^^ way, please feel free to apply for citizenship and move to N. Korea, Russia, China, Cuba, Laos, or Vietnam. I’m sure their first world communist culture is more to your liking.

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

I will speak to this ^^^^ as a veteran. If you feel this ^^^^ way, please feel free to apply for citizenship and move to N. Korea, Russia, China, Cuba, Laos, or Vietnam. I’m sure their first world communist culture is more to your liking.

Get bent Dorc. I too am a veteran. Big fucking deal. You’re so full of shit. Not worth the effort to argue with a imbecile like you. Go troll somewhere else.

With all due respect of course.

[Mdasterdly]

Get bent Dorc. I too am a veteran. Big fucking deal. You’re so full of shit. Not worth the effort to argue with a imbecile like you. Go troll somewhere else.

I agree! Doc is a troll. Why does he feel the need to post his opinions to only provoke others? Does doc not respect differing opinions and beliefs? Guess not.

[Mdasterdly]

The govt should stay outta the bedroom!

However pimping controlling trafficking others should be a more serious crime than it is now! Sad to say that there are others here that do not think that this is serious!

[Universal]

The real kryptonites spoke my exact thoughts....

[MarkWatney]

Also a veteran, and it doesn't offend me when people complain about our backward culture. Seems to me that the reason we served was to promote freedom, including freedom of speech, and also life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Does that ring a bell?

Problem is that we have a nanny state run by religious fanatics who feel it's their duty to protect us from our own choices. Not all religious people think that way, and some believe that we have free will to make our own choices and live with the consequences.

Telling people who complain to go somewhere else is kind of lame, especially when the problem they're complaining about is valid and reasonable.

[Austin Ellen]

Let's just stick to the topic. It's a good one.

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

Also a veteran, and it doesn't offend me when people complain about our backward culture. Seems to me that the reason we served was to promote freedom, including freedom of speech, and also life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Does that ring a bell?

Problem is that we have a nanny state run by religious fanatics who feel it's their duty to protect us from our own choices. Not all religious people think that way, and some believe that we have free will to make our own choices and live with the consequences.

Telling people who complain to go somewhere else is kind of lame, especially when the problem they're complaining about is valid and reasonable.

Thanks Mark, for your service and your opinion. I agree with you. A reasonably intelligent reader would understand that I was referring to a culture that includes not just the good old USA, but many other countries. As you alluded, the problem is first religious, and by extension, political.

Why, prostitution is illegal even in Russia and a China. SMFH

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

Let's just stick to the topic. It's a good one.

Yes it is. Apologies for the detour.

[Phoenixx]

Yes it is. Apologies for the detour.

no need for you to apologize.

you didn't start it

What helps you guys/ladies feel more comfortable besides screening and the obvious?

Good vibes x

[GeorgeDRII]

I like the idea of ladies screening Nikki. Safety first. I served 22 years jumping out of airplaines behind enemy lines so believe me, I know about safety and attention to detail. Guys your safety and the ladies safety on this site is one of our main concerns. As well as being civil and respectful of each others opinions. I'm not religious nor do i follow the circus show of our government. So that stuff is not one of my things to talk about while I'm hobbying, unless they try to impede on my privacy.

The exchange of money for services rendered between consenting adults is what it's all about. See what i just said there? Nothing sounded "illegal" did it? It's all in the wording. Now human trafficking, I'm a total enemy of that situation especially involving under age people! Seeing what i saw in my military career, in unmentionable places I've been while in the Special Operations Community for my career.

But again when it comes to us hobbying? The government needs to keep their noses out of our personal business as long as no one gets hurt and no underage trafficking is involved, then it's all good. Take a good look at where other countries it IS legal. Then other countries where they're hypocrites i.e. Russia, China blah blah blah...some countries found safe ways to control it. Others are just hypocritical and try to cover it up. What do legal porn sites and this one have that are different? Nothing really. The porn actresses and actors get paid to fuck and film it. We pay here to fuck and fetishes and chose to be discrete amongst us here. No real difference if you ask me. Plus some of the actors and actresses over there have booking agents also.

What it all boils down to, is government and religious people need to respect our privacy and freedom here in my opinion.