Opinions from Ladies and Gents please...

[Alyssa Monroe]

A very close friend of mine and I were having a very interesting conversation yesterday.

Long story short:
She just started doing incall at her private residence in Dallas and she explained how she doesn't take anyone to her bedroom during the first encounter with a new gent. She felt it was too intimate for a first encounter being that her very personal things are in there and that's where she winds down and lays her head. She only allows gents she's built a steady bond with into her personal space.

On a spiritual level, I totally understand this. In a hotel your free to be all over over the place lol and leave that energy there but at home, you do have to be cautious of the vibes, energy and spirits people drop off.

I'm really interested in what the gents think of this.
Would this bother you?
Is it too deep for some people?
Have any providers ever thought about or considered this?

[Bankshots]

Stop being so cheap and rent a 2 bedroom.

[Alyssa Monroe]

Stop being so cheap and rent a 2 bedroom.

LMAO... That may trigger someone

[Trex77]

I get the whole personal space thing. But it sounds like she wants her cake and eat it too. It might be better for her to just have incall at a hotel. I don't think I would mind either way but sofa>air mattress

[Alyssa Monroe]

I get the whole personal space thing. But it sounds like she wants her cake and eat it too. It might be better for her to just have incall at a hotel. I don't think I would mind either way but sofa>air mattress

I agree an air mattress is the worst thing to be on when doing naked wrestling

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

My private residential incall is my bedroom.
It is the same room and bed where I lay my head at night.
I take great care to make sure my "personal" items are removed from sight before a Gent arrives and then the room easily reverts to my personal space before I "lay me down to sleep" lol

I'm a simple gal and not much of a decorator to begin with. So this is easy for me.
Others may not feel the same.

[Alyssa Monroe]

My private residential incall is my bedroom.
It is the same room and bed where I lay my head at night.
I take great care to make sure my "personal" items are removed from sight before a Gent arrives and then the room easily reverts to my personal space before I "lay me down to sleep" lol

I'm a simple gal and not much of a decorator to begin with. So this is easy for me.
Others may not feel the same.

Thank you. I enjoy reading your responses!

[Brooke Wilde]

She sounds like a fruit cake. I can't even begin to pretend to understand her views.

As someone else mentioned, she should've just gotten a 2 bedroom.

I think it's completely unrealistic to be a prostitute, with an incall & not provide a bed. Hopefully her rate reflects her lack of accommodations.

[Cameron]

Get a 2 bedroom- there are plenty around. Go to a PI, or also get a weekly extended stay. You want your guys to feel as relaxed & comfortable as possible.

[lowendtheory]

I get the whole personal space thing. But it sounds like she wants her cake and eat it too. It might be better for her to just have incall at a hotel. I don't think I would mind either way but sofa>air mattress

agreed. just get an incall at a hotel.

[Alyssa Monroe]

She sounds like a fruit cake. I can't even begin to pretend to understand her views.

As someone else mentioned, she should've just gotten a 2 bedroom.

I think it's completely unrealistic to be a prostitute, with an incall & not provide a bed. Hopefully her rate reflects her lack of accommodations.

Lol a fruitcake.. obviously no one knows her actual situation.. She's my real friend so I sympathize with her, I understand what she means. But I appreciate the responses ladies. A 2 bed is a good solution. Or just get a hotel room and let loose.

I personally don't care if we're on a bed, a kitchen counter, a floor, a chair, a table, a couch or bent over in the shower lol... I'm an explorer.

[DocHoliday]

So OP, where do they throw down in not in her bedroom?

[Alyssa Monroe]

So OP, where do they throw down in not in her bedroom?

She has a really nice futon in her living room with plush pillows. I honestly thought that was a good solution as far as comfortability and convenience goes.

[RamTheJam]

Reminds me of the joke...
Why do you keep interrupting me, by asking who I'm voting for President,... That's personal!!
I was trying to describe screwing my ex in the ass last night, but you keep asking me personal questions.

I just coined a new one...
"You can come in my face, but not in my bedroom."

[The1Slayer]

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